Canceling K1 and going CR1 Question..

[KarimaG 2]

Karima, Adam interviewed in Egypt which of course is slightly different however. From the time of his interview which was K3 on May 9th 2007, his AP was about 3 1/2 months, then they asked for a Movement Certificate. (Its not even asked for all MENA/Egyptian guys and hes never even travelled out the country) He was never able to obtain one, even though applying for in in Sept 2007 while I was there with him... 4 months later of trying to obtain that paper and waiting and waiting, on January 1st 2008 he got his visa. It was the pits to wait for him and not know when or what if was going to happen, so thats why I made another trip there to spend 2 more weeks with him (and it just so happend to be his bday) I honestly think waiting did us some good too, bcz sometimes he gets on my last nerve!

Thats what we decided to do was what. All I was doing by asking questions was trying to weigh my options and see what they were. And this one is the best option. Yeah I agree it sucks... and wish there was another one... but there doesnt seem to be.... so... guess we're on the waiting list. Im going to try to go see him soon.

[~PalmTreeGurl~ 154]

Hey thats cool, all I gotta say to that is, Have fun and enjoy yourself over there. Wish I could take a vacation like that this coming up year. Now that I have Adam here, we are working our butts off to pay our credit card debts that we occurred together ...

[msheesha 548]

Wait until they tell you that your paper is being sent back to USCIS, and don't cancel your K1. Go and get married file a CR1 and let them know that you had file a K1. Send in a copy of the receipt from your K1 because you are not hiding anything, but you won't cancel it because that will mean you agread with what the CO had to say. Let them cancel it. I never cancel mine and my CR1 went through with everything within 4mos and my hubby home. Most people will tell you to speak with a popular Attorney on this site and some other ones. But let me warn you had i listen to him my husband would not be home with me to this day. So if you like Private message me.

You are so right you don't have to sit around and wait because i went and married my husband 2wks after they sent back our denile letter.

Im just worried at how long it will take for them to respond to this. Approve it or deny it but dang it do something. I have heard ppl waiting months to years to get an answer and never getting out of AP. I thought of sending a letter with my cancelation of the k1 stating why I am canceling it. That we do not want to wait to get married, that we do 'not' agree with the interview that he had, etc etc. I know Im getting ahead of things, its only been a week since the interview. But I cant finction like this everyday not having a plan. If I dont have a plan, I just cant get up in the morning. But sitting around like this every day waiting on them will kill me.

Have you emailed the consulate in Morocco? They generally respond pretty quickly.

Did they give him a paper saying he was denied? Or in AP?

With all due respect, you're being a little dramatic - you survived before you met your fiance.

You can't wake up in the morning if you don't have a plan related to your fiance? Don't you

have a child? How about your plan is that you wake up and be the best parent you can be; be

an adult and realize that everything happens for a reason. You will be together when the time

is right for you to be together. It absolutely sucks to wait on them, but it takes a boatload

of maturity and patience to make a marriage work under the best circumstances. How about

your plan could also be to practice maturity and patience as a way to get yourself ready for a marriage

with inherent difficulties.

You don't even know the outcome of the current application. How about the plan is that you figure out the

status of this application before you start another?

I've seen other people ask about how your child feels about the possibility of either you or you and your child

moving to Morocco, but you've never addressed it.

It appears that there seems to be sooooooo much concern about my child. First I would like to express "what the f is my child any concern to any of you out there???" Have I asked advice about her?? Anything at all? So why do people here feel the need to 'attempt' to bring her into a conversation? But.... since everyone here is delilghted to know about her situation, well let me tell you people... and hopefully it will put your concerns about her at ease., NO! I not moving her to morocco... NO! she will not attend highschool there and leave her friends behind. OHHHH?? WHYYY? You ask? Bc she doesnt even live with me. She is almost through highschool and lives with her father in another state? She wanted to live with him so she did not have to be far from her friends so we "share" custody. No? Does everyone out there in vj land feel soo much better about my child custody and the welfare of my child situation? Well, good... hope it helped. I never responded to anyones questions about her bc this is the the Maury Povich show and its no ones business unless I make it your business.

Now... One the other parts that show some concern. Dont twist my words. I stated it hard to get up in the morning without a plan. I did not say I was comatosed ok? I (we) are trying to make a plan together, we are trying out our options... seeing what can be done and what cant be done. Thats why Im asking questions? Is that ok? I could have swore that was what vj was for? So no things didnt turn out as expected in the interview. No I did not expect it to go shitty.... I knew there was a posibility of AP of course but did not expect it to be a crappy interview. Ok? So in the event we did not want to wait AP out we are lining up our options. There is not harm in that. And only a stupid person would not ASK questions.

