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Actually that topic made me curious - would an average ( by 'average' I mean not criminal, not on drugs, just a good citizen that has no time to spend in a traffic jam) American driver use a sidewalk to shorten the way? Or drive behind a tram (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tram ) ON tram road using tram as a shield? :)

I haven't seen a "normal" person drive on the sidewalk in years, and usually the only time you see somebody drive in the breakdown lane (which is just another lane in Russian :)) is when their exit is less than a quarter mile away or so. But during the summer I almost routinely will see a soccer mom drive her SUV over a median to make a U-turn or short-cut, probably because she's late getting the kids somewhere or other.

+ I remebered one more 'wonder' - size of plates (portion) in restaurants!!! :blink:

Yeah, that's gotten pretty out of control. The problem is that for the most part, the quality of food between most suburb-style restaurants in the US (like Chilis, TGI Friday, Applebees, etc) is pretty consistent, and the prices are pretty close. So the only other thing they can really compete on is portion size. Kinda sad because it creates a lot of unnecessary waste.

Also that people you see for the 1st time in your life start a conversation and you can talk for 5-10 min as if you know each other for years :) . That can happen in Russia too but not as often as in the USA.

Yeah, I've had this happen several times in Russia. I struck up a conversation with an off-duty cop in a bar once that lasted a few hours, which was pretty good considering neither one of us was very fluent in the others' language. :)

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I would agree on driving - when in Boston i was told that traffic there is just awful and drivers are crazy and rude ... hmm... then this is what I saw: polite people queueing in a traffic jam.. noone tried to drive on the sidewalk, noone was using a horn every 3 minutes just to vent, noone did set up a purchased on the black market police siren on the car roof and started a siren forcing the way (that happend in Russia quite often at the late 80s-90s:) ).

It is funny that you mentioned driving in Boston as a good example, a city where driving on the breakdown lane is LEGAL in many places and where drivers seem to think that it is legal everywhere. Never breakdown in the breakdown lane in Boston ... drivers go faster there than on other lanes :rofl:

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Back to topic: This made me think since my wife has been here 4 years now. I think the first thing she was amazed with was our bed, a king size. But then, she thinks we have it all wrong about the bathroom with the toilet and shower in the same room. Why did we build them that way? (Its a good thing we have two bathrooms).

As far as comparing things here to Ukraine, there is a lot of negatives in her opinion. The food here is not very good because we of course use chemicals to grow them. But if you really want to get her going, talk about the medical profession. She thinks the costs are outrageous, the system of going to a doctor to get a referral for some type of specialist and seeing a doctor for five minutes and getting a bill for $75 is horrible. She has a term for the medical profession in America. Mafia! :angry:

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... there is a lot of negatives in her opinion. The food here is not very good because we of course use chemicals to grow them. But if you really want to get her going, talk about the medical profession. She thinks the costs are outrageous, the system of going to a doctor to get a referral for some type of specialist and seeing a doctor for five minutes and getting a bill for $75 is horrible. She has a term for the medical profession in America. Mafia! :angry:

Sounds like your wife and my wife would get along famously. :D My wife's private insurance plan back home entitled her to home visits by an actual Doctor, and not just when she was sick, but even for physicals--and it didn't cost a kopek extra on top of her premium. And when you adjust for income, she paid about 1/5 of the premium I pay, for much more comprehensive coverage than even the best plan my company offers. She's absolutely horrified at how health insurance works in the "new world."

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Back to topic: This made me think since my wife has been here 4 years now. I think the first thing she was amazed with was our bed, a king size. But then, she thinks we have it all wrong about the bathroom with the toilet and shower in the same room. Why did we build them that way? (Its a good thing we have two bathrooms).

