Are you high maintenance?

[FortLaudy 10]

I know... it's all this holiday #######... it's getting to me

that, and Amby told me I was being too mean When Amby says that, you know you've crossed some serious line

wow !! Now I don't think there's anything wrong with disliking ugly people, especially if their wedding pics stink and the couple look like they don't match...

running away from Amby

[chri'stina 190]

Enough of all that crazy talk.

stina is right though. i may be a broken fatass but i can admit it.

At least you aren't broke!! Cha ching, cha ching, vacation taker.

[FortLaudy 10]

Most ppl gain weight during their lifetime. You can see it in every culture. So people who think being skinny will last a whole marriage . That seems like a rare thing to actually happen. I have lost weight since getting married, so I am going the opposite way. For now.

I think it's good to keep that in check too though... my husband and I will blatantly tell each other to lose some weight if we're getting fat... no offense, just facts... and I'll put him on a scale too !

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Most ppl gain weight during their lifetime. You can see it in every culture. So people who think being skinny will last a whole marriage . That seems like a rare thing to actually happen. I have lost weight since getting married, so I am going the opposite way. For now.

I beg to differ. If you take care of your nutrition, exercise, and have good genes (and no, I am not being snarky, tiz tru); you will not become overweight. And for those of us childless peepz, the chances of huge body changes are even less.

I think it's about taking care of oneself. And I am not talking about looks; I am talking about how we treat our bodies.

[FortLaudy 10]

I beg to differ. If you take care of your nutrition, exercise, and have good genes (and no, I am not being snarky, tiz tru); you will not become overweight. And for those of us childless peepz, the chances of huge body changes are even less.

I think it's about taking care of oneself. And I am not talking about looks; I am talking about how we treat our bodies.

yup "not letting yourself go" is essential... some people get comfortable in marriage and don't make the effort anymore and thing they're good enough cause their spouse loves them.... big mistake! he/she still has to find you sexually attractive !

[chri'stina 190]

I beg to differ. If you take care of your nutrition, exercise, and have good genes (and no, I am not being snarky, tiz tru); you will not become overweight. And for those of us childless peepz, the chances of huge body changes are even less.

I think it's about taking care of oneself. And I am not talking about looks; I am talking about how we treat our bodies.

I know what you mean. I'm just saying that across many cultures, many people get chubby as they get old - the amount of people trying hard to stay slim doesn't seem so high. I haven't done in-depth study. But, visiting India and seeing people from various countries, the mothers usually get chubby as they age as well as the father's getting round bellies. I guess in some cases bc of slowing metabolism and less activity it's bound to happen.

[FortLaudy 10]

Which reminds me... (since I have again wasted a couple of hours away on VJ) I need to start the primping for tonight's celebrations... please tell me to ####### off Len?

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Which reminds me... (since I have again wasted a couple of hours away on VJ) I need to start the primping for tonight's celebrations... please tell me to ####### off Len?

Shani, go be a good foreign hot exotic wife and GTFO! NOW!!!

[slim 1,525]

I guess in some cases bc of slowing metabolism and less activity it's bound to happen.

Or how about increased financial prosperity?

Most folks tend to eat more when they get older. They have time to enjoy what they eat and can afford to prepare elaborate meals. - Not to mention all the drinking!

[FortLaudy 10]

Shani, go be a good foreign hot exotic wife and GTFO! NOW!!!

The leader has spoken, I shall go put some high heels on and start cleaning the kitchen immediately... Happy New year darling !

[Chica Yeyé 41]

The leader has spoken, I shall go put some high heels on and start cleaning the kitchen immediately... Happy New year darling !

Same to you and yours chica!

[slim 1,525]

The leader has spoken, I shall go put some high heels on and start cleaning the kitchen immediately... Happy New year darling !

American chicks take note - it is perfectly OK to clean your kitchen in high heels.

[Susita 175]

It's not as easy to stay in good shape as some of you might think. I was pregnant with twins & had a c-section and it took almost 3 years to get my stomach back to it's pre-pregnancy shape & size and I still have a little pouchy thing from when they cut through the muscle etc. I am convinced it will take a tummy tuck (actually my doc told me it probably will) to fix. And not all of us have the $$ for plastic surgery. Plus I have c-section #2 coming so it's so not even worth it.

I'm not a big fan of this bashing people who aren't attractive. I think it's pretty damn shallow. People are born the way they're born and there's nothing they can do about it. It's pretty negative in a couple of threads today with all this "I don't like ugly people" BS.

However, I will admit however that really, really old people with little 20 year old hotties is a bit strange though . Hey, whatever floats your boat.

Just no after or during sex pics, please.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

American chicks take note - it is perfectly OK to clean your kitchen in high heels.

Damn.... I have the high heels, but will not clean a damn thing

[Susita 175]

American chicks take note - it is perfectly OK to clean your kitchen in high heels.

what about in fuzzy pink slippers and my penguin pajammies my husband bought me or a snuggie perhaps?