Are you using me for a greencard?

[me_4_musa 1]

First, who really gives a ** what an ignorant jealous azz said on that board?! Many foreigners think our streets are paved in gold here and almost all Americans are rich, which is not the case. Should we run around trying to correct every ding dong that posts this as truth? Many of my Arab friends here and overseas joke about "farmers" "fallah/fallaheen" in their countries...its NOT racist Kat, its a joke that may have strong stereotypical connotations but that’s where it ends. Every culture has their own "redneck" "hillbilly" "trash" term. So what?!?

Now onto your continual use of "racist"; it annoys me to no end when people like to throw that damn phrase around and have no clue ####### they are talking about. You are so good at googling your other points....why not try googling Redneck or Trailer trash etc?!?!? In the majority of searches you will NOT find the term racist NOR discriminatory. It is in your head Kat dear...like many of your other delusional statements you’ve made along the way. People consider the term hillbilly, trailer trash, redneck, etc to be a descriptive term sometimes negative NOT racist and many that are lumped into these groups use the term within their own social circles as well! Lumping all such people together in a single group is similar to using the term Cajun as a description of a uniquely American group.

There is no direction to this thread. You keep saying the same sh!t over and over. Everyone gave their own opinions opposite of yours and you keep debating it hoping for some thread of hope that there is another delusional person out there that shares your opinions. No one is going to side with your skewed view on love and relationships. Honestly, as most have said here move on girl....move on.

I honestly think you need to stay away from these boards for a long while. Your constant swirl is very disturbing like the rants of a bipolar (mentally ill) person and at times makes many of us think either you've stopped your meds or stopped your therapy. If you have a therapist...call them ASAP...I'm not being sarcastic or mean I'm truly concerned about what floats around in your head that you've now accepted as your reality.

Yes!!!

[Ban Hammer 13,549]

that doesn't count Charles, he's rich... imagine all the money he's made from those Geico commercials, I mean come on, if you're rich you don't need to be a hot stud muffin.

he doesn't know what money is for.....so if you're looking for a few million, check behind that bush that he was hiding behind for about 15 minutes

[morocco4ever 63]

M4E, you're being too realistic and not analyzing the situation enough dammit. Can you fall in love with someone you find physically unattractive? I know I can't. I'm far too superficial for that. Does he have to be a 21 yr old super stud? Hell no, those types gross me out. Plus, *I* want to be the pretty one in the relationship.

here ya go. he's single, a virtual animal! and you can still be the pretty one.

You might need to find one with more hair in order to succeed still being the pretty one here.

[ya falaha! 0]

Dayum!!

M4M...you have the best pics!!

First, who really gives a ** what an ignorant jealous azz said on that board?! Many foreigners think our streets are paved in gold here and almost all Americans are rich, which is not the case. Should we run around trying to correct every ding dong that posts this as truth? Many of my Arab friends here and overseas joke about "farmers" "fallah/fallaheen" in their countries...its NOT racist Kat, its a joke that may have strong stereotypical connotations but that’s where it ends. Every culture has their own "redneck" "hillbilly" "trash" term. So what?!?

Now onto your continual use of "racist"; it annoys me to no end when people like to throw that damn phrase around and have no clue ####### they are talking about. You are so good at googling your other points....why not try googling Redneck or Trailer trash etc?!?!? In the majority of searches you will NOT find the term racist NOR discriminatory. It is in your head Kat dear...like many of your other delusional statements you’ve made along the way. People consider the term hillbilly, trailer trash, redneck, etc to be a descriptive term sometimes negative NOT racist and many that are lumped into these groups use the term within their own social circles as well! Lumping all such people together in a single group is similar to using the term Cajun as a description of a uniquely American group.

There is no direction to this thread. You keep saying the same sh!t over and over. Everyone gave their own opinions opposite of yours and you keep debating it hoping for some thread of hope that there is another delusional person out there that shares your opinions. No one is going to side with your skewed view on love and relationships. Honestly, as most have said here move on girl....move on.

I honestly think you need to stay away from these boards for a long while. Your constant swirl is very disturbing like the rants of a bipolar (mentally ill) person and at times makes many of us think either you've stopped your meds or stopped your therapy. If you have a therapist...call them ASAP...I'm not being sarcastic or mean I'm truly concerned about what floats around in your head that you've now accepted as your reality.

