Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)

[NatPatBen 3]

MrsTee, please encourage your daughter to take the advanced classes if she can. They will help her SO MUCH in college.

[phillyfashionista 8]

Oh AZ sounds nice too! I drove to the Grand Canyon from Maine when I was in college (hippie road trip)... Went to Flagstaff.... saw snow... drove down to Tucson to see the cactus... Oh I loved it! The only thing for me is I like to live near a body of water!

Philly ... if you go, I will go!

LOL can you imagine my garden it would be the amazon for real!

LOL.... me with some REDDDDD hair... but the bottom is hippie me at the Grand Canyon!

OOH I love those pics LOL was that a wig or dye?

For Philadelphia and surrounding areas, Jersey, Delaware

A perfect treat to sweeten up your

winter!

Sugar and Spice on Ice will take place on Sunday February 7, 2010 from 1:00 to 5:00 p.m. at the Blue Cross RiverRink at Penn’s Landing, Columbus Boulevard at Market Street.

Ice skaters and candy lovers will be treated to a special weekend that features sweets! Candy crafts and samples will delight the young and young at heart. Visitors will also have the opportunity to participate in interactive “Sweet Skills” games that will put their skills and love of sweets to the test. From chocolate chip cookie eating contests, to name that flavor and guess the spice along with fun food trivia and Chocolate guessing jars, there will be “sweet” fun for the whole family!

Just in time for Valentine’s Day there will also be special the chance to make “love bug” clip magnets as a make and take craft. Free Valentine’s themed face painting and free Sweetheart photos and photo keepsakes will add to the excitement and offer something for everyone!

For those with a sweet tooth, there will be complimentary sweet samples and tasty treats.

Local chefs will perform demonstrations of confections and various sweet treats with of course free samples for all who participate while local vendors will have their sweet treasures available for sampling or to take home to a loved one. Chef David Solow of Hard Rock Philadelphia will demonstrate two “mini” desserts now available on their menu. Originally from Brooklyn New York, Chef Solow will create a Mini Strawberry Cheesecake which is described as a miniature version New York style cheese cake mixed with a buttery graham cracker crust and laced with a strawberry sauce as well as a Mini Chocolate and Caramel Cheesecake. The latter is a miniature version New York style cheese cake mixed with a buttery graham cracker crust and laced with chocolate and caramel sauce. After working off the “sugar rush” by ice skating on the Olympic size skating rink, visitors can catch a few moments of a favorite SWEET film about honey, the BEE Movie, which will be broadcast on the giant video wall to keep within the theme of the event.

Radio stations Wired 96.5 and 92.5 WXTU will be on site throughout the afternoon with games and prizes.

Sugar and Spice on Ice activities are free to the public. Skating admission is $8.00 per person (skate rental is $3.00) and are available during the delicious event from 12:30 to 2:30 p.m. and from 3:00 to 5:30 p.m.

Independence Blue Cross is the founding and presenting sponsor of the Blue Cross RiverRink. The Delaware River Waterfront Corporation owns and operates the Blue Cross RiverRink. Other sponsors include: TD Bank, CBS 3 and the CW Philly and the Greater Philadelphia Tourism Marketing Corporation.

Hard Rock Cafe Philadelphia a unique venue in the heart of Center City, offering locals and visitors alike great food, fantastic atmosphere! Come in and try one of our several Legendary Burgers, smokehouse bar-b-que ribs, chicken or pulled pork. Don’t forget our succulent desserts out of our scratch kitchen. Cool vibe, awesome food, one of a kind merchandise, all make for an Authentic Experience that Rocks!

