Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)

[LadyC 1]

Morning Yardies....What did I miss? How is everyone doing?

[MRStee 19]

Okay ladies, so I had the opportunity to speak to Jazzy (son's possible baby momma) and I asked her if she had the abortion. She said no. I asked why, she said she didn't have all the money. Sooooooo I asked her how she felt about everything and was their a possibility of her keeping it. She said that although she doesn't like the abortion thing, she knows the situation with her and my son isn't good and she can barely take care of her son. So I asked her what were her plans. She said to move to a bigger house. I asked her if she had anything saved up. She said 1200.00 (Pause) if you have money saved for a house then you have money for the abortion....(Unpause) Now doesn't this sound like she wants to keep this baby to keep my son in her world? Anyhooooo, I asked how far along she was, she said 9 weeks. I asked her had she been to the doctor, she said no but she had an appt for 2/12 (Ironically my son's birthday). So I said look, I don't mean any harm but if you do keep the baby, I want a DNA test done. I said Im not saying you are "loose" but I need to know. If in fact it is his, HE will step up to the plate and handle his business and I will help as much as I can. She said okay. I also asked about other family members and she said that her biological sister (who she lives with) is the only one she has contact with because the rest of her family is no good. Her parents are deceased. She is 19 yrs old. I think she gets disability....

In my heart, I believe the baby is his. My daughter and I was talking and when things were good between the two, they were telling each other what they would name their son/daughter... deep down inside I think they BOTH wanted a child. Well you know what they say, becareful what you wish for.

My feeling is that I WILL NOT give this heffa money for an abortion because she has it. However, if my son has it and doesn't want to be a dad, he will handle that. On the otherhand, if she keeps it and its a known fact to be my son's then I will help out the best way I can.....

Morning Yardies....What did I miss? How is everyone doing?

Morning Lady... Den's man is here, Kjenkins dumb co worker, Bunz dilemma and my rassclot son lol

[*JG* 2]

I danced to Johnny Gills song You for me.. Love, Love, Love it.. The words are great.

Pv-gQ3lI-lU

Not rub you the right way?

[finesse 3]

Very true. Five years in and I still hear crazy stories. Someone told yesterday that Damien is going to take my baby back to JA once he's born

Two weeks ago a co-worker called him a sugar daddy for taking care of his responsibilites like paying bills. When I told a friend she said I was more like a sugar momma. I asked her how and she had no response

I was told by a few vets they were extremely envious that Damien and I made it this far So you never know who is happy for you.

You have to have tough skin in these relationships.

yuh juss gimme joke!!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

big belly finesse wah a gwaane ow life a run?

[sus 70]

Yup She sure did..

Family hasn't said it to me but I know that they're saying "oh boy, another man that wants a green card" coz my sister did the same for her husband and after 3 kids and his greencard he left...

But I have to learn that people are nosey and will always have something bad to say

After 20 years marriage and two kids my brother in law's sister got a divorce - her husband was cheating on her, in a long relationship with another woman, and posted profiles on various sex sites - if it's gonna happen, it's gonna happen, no matter what country they are from.

Okay ladies, so I had the opportunity to speak to Jazzy (son's possible baby momma) and I asked her if she had the abortion. She said no. I asked why, she said she didn't have all the money. Sooooooo I asked her how she felt about everything and was their a possibility of her keeping it. She said that although she doesn't like the abortion thing, she knows the situation with her and my son isn't good and she can barely take care of her son. So I asked her what were her plans. She said to move to a bigger house. I asked her if she had anything saved up. She said 1200.00 (Pause) if you have money saved for a house then you have money for the abortion....(Unpause) Now doesn't this sound like she wants to keep this baby to keep my son in her world? Anyhooooo, I asked how far along she was, she said 9 weeks. I asked her had she been to the doctor, she said no but she had an appt for 2/12 (Ironically my son's birthday). So I said look, I don't mean any harm but if you do keep the baby, I want a DNA test done. I said Im not saying you are "loose" but I need to know. If in fact it is his, HE will step up to the plate and handle his business and I will help as much as I can. She said okay. I also asked about other family members and she said that her biological sister (who she lives with) is the only one she has contact with because the rest of her family is no good. Her parents are deceased. She is 19 yrs old. I think she gets disability....

In my heart, I believe the baby is his. My daughter and I was talking and when things were good between the two, they were telling each other what they would name their son/daughter... deep down inside I think they BOTH wanted a child. Well you know what they say, becareful what you wish for.

My feeling is that I WILL NOT give this heffa money for an abortion because she has it. However, if my son has it and doesn't want to be a dad, he will handle that. On the otherhand, if she keeps it and its a known fact to be my son's then I will help out the best way I can.....

Sounds like she wants to keep the baby Mrstee - if she truly didn't want it, she had the funds - or there is always adoption if she can't care for a child - lots of options, I agree with you on insisting on the DNA test.