Yes!!!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

First, who really gives a ** what an ignorant jealous azz said on that board?! Many foreigners think our streets are paved in gold here and almost all Americans are rich, which is not the case. Should we run around trying to correct every ding dong that posts this as truth? Many of my Arab friends here and overseas joke about "farmers" "fallah/fallaheen" in their countries...its NOT racist Kat, its a joke that may have strong stereotypical connotations but that’s where it ends. Every culture has their own "redneck" "hillbilly" "trash" term. So what?!?

Now onto your continual use of "racist"; it annoys me to no end when people like to throw that damn phrase around and have no clue ####### they are talking about. You are so good at googling your other points....why not try googling Redneck or Trailer trash etc?!?!? In the majority of searches you will NOT find the term racist NOR discriminatory. It is in your head Kat dear...like many of your other delusional statements you’ve made along the way. People consider the term hillbilly, trailer trash, redneck, etc to be a descriptive term sometimes negative NOT racist and many that are lumped into these groups use the term within their own social circles as well! Lumping all such people together in a single group is similar to using the term Cajun as a description of a uniquely American group.

There is no direction to this thread. You keep saying the same sh!t over and over. Everyone gave their own opinions opposite of yours and you keep debating it hoping for some thread of hope that there is another delusional person out there that shares your opinions. No one is going to side with your skewed view on love and relationships. Honestly, as most have said here move on girl....move on.

I honestly think you need to stay away from these boards for a long while. Your constant swirl is very disturbing like the rants of a bipolar (mentally ill) person and at times makes many of us think either you've stopped your meds or stopped your therapy. If you have a therapist...call them ASAP...I'm not being sarcastic or mean I'm truly concerned about what floats around in your head that you've now accepted as your reality.

Does it take an educated person to make horrible mistakes in choosing men? Do educated women generally choose the scum of the Arab world to marry and fornicate with? Do educated women generally accept heinous and cruel treatment of themselves? Do educated women live in a fantasy world of being loved when instead they're being cheated on, spit on, used and emotionally abused? I'm just trying to see how education works in all of this since apparently uneducated ppl can't see past class. I'd rather be judgemental about class and how a person presents him or herself or behaves than be a victim of such behavior I mentioned above.

Trailer trash is not a racial slur. Just because someone lives in a trailer doesn't mean they are trash. It's a two-fer. Trash that lives in trailers. You know the kind I speak of. Multiple baby daddies, ####### azz clothes, no manners, f-ed up hair-dos, dirty, loud, just low class all around. Tell me there aren't MENA men who haven't married these types not realizing what they got themselves into.

where did ya_falaha said anything about American women??? where did she call you, personally, a hillbilly? #######, you are really, really pushing it.

You seriously need to move on. Pronto.

Len,

I never said that she called all women trailer trash. I dont like that expression just like someone mexican would resent someone calling someone a wetback or other derogatory term. I think trailer trash is an offensive term just because it demonises someone for where they live.

And I have to move on how? This is a mena board and I am not insulting anyone. Visit please but please do not try to run the boards. We are having a discussion and you are very welcome to be here...

Whats love got to do with it?

I guess because I was raised with 2 PhD parents, I have never judged anyone by what they wore or where they lived and if they did not have manners, I looked for other things that they could offer and were good at. I think there is alot of classcism in America. We all have worth and it takes an educated person to look past someones exterior and see who they are inside..

Even if the guy found out he was with a hillbilly, he could still treat her with respect. The foreigners have alot we have to deal with too and get over. Its not just them dealing with us..

I thought I would share with you some quotes from a Moroccan board where an American went for advice about her Moroccan boyfriend and the responders called her trailer trash ( they are moroccan of course and I doubt they have ever seen a trailer.) Unless you have figured this out yet,this is a term to dehumanise and put down Americans.

Some replies to the American poster..

All US people claimed they are wealthy,you are and your family are the reject of the american society you live in beer , fries and cookies.If you were wealthy you shouldn't coming to this forum looking to marry a poor educated moroccan who lives with his mother in a tent in the desert.

stick to your kind Yankee Redneck from Trailer Trash

Nial

Milton Keynes, UK

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do you live in a trailer with your family and share a bed with your brother?

