Are you using me for a greencard?

[Chica Yeyé 41]

The way to healing includes letting go. Seriously. This is ridiculous.

[Beth/ Paris Heart 2]

WOW!!! Well, sorry I can related to a few lines in that song. But one thing left out, "I still feel the knife you plunged into my heart" well,how I feel.

I never heard this song before yesterday and really wanted to post the lyrics here and thought maybe if someone needed to hear the song, they would.

I think when you re questioning all the things you did and the thousands and thousands of dollars you spent.... a simple WHAT AM I TO YOU? is a pretty clear question. Even if all you did was send him the lyrics and post the video in an email, asking someone if they would carve your heart in a tree is a pretty clear indicator if they really love you.

I can see it now... send this in an email Paris and ask him.. OUMRI..WIN RAK, WASH BIK, Am I your baby?

If not, matejoubliche. Madiri walou, oumri. ( Dont remind me or make me remember, leave me alone )

I am loving my darja today. This is one of these songs that if you hear it you just want to play it for other people. I think it fits all cultures. It came out in 2004 before the debut Norah Jones alblum with SUNRISE and all those songs..I found it yesterday for the first time and I just love it

I apprechiate what your doing Honey,, but I would not send to him, he cheated on me, that tells me exactly what he thought of our marriage and the love he "has " for me. I dont want a man who dont respect me or himself.

But I do like that song. It still hurts , everyday damn day, I break down like a fool and ask myself What happened?

I may never know, but it happened, all of it. Big hugs to you Dearest!!!

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

The way to healing includes letting go. Seriously. This is ridiculous.

Chica I always seen you around but I have never asked you. Are you the person petitioning for the papers or is someone petitioning for you?

I think if I was the person being sponsored and did not have any debt or obligation, I would definitely not see what the big deal was. But when you are having to sign your life away, jump through hoops and pay thousands of dollars like some of the people on this particular board due the distance and other problems, it makes it uniquely hard and hard to bear.

I am not asking this question in any other way than kindly. I dont really know your story. I do know that most likely your spouse is not from mena and it probably doesnt cost over 2000 to go home and see family coupled with a year in AP and other oddities. I really dont want this question to take away from the lightheardness of the topic but Paris Hearts situation happened about a month ago and telling someone to get over it after a 3 year wait and 2 petitions is really unnecessary. This is a mena board and there are very special circumstances that come with the territory in this part of the world and you may or may not be aware of it

I do think getting over things is important. Silencing people because you dont want to listen to them is another thing. What happened to her is pretty recent and still ongoing... Just a thought. Please dont take it wrong..

[~Jackie~ 30]

I thought this was gonna be an original tune~~~~

I am sure if I gave it some thought I could come up with some catchy lyrics We could have our own site tune "Are you using me for a greencard blues"

hi Kat!

Jackie

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

WOW!!! Well, sorry I can related to a few lines in that song. But one thing left out, "I still feel the knife you plunged into my heart" well,how I feel.

I never heard this song before yesterday and really wanted to post the lyrics here and thought maybe if someone needed to hear the song, they would.

I think when you re questioning all the things you did and the thousands and thousands of dollars you spent.... a simple WHAT AM I TO YOU? is a pretty clear question. Even if all you did was send him the lyrics and post the video in an email, asking someone if they would carve your heart in a tree is a pretty clear indicator if they really love you.

I can see it now... send this in an email Paris and ask him.. OUMRI..WIN RAK, WASH BIK, Am I your baby?

If not, matejoubliche. Madiri walou, oumri. ( Dont remind me or make me remember, leave me alone )

I am loving my darja today. This is one of these songs that if you hear it you just want to play it for other people. I think it fits all cultures. It came out in 2004 before the debut Norah Jones alblum with SUNRISE and all those songs..I found it yesterday for the first time and I just love it

I apprechiate what your doing Honey,, but I would not send to him, he cheated on me, that tells me exactly what he thought of our marriage and the love he "has " for me. I dont want a man who dont respect me or himself.

