i need some advice

[charlie&pam 1]

hello guys...need some advice how to deal with this feelings..i can't wait to be with my fiance,we still waiting another processing? it is too bad,,i am full of hurt now,charlie and i got arguments yesterday,just because of misunderstand..it is not my fault,he is...am i the one can understand it?do i need to say sorry with him?still..i love him so much..and we are already preparing for our wedding and i have already wedding dress.....wat will i need to do?huhuhuhuhu,,thank u guys...godbless

[marklovetina 52]

hello guys...need some advice how to deal with this feelings..i can't wait to be with my fiance,we still waiting another processing? it is too bad,,i am full of hurt now,charlie and i got arguments yesterday,just because of misunderstand..it is not my fault,he is...am i the one can understand it?do i need to say sorry with him?still..i love him so much..and we are already preparing for our wedding and i have already wedding dress.....wat will i need to do?huhuhuhuhu,,thank u guys...godbless

oh what happend na..?, give some time.. then talk..then tomorrow or maybe tonight u will have a call from him.. just an LQ... it will past.. its natural... hehehe....

oh if its ur fault then do the move and say sorry but if its not then... for me, let him make the move on what to do with ur LQ, and make him realize what is his fault... oh its just my opinoin bcoz that's what i do always when we have LQ too

Edited January 11, 2010 by godsgift

[GuardianAngel 1]

Waiting has been the most agonizing sacrifice my fiance and I have to make. There have been lots of arguments that came our way even until now since I am still waiting for my interview schedule on January 19. I say, you have to double your patience and understanding in dealing with the situation, its not easy being separated from each other. Not being able to see each other's faces when you talk, not being able to touch/hug/kiss.. etc. where its just normal to be emotional and cry in one corner, pretending like the world is falling apart because of the pain you feel inside.

Then again, no matter how intense the arguments are, how cruel you respond to each other's whims, no matter how much bs you've been through but if you love each other UNCONDITIONALLY, you can make it til' you can be together.

[rheanick 42]

hello guys...need some advice how to deal with this feelings..i can't wait to be with my fiance,we still waiting another processing? it is too bad,,i am full of hurt now,charlie and i got arguments yesterday,just because of misunderstand..it is not my fault,he is...am i the one can understand it?do i need to say sorry with him?still..i love him so much..and we are already preparing for our wedding and i have already wedding dress.....wat will i need to do?huhuhuhuhu,,thank u guys...godbless

Both of you are anxious. Both of you have to be busy. Spend more time with your work, family and friends rather than wait for your paper. Your papers will eventually be approved.

[-B&T- 1]

You will have the visa soon just be patient and while waiting spend more time with your family and friends and enjoy the pinoy foods (Well in Chandler there's Filipino restaurants so no big deal ) You will miss them and also it would be better if you will talk to him straight and not in public forum…just my humble opinion.

[charlie&pam 1]

sorry fellow VJr's for her airing our laundry out here

[Calypso 464]

As what Max Lucado says and I paraphrase... It doesn't matter who hurt who. The thing is you go and build the bridge.

Hakuna matata.

God bless us all.

FAE

[PhiLandShiR 18]

sorry fellow VJr's for her airing our laundry out here

We are all family here, don't worry about it.

[charlie&pam 1]

We are all family here, don't worry about it.

just all the prssures from this process and work is getting on us...I am sure we were not the only people going through this emotional rollercoaster

[Richard90027 1]

just all the prssures from this process and work is getting on us...I am sure we were not the only people going through this emotional rollercoaster

When my wife was still in the Philippines there were always issues with connections, communication, money matters, trying to get her to understand the things that needed to be done, my intolerance with the PI postal service, ETC, ETC. All of these thing tended to make me very irritable at times and caused strain on our relationship. She has been here now for about 1 1/2 years now and everything is great, both of you just need to be patient with each other because it will all work out.

[frostysoftyeaton 6]

just all the prssures from this process and work is getting on us...I am sure we were not the only people going through this emotional rollercoaster

Been there, done that. We do understand your situation right now. Even my fiance ( now husband ) before misunderstand things easily. It was very stressful to each other but thankfully we are able to fix it immediately. Just stay calm, relax, stay positive and you two will be together soon.

Good Luck!

[one...two...tree 2,762]

Both of you are anxious. Both of you have to be busy. Spend more time with your work, family and friends rather than wait for your paper. Your papers will eventually be approved.

Excellent advice. You've got to get your mind off of the whole thing to keep your sanity. If you've done all that you are suppose to do, just put it to the back of your head for hours throughout the day. Limit talking to your fiance or chatting online...because both of your emotions are running high with anxiety. Go out with some friends and he should do the same.

Edited January 11, 2010 by Galt's gallstones