As far as comparing things here to Ukraine, there is a lot of negatives in her opinion. The food here is not very good because we of course use chemicals to grow them. But if you really want to get her going, talk about the medical profession. She thinks the costs are outrageous, the system of going to a doctor to get a referral for some type of specialist and seeing a doctor for five minutes and getting a bill for $75 is horrible. She has a term for the medical profession in America. Mafia! :angry:

That's why I'm sending my wife to medical school! In the long run it will be cheaper to get treatment! hahaha Really though, my wife was shocked by medical costs too and can't understand why if Ukraine can have "free" medical care for everyone, why can't the USA? It's not exactly the same, and Ukraine can't provide all the same services the USA can, but still, our system is pretty borked. I'm pretty sure it's getting to get even more borked.

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Russians don't want to have a monthly bill but would rather pre-pay for usage. That's because they can usually only afford to spend $20/month on a cellphone instead of $120 for an unlimited data plan. You can't get diddily squat for $20/month in America.
I used AT&T go phone service, and I spend less than $10/month for cell phone service.

Wife says Russia is way better for cell phone stuff - thinks America is lame.

Do you include yourself in that perception...or are you special?
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For instance, peanut butter. I really thought she would love it, but she could care less.More astonishing, she hates pancakes and maple syrup! What?? How is this possible? She not only dislikes it, but seems offended by the taste and smell of the syrup. Has this happened to anyone else, or is it just my crazy wife??
I can't stand peanut butter, maple syrup, or pancakes either. I don't even want to be at the same table with syrup - I think it is disgusting.

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I feel strange posting an on-topic reply, after this thread has gone so horribly awry.

Nevertheless, here goes...

As discussed earlier in the thread (when it was actually on topic), my wife has also discovered many new things, wonderful and amazing. However, there were a couple of things I really thought she WOULD find amazing, yet she DOES NOT.

For instance, peanut butter. I really thought she would love it, but she could care less.

More astonishing, she hates pancakes and maple syrup! What?? How is this possible? She not only dislikes it, but seems offended by the taste and smell of the syrup. Has this happened to anyone else, or is it just my crazy wife??

You hit on something with the "maple syrup". I was asked to bring a bottle of it with me the first time I went to Belarus for the fact the wife (before we were married) had never tried it. The maple syrup was a real big hit there...like super big. I had never had Belarusian pancakes before (blemy's) and I like them a lot better than the pancakes we have here in the US. Maple syrup with Belarusian pancakes is a match made in heaven imo. So when I went to Belarus the last time, I brought seven bottles of maple syrup with me seeing how everyone in her family wanted some. I should have brought a jar of peanut butter with me to see how that went over....but it never crossed my mind at the time.

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US roads are great, except Boston, MA and Belmont, MA ;)

Philly roads are horrible.

Actually, we are lightyears behind other countries when it comes to road quality

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Philly roads are horrible.

Actually, we are lightyears behind other countries when it comes to road quality

Bah, we've got you ALL beat.

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Thursday, December 17, 2009

ANCHORAGE, Alaska -- Alaska has the worst highway system in the nation, according to a new report from a California-based research group.

The report says the problems are in maintenance, bridge deficiencies and fatalities.

The Reason Foundation says the roads have steadily been getting worse as the years go by.

Many drivers agree.

"I think the highways are horrible; I won't even drive on them…they're curvy, there's not enough room, the semi trucks. They're horrible," said Paula Jones, an Anchorage driver.

The report says the roads are old and in need of upgrades. Bridges are past their prime and almost all areas are unsafe, especially major highways that lead into cities.

"The fatality rate for Alaska-- this is 2008 data-- it was 1.63. The national average is 1.35 so it's considerably higher than the national average," said David Hartgen with the Reason Foundation.

Other drivers agree the roads need work, but say to blame Mother Nature for the problems.

"I think they need to have better maintenance, maybe take a look at changing the budget and re-evaluating the way they do snow removal along these roads," said Dean Paul, an Anchorage driver.

Still other people say the problems aren't as dramatic as the report suggests.

"It's not bad. I don't think it's bad. Only in the winter where you go 5 miles an hour for two hours, but… I can't complain. It moves along just fine," said Jennifer Seetomona.