But I do like that song. It still hurts , everyday damn day, I break down like a fool and ask myself What happened?

I may never know, but it happened, all of it. Big hugs to you Dearest!!!

He cheated on you? When was this and with whom? I thought your case was just in the embassy and you were just over there? Did I miss something? I thought you had been financially helping him for years and had been back and forth over there all of the time? When did all of this happen? I just thought the case was in the embassy and you guys were working things out. I had no idea about this

I thought this was gonna be an original tune~~~~

I am sure if I gave it some thought I could come up with some catchy lyrics We could have our own site tune "Are you using me for a greencard blues"

hi Kat!

Jackie

Hey Jackie. I am not gay but you look HOT.. What the heck is going on with this hair and sultry stuff. Something must be going right in your life...

[Beth/ Paris Heart 2]

WOW!!! Well, sorry I can related to a few lines in that song. But one thing left out, "I still feel the knife you plunged into my heart" well,how I feel.

I never heard this song before yesterday and really wanted to post the lyrics here and thought maybe if someone needed to hear the song, they would.

I think when you re questioning all the things you did and the thousands and thousands of dollars you spent.... a simple WHAT AM I TO YOU? is a pretty clear question. Even if all you did was send him the lyrics and post the video in an email, asking someone if they would carve your heart in a tree is a pretty clear indicator if they really love you.

I can see it now... send this in an email Paris and ask him.. OUMRI..WIN RAK, WASH BIK, Am I your baby?

If not, matejoubliche. Madiri walou, oumri. ( Dont remind me or make me remember, leave me alone )

I am loving my darja today. This is one of these songs that if you hear it you just want to play it for other people. I think it fits all cultures. It came out in 2004 before the debut Norah Jones alblum with SUNRISE and all those songs..I found it yesterday for the first time and I just love it

I apprechiate what your doing Honey,, but I would not send to him, he cheated on me, that tells me exactly what he thought of our marriage and the love he "has " for me. I dont want a man who dont respect me or himself.

But I do like that song. It still hurts , everyday damn day, I break down like a fool and ask myself What happened?

I may never know, but it happened, all of it. Big hugs to you Dearest!!!

He cheated on you? When was this and with whom? I thought your case was just in the embassy and you were just over there? Did I miss something? I thought you had been financially helping him for years and had been back and forth over there all of the time? When did all of this happen? I just thought the case was in the embassy and you guys were working things out. I had no idea about this

I thought this was gonna be an original tune~~~~

I am sure if I gave it some thought I could come up with some catchy lyrics We could have our own site tune "Are you using me for a greencard blues"

hi Kat!

Jackie

Hey Jackie. I am not gay but you look HOT.. What the heck is going on with this hair and sultry stuff. Something must be going right in your life...

Your post is all correct, but yes, infidelity a few times on his part, visa is cancelled, bank account cut off, and for me, well dont know. Taking it day by day, there is nothing more I can do, but breath, and go forward, maybe will be lucklier next time around. Im in no hurry, enjoying myself, making a few new friends, time will heal wounds if a person lets them!!! and I will!!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

The way to healing includes letting go. Seriously. This is ridiculous.

Chica I always seen you around but I have never asked you. Are you the person petitioning for the papers or is someone petitioning for you?

I think if I was the person being sponsored and did not have any debt or obligation, I would definitely not see what the big deal was. But when you are having to sign your life away, jump through hoops and pay thousands of dollars like some of the people on this particular board due the distance and other problems, it makes it uniquely hard and hard to bear.

I am not asking this question in any other way than kindly. I dont really know your story. I do know that most likely your spouse is not from mena and it probably doesnt cost over 2000 to go home and see family coupled with a year in AP and other oddities. I really dont want this question to take away from the lightheardness of the topic but Paris Hearts situation happened about a month ago and telling someone to get over it after a 3 year wait and 2 petitions is really unnecessary. This is a mena board and there are very special circumstances that come with the territory in this part of the world and you may or may not be aware of it

I do think getting over things is important. Silencing people because you dont want to listen to them is another thing. What happened to her is pretty recent and still ongoing... Just a thought. Please dont take it wrong..