[*JG* 2]

Very true. Five years in and I still hear crazy stories. Someone told yesterday that Damien is going to take my baby back to JA once he's born

Two weeks ago a co-worker called him a sugar daddy for taking care of his responsibilites like paying bills. When I told a friend she said I was more like a sugar momma. I asked her how and she had no response

I was told by a few vets they were extremely envious that Damien and I made it this far So you never know who is happy for you.

You have to have tough skin in these relationships.

Why in the world would people be envious of you making it this far? Jesus.....why can't people just be happy for other people's happiness. I'm so sick of that shyt.

The rest of that you said, Shem, I suck teeth at. Although he probably will take the baby back to JA.....just not how they are suggesting. Dumbasses!

[1luv 1]

Lawny weh u a deal wid?

Finesse when is ur due date?

[LadyC 1]

Okay ladies, so I had the opportunity to speak to Jazzy (son's possible baby momma) and I asked her if she had the abortion. She said no. I asked why, she said she didn't have all the money. Sooooooo I asked her how she felt about everything and was their a possibility of her keeping it. She said that although she doesn't like the abortion thing, she knows the situation with her and my son isn't good and she can barely take care of her son. So I asked her what were her plans. She said to move to a bigger house. I asked her if she had anything saved up. She said 1200.00 (Pause) if you have money saved for a house then you have money for the abortion....(Unpause) Now doesn't this sound like she wants to keep this baby to keep my son in her world? Anyhooooo, I asked how far along she was, she said 9 weeks. I asked her had she been to the doctor, she said no but she had an appt for 2/12 (Ironically my son's birthday). So I said look, I don't mean any harm but if you do keep the baby, I want a DNA test done. I said Im not saying you are "loose" but I need to know. If in fact it is his, HE will step up to the plate and handle his business and I will help as much as I can. She said okay. I also asked about other family members and she said that her biological sister (who she lives with) is the only one she has contact with because the rest of her family is no good. Her parents are deceased. She is 19 yrs old. I think she gets disability....

In my heart, I believe the baby is his. My daughter and I was talking and when things were good between the two, they were telling each other what they would name their son/daughter... deep down inside I think they BOTH wanted a child. Well you know what they say, becareful what you wish for.

My feeling is that I WILL NOT give this heffa money for an abortion because she has it. However, if my son has it and doesn't want to be a dad, he will handle that. On the otherhand, if she keeps it and its a known fact to be my son's then I will help out the best way I can.....

Morning Lady... Den's man is here, Kjenkins dumb co worker, Bunz dilemma and my rassclot son lol

Hi MrsTee...Call me if you need to Rant...

I saw on FB that he is here ....Congrats Den bed pop down...

KJ sweetie next time tell your co-worker to go Suck a Rotten Cucumber

Now as for your son...I know you love him and you want the best for him but sometimes we just have to let them handle their situation and learn from it. When I got pregnat at 18 I did not tell my mom until I was 4 months ( I used Ketchup to act like I was still seeing my period) she was pissed. She found out on a saturday and by Monday she took me off her insurance. By wednesday she give me a brown envelope with an appointment to the doctor and Medicaid Forms to fill out. She told me I can either Grow up or Grow down. Well I grew up fast. When my daughter was born I had a job and I moved out when she was 6 months (I asked my mom to give me 6 months to get my self together). She did not want me to go but our house was too crowded. I have never moved back with my mom and about 3 years ago she wrote me a letter telling me how proud she was of how I handle my life. So if I wrer you I would step back and let him handle it. Step in only if its really needed....

[dillon 6]

Good Morning Yardies!!!!!

my2 your day almost 3 weeks away...getting excited for you!

I walked down to the isle to Eric Benet and Tamia singing Spend My Life With You

After the wedding we walked out to Tarus Riley singing Stay with you. Now I let him pick out the first dance song and he picked Boyz to Men I'll Make Love To You.....

[*JG* 2]

After God knows how many years of travelling to Jamaica and other places, there are only so many pics of the beach you can have - Plus, my trips to Negril over the years have been with various people, so the pics are not going to be posted publicly anymore

[finesse 3]

Lawny weh u a deal wid?

Finesse when is ur due date?

4/12

[*JG* 2]

It's a shame how misery loves company. People just miserable for no reason and want you to join their little club....

EXACTLY. Why do haters seem to congregate?????

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Lawny weh u a deal wid?

1luv mi deh yah...my husband loves driving in the snow (can you believe that)...poor me I HATE it! we got up early and shoveled also did our neighbors driveway and sidewalk, they both had surgery...when we had the last snow fall they helped my husband because I was on bedrest. It's good to have nice neighbors.

[sus 70]

LMAO - Why Wow - Maybe I should clarify that - My trips to JA have been TAKEN with various people that I was in a relationship with at the time - Sound better?