This is actually on an arab board with an arab using the words trailer trash to insult the American poster replying to an American who lives in Virginia who is dating a Moroccan. I thought its rather strange that a Moroccan from the UK would use the words trailer trash to insult someone. It just goes to show you that this is a pretty prevalent way that Americans are looked at overseas. Imagine the automatic perception that some of these Moroccans would have based on these preconceived notions about people living in trailers..

Yankee redneck from trailer trash...yep.. that sounds pretty racist come from them

I think you very well know that I gave my very best effort in an impossible set of circumstances. I believe without a doubt that love is the one thing that the people who make it have.If it sounds simplistic,it is.Its absolutely horrible to give everything you have to someone when they do not love you back.

You can work hard,pay bills, provide a home,give second and third chances,be culturally sensitive,forgiving, have a hard work ethic and be a good person and if the other person does not have the same idea as you, it cannot work. Blaming the petitioner is just not fair.

As far as the other comments, Nawal if you had to walk a mile, lets say 300 feet in my shoes and really new me, you would like me. I am a great mom and great friend and a survivor. I do the best I can to face almost unbearable odds and I have never completely abdicated my affinity for mena even though some would, facing what I did. What you said was cruel and not fair but I am sure funny to someone who didnt know me. Staashi knows me in real life. I am a very kind and decent hard working person. If I dont express myself well , I am sorry. I dont think asking for answers about love and its importance in preventing fraud is lunacy. I think if you ask the women who have been defrauded, they will tell you that they can look back and know they were never loved.

I take horrible offense to what you said and think its reprehensible given what I have carried and paid the last 3 years. If you had to, I dont know how you would function and I wouldnt wish it on anyone

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Dayum!!

M4M...you have the best pics!!

First, who really gives a ** what an ignorant jealous azz said on that board?! Many foreigners think our streets are paved in gold here and almost all Americans are rich, which is not the case. Should we run around trying to correct every ding dong that posts this as truth? Many of my Arab friends here and overseas joke about "farmers" "fallah/fallaheen" in their countries...its NOT racist Kat, its a joke that may have strong stereotypical connotations but that’s where it ends. Every culture has their own "redneck" "hillbilly" "trash" term. So what?!?

Now onto your continual use of "racist"; it annoys me to no end when people like to throw that damn phrase around and have no clue ####### they are talking about. You are so good at googling your other points....why not try googling Redneck or Trailer trash etc?!?!? In the majority of searches you will NOT find the term racist NOR discriminatory. It is in your head Kat dear...like many of your other delusional statements you’ve made along the way. People consider the term hillbilly, trailer trash, redneck, etc to be a descriptive term sometimes negative NOT racist and many that are lumped into these groups use the term within their own social circles as well! Lumping all such people together in a single group is similar to using the term Cajun as a description of a uniquely American group.

There is no direction to this thread. You keep saying the same sh!t over and over. Everyone gave their own opinions opposite of yours and you keep debating it hoping for some thread of hope that there is another delusional person out there that shares your opinions. No one is going to side with your skewed view on love and relationships. Honestly, as most have said here move on girl....move on.

I honestly think you need to stay away from these boards for a long while. Your constant swirl is very disturbing like the rants of a bipolar (mentally ill) person and at times makes many of us think either you've stopped your meds or stopped your therapy. If you have a therapist...call them ASAP...I'm not being sarcastic or mean I'm truly concerned about what floats around in your head that you've now accepted as your reality.

Yes!!!

I unlike other people,who have just given up and left would like to communicate with others who have been through some of what I have lived...being bullied on the boards is just a hazard of being here...you have to put up with it to get to kind people and they have been amazing...

The bullies or people who call people trailer trash are just modeling what they are married to..its alot easier to dehumanise someone you are getting ready to mistreat than look beyond it. Kindness is alot harder to meter out.

[ya falaha! 0]

####### does that mean? So my husband is a bully because *I* used the term "trailer trash"? Honey, step off. My husband is a saint compared to those pieces of human waste that you were married to. Both of them. You were used and abused. You have NO business giving ppl advice on marriage. How dare you? Keep my husband out of this.

[Ban Hammer 13,549]

and on that note, i think it's time for this thread to end.

thread closed.