HIT - I am Len. I have followed yours and other stories that ended badly. Sister Paris is healing with a lot of strength and has not debased herself at all. She is strong; and I am not silencing her at all. My let go message was for you. I think you can learn from her.

Now, how dare you say that as a sponsored person I don't have obligation? ####### do you know about my situation? We did DCF in Montreal and jumped through hoops as well--- and that has ####### to do with my take on sour grapes. That is just lame "oh, you don't know what harshness is" -- please. I am tired of that kind of rhetoric -It gets pretty annoying after months of it. People are mean, marriages are broken, all the time for all kinds of reasons. Grinding the same coffee beans over and over and over does not make for more sympathy. At some point, the sympathy turns into "oh god, not this ####### AGAIN".

Do not give the MENA speech, either. Asholes are such in MENA, Spain, Haiti and the USofA. It irritates the hell out of me when people try to stereotype -without intending to- people from a certain region. I have friends happily married to men from the region, and I find it insulting when the stereotyping or the cheap talks of "culture" begin. And this applies to ALL culture talks, not just MENA.

I will say it again. Healing involves letting go. It is about time you do.

[Sofiyya 1,687]

gone for awhile and i see some things never change kinda like soap opera digest

I noticed you were MIA. How ya been?

[Twisted K 2]

this could get interesting

[me_4_musa 1]

WOW!!! Well, sorry I can related to a few lines in that song. But one thing left out, "I still feel the knife you plunged into my heart" well,how I feel.

Wow what? What's wrong with gif??

HIT - I am Len. I have followed yours and other stories that ended badly. Sister Paris is healing with a lot of strength and has not debased herself at all. She is strong; and I am not silencing her at all. My let go message was for you. I think you can learn from her.

Now, how dare you say that as a sponsored person I don't have obligation? ####### do you know about my situation? We did DCF in Montreal and jumped through hoops as well--- and that has ####### to do with my take on sour grapes. That is just lame "oh, you don't know what harshness is" -- please. I am tired of that kind of rhetoric -It gets pretty annoying after months of it. People are mean, marriages are broken, all the time for all kinds of reasons. Grinding the same coffee beans over and over and over does not make for more sympathy. At some point, the sympathy turns into "oh god, not this ####### AGAIN".

Do not give the MENA speech, either. Asholes are such in MENA, Spain, Haiti and the USofA. It irritates the hell out of me when people try to stereotype -without intending to- people from a certain region. I have friends happily married to men from the region, and I find it insulting when the stereotyping or the cheap talks of "culture" begin. And this applies to ALL culture talks, not just MENA.

I will say it again. Healing involves letting go. It is about time you do.

Thank you!

[morocco4ever 63]

I have one that you can use. Not a song, but a poem:

Here's to you and here's to me

I hope we never disagree

But if we do then piss on you

And here's to me.

[Beth/ Paris Heart 2]

I have one that you can use. Not a song, but a poem:

Here's to you and here's to me

I hope we never disagree

But if we do then piss on you

And here's to me.

I've got to write that one down!!!

[Tunisia216 2]

I have one that you can use. Not a song, but a poem:

Here's to you and here's to me

I hope we never disagree

But if we do then piss on you

And here's to me.

:rofl:

[SaadBell 0]

Hi Kat - miss ya being around, it is all new people these days. I personally like Alanis Morissette - You Oughta Know lyrics that says it all for me. How you been doing girl?

[~Jackie~ 30]

..let me tell you a story...da dum dum dum...bout a man with a dream...da dum dum dum...

he had a vison...of a card thats green..da dum dum dum ...

the beginning of my blues tune

jJ