The Department of Transportation did not return phone calls Thursday.

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Most of those fatalities were on the Seward Highway....during this summer. People feel the need to pass on that highway no matter what the cost. I'm sure you already know this though seeing how we both live in Alaska. tbh I haven't seen these crappy highways that's in that report. Seward highway is decent enough as long as you don't try to pass on corners, or when there's on coming traffic....or even better yet when these idiots try to pass several cars/trucks/motor homes/r-v's/etc.... The Glen highway is decent enough, can't really see too much problems with the Parks other than the bottle neck from Wasilla to Big Lake. And yes we do have frost heaves up here.

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Most of those fatalities were on the Seward Highway....during this summer. People feel the need to pass on that highway no matter what the cost. I'm sure you already know this though seeing how we both live in Alaska. tbh I haven't seen these crappy highways that's in that report. Seward highway is decent enough as long as you don't try to pass on corners, or when there's on coming traffic....or even better yet when these idiots try to pass several cars/trucks/motor homes/r-v's/etc.... The Glen highway is decent enough, can't really see too much problems with the Parks other than the bottle neck from Wasilla to Big Lake. And yes we do have frost heaves up here.
Doesn't matter what the excuses are. It's the results that matter. The problem with Seward Highway is it is not designed for the load it carries, plain and simple. But the bigger problem is the simple lack of a road network. In most places, you can go north and south, or east and west, by a single route. That's it! If that route is cut, then you're cut off! There is no alternative route. That fact alone is what gives us the world road system in America. Of course - that assumes you're even ACCESSIBLE by road - which, as you know - is a BIG "if" in Alaska.

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In short, the morons have been able to out-breed the intelligent imo. Rather than "the strong surviving" as nature would normally have it, the moron-leaders do everything they can to propogate the morons since they will continue to elect them. Sadly, I think we're on a sinking ship at this point.

Kind of funny how those who realize they can't afford proper care for children seem to not have as many. Those who know they can't afford them tend to have way too many kids... that the rest of us pay for. Broken system, you betcha!

Stupid Americans, on the other hand, stay in their own home towns all their life, and think going overseas means going to a Western style resort in Acapulco. They think they are worldly travelers because they once went to the Canadian side of Niagara for their cousin's wedding.

My wife was shocked when most of the people she'd met here hadn't been anywhere else. Oh, they've been to Gatlinburg or Florida, but never somewhere exotic like Acapulco.

I don't get it either, especially how they've never travelled but are still "experts" when it comes to foreign-policy and international affairs.

For instance, peanut butter. I really thought she would love it, but she could care less.

More astonishing, she hates pancakes and maple syrup! What?? How is this possible? She not only dislikes it, but seems offended by the taste and smell of the syrup. Has this happened to anyone else, or is it just my crazy wife??

My wife hates the smell and taste of peanut butter, but loves pancakes and syrup. Maybe they're both crazy.

Movie theatres (especially the IMAX we saw Batman in)

My wife asked where the "kissing seats" were. Apparently where she's from they have love seats in the theater in little private sections where you can be privately intimate if you so desire. Nope, nothing like that here. Well, at least not at regular theaters, anyway!

she was surprised how ugly and poorly dressed Americans are. Both men and women.

My wife HATES fashion in America. She was also astonished by how fat everyone is. Men and women.

if you really want to get her going, talk about the medical profession. She thinks the costs are outrageous, the system of going to a doctor to get a referral for some type of specialist and seeing a doctor for five minutes and getting a bill for $75 is horrible. She has a term for the medical profession in America. Mafia! :angry:

My wife is planning a trip back to Russia just so she can get some proper medical care. "Yes of course I want see my mother and everyone... but really I want to see good doctor, blat."

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My husband was in awe of the "free refills" concept at the fast food joints, he really likes that LOL. He was also in shock that so much stuff here is "made in china" . I think in the Philippines they still think the USA is some big manufacturer...........

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