The Blue Cross RiverRink is located at Columbus Boulevard at Market Street. For more information on SUGAR AND SPICE ON ICE, skating times, lessons, birthday parties or private sessions, please call 215.925.RINK or visit http://www.riverrink.com./

Girl why the last time I was at the rink it was for a birthday party and all the ice was melting

This sounds fun though but I am not a fan of ice skating but I will go for the treats LOL

[MRStee 19]

For those parents struggling with spelling. You really have to be patient and work on sounds... when you are saying the words to them ennunciate clearly as you can so they get it. Spelling is nothing but repetition. As long as you do that, you should be okay. When they are not doing spelling and your out and about make it a game show them a word and ask them to spell it. Challenge them as much as you can...

EXACTLY.. thats the problem.. when she says the word everyday and writes the word everyday

she gets 100

when you LOOK at the paper everyday.. you will get a 80.. point blank..

you cannot expect to make the grade w/out doing the work and she does NOT want to do the work when she is used to making a 100 without it..she doesn't understand the words are getting more difficult and it requires a different approach..

but this past six weeks was her wake up call when she saw that big 85 on her report card..

she is not giving me so much drama when i remind her to write her words

Well that is self-motivation and progress, be thankful for that cause some children just don't get it... Now thats shes got it, she just needs to be encouraged to keep on getting it. I think that you should make a big deal everytime she gets a passing grade like "See, I told you you can do it, your doing so good!!! Imagine what you will get when you study a little more..."

[Ellsinlove 2]

I tried THE dress on last night and it fits woooohoooo I am so happy! Hard work does pay off now just have to stay on track for the remaining 12 days

Haaaaaa Damian was telling Roman his best friend a Yard that we were in the Subway and 2 guys were kissing right in front of him He was very still and slowly backed up. He never made a negative comment he is getting better not used it but knowing that its a part of life here and its the way it is. I am so proud of him

YAY PHILLY! YOU DID IT! We knew you could! Yes, just be on good behavior for the next 12 days & then you can enjoy the big day.

This is a strange new batty world for JA men! LOL! Lehi is also having to learn 'tolerance'.

Now adding his name to the list is Sizzla Kalonji. Sizzla was arrested on Wednesday by Jamaica's St Andrew parish Central police following reports that gunshots were fired at a group of people at a river in August Town.

These reggae stars...I tell ya. I still enjoy their music but I never realized to what extent so many of these guys are complete hypocrites. They sing one thing & live another. Guess you just have to recognize that & understand that what they sing is what we should strive for vs. what actually happens & just enjoy it for what it is...nice music.

Funny you should say that. My daughter has BOYS on the brain.. but I just keep reminding her that Rashida will become her new mother! and I hold her phone over her head. Like yesterday she had to get her math homework off the school website except she can't remember her log in and password. I told her do you honestly think your teacher is going to want to hear that excuse. You are in high school now, no more hand holding for you. It's time to step up to the plate and be responsible. She got a detention for not having a book covered. My child is lazy. She is also good though. They wanted to put her in advance math (she don't get that from me) but she would have been the only 9th grader with 10th graders and she didn't want that. They want to put her in advance Spanish because she is really good at it but won't speak it if she doesn't have to. She said no to that also....

Whereas my son doesn't study for anything! He is very book smart. He just doesn't make good choices. Why did he tell me that the teacher gives them two hours to study voc. words and definitions for them...He gets so upset because he is done so quickly so he helps the other kids. He has done so much extra credit, they have no more for him to do. He is at a technical school to become a medical assistant.. When he graduates he will have 45 college credits. He has decided to become a doctor. Funny thing is, I can see him doing it. He has a way with people, very charming (a bs artist on the low, lol) People are always impressed. He looks gangsta but acts super professional using big words and all lol.

I hope your daughter stays smart about dumb boys. There is PLENTY of time for that. What's important now is the education & getting her life started in a good way...without any of that other mess that will take away her childhood.

Reading these challenges with the kids & studying makes me realize I'm not alone (as far as helping Lehi goes) but it also seriously makes me question if I'm cut out for the job of parent. I can't do it....it's too hard!

Props to all the parents out there who do DO it!

