Urgent Help Reqd!!

[mrs. wife! 3]

Is there also a possibility that i talk to the IO and don't inform him about everything that anyone is accompanying me, and that my parents married me who would be in Spain then, that would save my family in US right ?

If you really want to get out of this mess you will have to tell the truth!!!!!!!

And yes, you can sneak the I-94 in your clothes.

[preet27 0]

isn't there any way so that I can save both me and my family, there must be something, Please how can i get them arrested, my heart will just break into 1000 pieces. I am totally confused what if i plead at the consulate not to frame any kind of charges against my parents, and i can stay with a friend for 1 - 2 days i also came across this while searching for some kind of relief after reaching my country www.hatununcan-ev.de, will they be of any kind of help i have already asked for help from them but no reply as of yet ?

Edited January 6, 2010 by preet27

[preet27 0]

Here is a another link to what i am talking about http://translate.google.co.in/translate?hl...l%3Den%26sa%3DG

[sachinky 465]

Honey, you need to worry more about your life than your heart breaking into a thousand pieces.

[Ontarkie 14,378]

Would she not go through a different line in the airport then the 5 US citizens, if she does that would be the perfect time to get away from them.

[preet27 0]

Okay i have decided to tell the IO everything, but what will happen afterwards, how will I pay for my ticket to my native land, i have nothing on me, they have taken everything away from me, and plus all my stuff is in NJ, will they help me in getting my stuff or they will just deport me, what will happen after reaching my native land ? what if my parents are there at the airport to pick me up, should i talk to the IO then also ?

[trinket 30]

Seriously did you NOT read what I wrote. I am really thinking now that you are a troll. You will have your frigging passport IN YOUR HAND when you meet up with IO

How come you have no clue what i-94 is? You say you are on a student visa, how come you have never filled it before? Seriously you are more worried about GC than your life.

[mommymeow 0]

Seriously did you NOT read what I wrote. I am really thinking now that you are a troll. You will have your frigging passport IN YOUR HAND when you meet up with IO

How come you have no clue what i-94 is? You say you are on a student visa, how come you have never filled it before? Seriously you are more worried about GC than your life.

After reading all this, I start to feel it too that she is more worried about getting GC more than trying to help herself out of the situation.

Sorry OP, if you are seriously want to help yourself, do what others suggest you or else stay with your situation.

[preet27 0]

i am sorry i'm pissin you people off, but plz understand what i am going through, i have taken your advice and I will tell IO every single detail once i reach the US airport, an i know now what I - 94 is, i just didn't recall it then and no I am not a troll,

okay what should i do after reaching my native land, how do i avoid getting picked up by my parents again, they surely will try to track me down ?

[preet27 0]

i got this [ http://translate.google.co.in/translate?hl...l%3Den%26sa%3DX ]while i was searching and i emailed them too and they have emailed me back, are these people genuine, should i take their help ?

[mrs. wife! 3]

i got this [ http://translate.google.co.in/translate?hl...l%3Den%26sa%3DX ]while i was searching and i emailed them too and they have emailed me back, are these people genuine, should i take their help ?

It seems a translation website or something? Please copy and paste here what the link says.

[trinket 30]

Someone from Germany might be able to tell you if that group is genuine or not, but for now that may be your best bet.

What nationality your parents are?

You are worried about if your family members will be charged or not, the thing is till the time you don't put a complain against them they won't be charged. So you can talk to the IO, just stating you need a safe refuge to the nearest German consulate and they will provide you with that. You will have your passport in your hand, because you will have to, when you go to meet up with IO, you have to have your passport, so your relatives have to hand it over to you. So there is no point in worrying about duplicate passport.

Consulates/Embassies over the world are known for protecting their citizens, every consulate has a citizen helpline office. There have been many cases where Indian consulates around the world have helped Indians to get back to India, consulates paid for plane tickets, so I don't think German consulate would be any different either.

At the end of the day its your choice to make. I hope you make a wise decision.

[preet27 0]

it is from Wikipedia and it is a private organisation by the name of Hatun Und Can for women who are forced into marriage, please if u could search it and comment copying and pasting from wikipedia also copies the german text along with it.

[preet27 0]

Yes i am hoping to get in touch with a friend from Germany, who might be able to help me through this once i reach Germany, once i reach the consulate can i call someone in Germany, and maybe stay with her for 1- 2 days, i have mailed my friend to see if these people are genuine or not ?

[Darnell 8,479]

Okay i have decided to tell the IO everything, but what will happen afterwards, how will I pay for my ticket to my native land, i have nothing on me, they have taken everything away from me, and plus all my stuff is in NJ, will they help me in getting my stuff or they will just deport me, what will happen after reaching my native land ? what if my parents are there at the airport to pick me up, should i talk to the IO then also ?

The IO is inside the customs/border patrol /immigration area. What you don't see, yet, are the myriad of private rooms behind the semi-public area.

My true hope was that you'd be able to convince an IO that you were married against your will, and that you are worried that your family will kill you, and that there is the start of immigration fraud to the USA, perpetrated by your family.

You will be taken to a private room. Seperated from your travel companions. My hope is that you will NOT be allowed to enter the USA, but instead, you wil be HELD for up to a week, and then put on a plane to Spain, the country where you have citizenship. You should be able to recover your luggage and laptop, maybe even a cell phone (if you packed it - if it's GSM, just get new sim card in Spain). You might get a free flight from NY to Spain, but you really need to get yer buddies to donate monies to you via paypal (get account on www.paypal.com ) so that you can quickly hide in Spain.

I suggest you approach it from that perspective, instead of trying to secure any life in USA.

You need to decide which is more important - your life, or your parents version of your life.

Your family can easily kill you, and they will feel all is ok, since is true honor killing - you went against them, they lost much face.

Spain has excellent uni - simply go, start over in Spain - stay away from ANYONE that knows your family. I even suggest to legally change your name, when you are back in Spain.

Then. DO NOT CONTACT YOUR FAMILY, for a year. Sure, you might get emails from them, but NEVER respond - they can track where you are by the IP address in the headers in your replies back to them.

Think about it a bit, when you are more calm, let us know what you truly decide?