Yeah the process does take patience... and damed maybe some of you have forgotten how hard it is to be away from the people you love. Try,... thing...if you can... what it felt like. Everyone has moments of weakness. And damit Im entitled to mine.

Hense in the meantime of everyone wondering about the welfare of my child, and my so called inmaturlity, we have decided it would be better to try to be patient as long as we can and wait. Soo... have we cleared things up for everyone? Does everyone feel better about know about my child? Can I offer any other tidbits of my life???

Next?

Karima,

I honestly think you should chill and be more patient. Most all of us MENA peeps had to go thru AP/AR and wait for our fiance or spouses. You should take your child and visit Morocco if its taking awhile but definitely not cancel a K1. What happens if you marry and file CR1, and get denied for whatever the reason. And besides that, either way you are going to have a AP... they ARE going to do background checks and whatever else it is that they do for AP. Everything takes time and stopping what you just started is going to take alot longer IMO.

So, to say it again... its my opinion you chill and be patient, and if your still waiting by March, take your child and go visit Morocco and your fiance for alittle while. Every day waiting is a day closer to the end. Its going to be A.L.R.I.G.H.T.

We have already decided to be patient and wait this out. No, Im not planning on taking my child to Morocco for a visit. She doesnt even live with me.

You could pull off that righteous indignation so much better if you could spell and/or had grammar fundamentals down just a little bit better.

You make such assumptions about who is or who isn't with their spouse or fiance. Not everyone who isn't with their spouse or fiance takes to public boards for whining, moaning, and dramatic exclamations about how difficult it is to get up in the morning.

Back to addressing your issues - how is it that you don't know whether he was denied or put in AP? Did he get any paperwork when he left the consulate? Have you emailed the consulate to request status information on your case?

[KarimaG 2]

Hey thats cool, all I gotta say to that is, Have fun and enjoy yourself over there. Wish I could take a vacation like that this coming up year. Now that I have Adam here, we are working our butts off to pay our credit card debts that we occurred together ...

I know how that can be. We used to have quite a bit of credit cards and now have none. Its better to not have them bc the interest will always add up in the end and get you. But I was always a procrastinator at paying bills...lol Im glad you have Adam with you there now!!

[morocco4ever 63]

I haven't said anything at all to you about your daughter, but I have wondered it as well. And to be bluntly honest with you, don't you think that although your daughter lives with her dad that she still needs her mother? I just don't agree with taking off and leaving a daughter that is under age behind just because she doesn't live with you. One way or the other her needs should come before your own.

And like I said before, why are you putting so much effort into moving there when it hasn't even been denied? I was married over 2 years before my husband got the visa. It didn't kill either one of us.

[me_4_musa 1]

Can I offer any other tidbits of my life???

Next?

NO - PLEASE NO!!! Many of us have heard enough!!

There's a pattern...nearly everytime you post the thread is shut down....so please no more!!

[Nagishkaw 510]

Yeah the process does take patience... and damed maybe some of you have forgotten how hard it is to be away from the people you love. Try,... thing...if you can... what it felt like. Everyone has moments of weakness. And damit Im entitled to mine.

Try asking Sara or maybe Hot Guy if they forgot.

[Twisted K 2]

Can I offer any other tidbits of my life???

Next?

NO - PLEASE NO!!! Many of us have heard enough!!

There's a pattern...nearly everytime you post the thread is shut down....so please no more!!

ok, i couldn't resist.

IN BEFORE THE LOCK

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Yeah the process does take patience... and damed maybe some of you have forgotten how hard it is to be away from the people you love. Try,... thing...if you can... what it felt like. Everyone has moments of weakness. And damit Im entitled to mine.

Try asking Sara or maybe Hot Guy if they forgot.

WORD.

[me_4_musa 1]

Yeah the process does take patience... and damed maybe some of you have forgotten how hard it is to be away from the people you love. Try,... thing...if you can... what it felt like. Everyone has moments of weakness. And damit Im entitled to mine.

Try asking Sara or maybe Hot Guy if they forgot.

WORD.

Allousa is another one that comes to mind!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Yeah the process does take patience... and damed maybe some of you have forgotten how hard it is to be away from the people you love. Try,... thing...if you can... what it felt like. Everyone has moments of weakness. And damit Im entitled to mine.

Try asking Sara or maybe Hot Guy if they forgot.

WORD.

Allousa is another one that comes to mind!

True.

[Nagishkaw 510]

And Cairobound.

[Twisted K 2]

oooooooooooooh, so she is not the only one having to wait to be with her SO??? makes you go hmmmmm...

[Twisted K 2]

Edited December 15, 2009 by Twisted K

[me_4_musa 1]

And Cairobound.

and The_Dip_Sticks

Maybe it is better for you to file a CR1 (or K3 as you posted on another thread).