For those parents struggling with spelling. You really have to be patient and work on sounds... when you are saying the words to them ennunciate clearly as you can so they get it. Spelling is nothing but repetition. As long as you do that, you should be okay. When they are not doing spelling and your out and about make it a game show them a word and ask them to spell it. Challenge them as much as you can...

Thanks Ells, I have already but the bug in my daughter's ear to take her step-father shopping! I can lend you my daughter Ells to give Lehi ideas

Good advice with the spelling help! I try to do some of that with hubby too.

Yes, please! Lehi has gotten complacent....he needs help. Two V-days in a row I've bought him a card & tried to make the day special. I didn't expect a card or anything but after two of them, he should kinda get it that it's supposed to be a special day. I don't foresee any extra effort on his part to do anything special.

My daughter was accepted into Temple University Her top pick school. I'm so happy and proud of her .

Congrats to your daughter Shemmy! Good for her! But I also can't believe you have a daughter old enough to go to university.

Edited February 2, 2010 by Ellsinlove

[Shemmy 4]

alright shemster.. where is that school now?? will she be free? lol

Free? I wish. We are waiting for 3 in-state schools responses. Temple is in Philly. It was her top pick because of their Japanese and Education programs. She'll get lots of scholarships I'm sure.

[MRStee 19]

MrsTee, please encourage your daughter to take the advanced classes if she can. They will help her SO MUCH in college.

Nat this has been an uphill battle with her...I don't even think she wants to go to college. Her high school, however, is designed that way. We just happen to live in one of the best school districts in PA. They have this thing called Emerald Academy and its strictly college prep courses. She was disaapointed because she couldn't get in because of her middle school grades, but at the same time, the boy thing is blocking her brain I was telling Ells Steve keeps telling her boys are dumb lol...

I explained to her while her brother excels, her and I both struggle and Im in college. I try very hard to lead by example. When Im studying I encourage her to study with me. I have her testing me. When I need to go to the library, I bring her with me. The scary part is she is aware of her looks and I don't know if she thinks her beauty is going to be her ticket to success...

Im still pushing and will continue to push... Just like her brother, she needs to be prodded but once she is there, she will excel. I know it! Thanks for the advice

[DedicatedWife 4]

Our Advance Parole petition was touched today! Strangely, I dreamed that one of our cases was touched last night, and was disappointed when I checked this morning. But by lunchtime, it was touched. I hope it gets approved soon, as Steven is eagerly awaiting visiting his family/friends.

Awesome, are you guys planning a return trip together to JA?

[Ellsinlove 2]

I finally got a chance to mail off the AOS package today. We couldn't get Ivan's medical exam until Saturday so that delayed things slightly. I sure hope we can make the wedding to JA in April, but its not looking good...

Congrats Char on the next step!

I am now up to 160 "Reply all" emails to the spam one this morning

GEEZ LOUISE people! You'd think after all this time, most computer users would be more savvy than that....apparently not!

Our Advance Parole petition was touched today! Strangely, I dreamed that one of our cases was touched last night, and was disappointed when I checked this morning. But by lunchtime, it was touched. I hope it gets approved soon, as Steven is eagerly awaiting visiting his family/friends.

Congrats Nat! Weird how you dreamt it first!

I know your girls will be great.. They have a good support system at home and thats where it begins..... Don't be too hard on them with Roger. I think spending time with just him will help alot. I usually leave Steve and Kay on their own. I go in my room and fall back. Then when I go get something to drink or the bathroom, they are either laughin it up, playin dominoes/cards or serious convo cause they both look at me like and then keep talking lol so I know progress is always being made. As much as I fuss about things on here that is the one thing Im blessed about. How well they have accepted Steve and that is half the battle!!!

[MRStee 19]

LOL can you imagine my garden it would be the amazon for real!

OOH I love those pics LOL was that a wig or dye?

