A Solemn Announcement

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

To The Wonderful People of Visa Journey,

It is with a very heavy heart and the deepest sorrow that I announce the passing of my beloved mother. Mom was taken from us on the night of Friday, December 4. As you some of you may be aware, I was very close to my mother and was her sole caregiver in the last few years of her life. Taking care of Mom was an adventure but it is something that I wore and will always wear like a badge of honor. With the loss of my mother, I'm trying to keep myself busy or otherwise take my focus off my grief but it is becoming increasingly difficult as my numbness from the sock of losing her wears off. It is still very hard to believe that Mom is gone; sometimes I'll see something or do something that reminds me of her. I catch myself repeating over and over, "Mom would like that," or "I'd better go check on Mom." If I watch certain television programs or pick a flower from the hibiscus in the house, I'm immediately reminded of Mom and tears ensue. Mom was my greatest defender, my most ardent supporter, my role model, my strength and my hero.

When my Grandmother died a few years ago, I was devastated and it shattered Mom's constitution. She was never the same, nor was I. Now that Mom has passed I fear that I may suffer the same fate. I am attempting to carry on as best I can but this will be a very difficult year for me as I will learn what it means to be a motherless child. I promise to do my best to post on VJ from time to time, even it is without the same élan that I once did. I hope that you will forgive me for my shortcoming and though my tears are not yet brewed, I will never have a surfeit of gratitude for all the decent and caring people of Visa Journey who have expressed their condolences in the most eloquent and empathetic language possible. My sincerest and most heartfelt thanks go out to all of you. I truly appreciate all your kind sentiments, understanding and humor, they helped me more than you will know and will continue to help me through the course of my grieving.

Thank you for your time,

Mumsie

[Beth and John 7]

So terribly sorry for your loss. I lost my mom when I was 13-years-old and I can tell you, I still miss her today just like I did the day she passed, however the pain eases each moment/day/year. Hang on to your good thoughts of her; they will help ease the pain. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Gypsyangel 11]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Krikit 1,165]

I am so so sorry for your loss.

Keep those memories alive, Mumsie. In time, instead of crying.... you will smile when you think of them. Big hugs from me. ((((((((((((((Mumsie)))))))))))))))

[sdw 10]

Sorry for your loss.

[Marilyn. 340]

[Hugglebuggles 60]

So sorry for your loss. I understand how difficult it is to lose a parent, and unfortunately that sorrow and grief never go away. They do however, dull with time, and one day I hope you can look back on your mother and think nothing but positive and joyous memories for the way she lived. You did everything you could for her in life, and she would want nothing but for you to be happy in her absence.

My thoughts are with you. You always has friends here

[Nagishkaw 510]

I love you, ^5. You are always in my prayers.

[Revenesque 2]

My thuoghts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

[Peachey 10]

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

[lgg 2]

I am so sorry for your loss. Please feel free to to talk/vent or express here any time you wish.

LGG

[Kimbear 53]

Mumsie, i'm so sorry for your loss. As Igg said, we are here for you if you need us or to vent etc. Many hugs.

[antda 13]

Hi Ir5formumsie,

Sorry to hear about the loss of your mother... ((hugs)))

My thoughts and prayers with you and your family during this time of loss.

May you and your family find comfort in the good memories that you shared with her throughout her life

May she always be with you, looking over you from heaven above....

Ant

To The Wonderful People of Visa Journey,

It is with a very heavy heart and the deepest sorrow that I announce the passing of my beloved mother. Mom was taken from us on the night of Friday, December 4. As you some of you may be aware, I was very close to my mother and was her sole caregiver in the last few years of her life. Taking care of Mom was an adventure but it is something that I wore and will always wear like a badge of honor. With the loss of my mother, I'm trying to keep myself busy or otherwise take my focus off my grief but it is becoming increasingly difficult as my numbness from the sock of losing her wears off. It is still very hard to believe that Mom is gone; sometimes I'll see something or do something that reminds me of her. I catch myself repeating over and over, "Mom would like that," or "I'd better go check on Mom." If I watch certain television programs or pick a flower from the hibiscus in the house, I'm immediately reminded of Mom and tears ensue. Mom was my greatest defender, my most ardent supporter, my role model, my strength and my hero.

When my Grandmother died a few years ago, I was devastated and it shattered Mom's constitution. She was never the same, nor was I. Now that Mom has passed I fear that I may suffer the same fate. I am attempting to carry on as best I can but this will be a very difficult year for me as I will learn what it means to be a motherless child. I promise to do my best to post on VJ from time to time, even it is without the same élan that I once did. I hope that you will forgive me for my shortcoming and though my tears are not yet brewed, I will never have a surfeit of gratitude for all the decent and caring people of Visa Journey who have expressed their condolences in the most eloquent and empathetic language possible. My sincerest and most heartfelt thanks go out to all of you. I truly appreciate all your kind sentiments, understanding and humor, they helped me more than you will know and will continue to help me through the course of my grieving.

Thank you for your time,

Mumsie

[minnew 4]

So sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Udella&Wiz 325]

Oh Mumsie - I'm so sorry. I know there's nothing to say that will make it better. I hope you find small bits of peace along the way that soothe you and remind you of happier times with her.