Girl why the last time I was at the rink it was for a birthday party and all the ice was melting

This sounds fun though but I am not a fan of ice skating but I will go for the treats LOL

Lawwwwwwwd.. Steve said nope, no skating for him lol.. How about he was braggin yesterday about how easy bowling is and he could feel when he was gonna get a strike??? Ol punk lol

[IrieCat 2]

LOL can you imagine my garden it would be the amazon for real!

OOH I love those pics LOL was that a wig or dye?

That was dye! Manic Panic! It was fire engine metalic red! Woooo!

I would love a big garden too... Louis as well. He planted all the fruit trees and plants in his mom's yard. I would LOVE IT!

[dancehallquana 5]

ells.. i feel ya 100%

girl God knew what kind of children to give me, cuz i know i dont' have patience for alot of things..

i often wonder how Roger's kids will be with their schoolwork knowing that the mom does most if not all of the work in that area..but from what i can tell, they are WIZ's when it comes to their studies..

and girl.. i have told mista this ova and ova.. he is just used to kids being more welcoming i guess..

[Ellsinlove 2]

Lawwwwwwwd.. Steve said nope, no skating for him lol.. How about he was braggin yesterday about how easy bowling is and he could feel when he was gonna get a strike??? Ol punk lol

BOASY!!

[dancehallquana 5]

Thank you Q, you know I will! For my son its major because he was almost a lost soul but now he has that sparkle in his eye.. aint no stopping him now. With my daughter, I have to keep on pushin...

I know your girls will be great.. They have a good support system at home and thats where it begins..... Don't be too hard on them with Roger. I think spending time with just him will help alot. I usually leave Steve and Kay on their own. I go in my room and fall back. Then when I go get something to drink or the bathroom, they are either laughin it up, playin dominoes/cards or serious convo cause they both look at me like and then keep talking lol so I know progress is always being made. As much as I fuss about things on here that is the one thing Im blessed about. How well they have accepted Steve and that is half the battle!!!

You are SOOOOO blessed with that tee.. i will do the holy dance the day i come home and see that happening..roger feels lonely cuz they in the room all the time.. well dyam, they don't wanna look at soccer and sanford and son, so what do you expect?? lol

philly!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

congrats on the dress girl.. i know you are sooooooo proud of yourself!

[MRStee 19]

YAY PHILLY! YOU DID IT! We knew you could! Yes, just be on good behavior for the next 12 days & then you can enjoy the big day.

This is a strange new batty world for JA men! LOL! Lehi is also having to learn 'tolerance'.

Reading these challenges with the kids & studying makes me realize I'm not alone (as far as helping Lehi goes) but it also seriously makes me question if I'm cut out for the job of parent. I can't do it....it's too hard!

Props to all the parents out there who do DO it!

Good advice with the spelling help! I try to do some of that with hubby too.

Yes, please! Lehi has gotten complacent....he needs help. Two V-days in a row I've bought him a card & tried to make the day special. I didn't expect a card or anything but after two of them, he should kinda get it that it's supposed to be a special day. I don't foresee any extra effort on his part to do anything special.

Batty bwoys! They can't handle it lmao

Yes, Ells, you would make a great mother and you two would be great parents because you balance one another. Another thing to keep in mind: You are doing good with Lehi and school. Keep it that way because I guarantee, when you do have kids and they become school-aged, Lehi will remember why you pushed him so hard... the teachers aren't the only "teachers" you and Lehi will become their teachers too!

Don't get me started on education because I live, breathe and sleep it! You should hear me talking to my daughter and son's friends.. When they come to my house, I say "You're going to college right?" I get deep about what they want to be, how they can go about it. I even donate through the United Way to "Philadelphia Futures". Its a program designed to help the less fortunate attend college on scholarships.... Mama dont play!

Shame on Lehi for V-day, he better get it together! lol

[Always Blessed 1]

Girl that is great! Are you on FB?

Yes ! Julianne Kohl