Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 21)

[phillyfashionista 8]

JQ mi nuh think yuh wan ramp wid Chiney!

Like you stated this is an open forum for all a wi to voice our opinions and that was how she felt so mi nuh think its fair fi yuh to come at her like dat she was expressing how she felt. Dats all I have to say pon dis subject!

Dat's the same thing I was thinking like aww damn ..LOL

Ok so its gang up on me huh!

Ok yall old timers on here and..........

Let me clarify,

I got PM's saying other things so lets not go there with other things that you know nothing about.......

I wasnt trying to go there Philly with you are no one else but just cause she been on here 15 years dont mean she can just say whatever she want in a PM and then say .....you know what it aint worth it, if you got anything else to say to me say it in a PM so I can address you because here we go with the negativity again

and thats not what the forum is for.

I said my opinion and you said yours such and such said theres and thats it

LET IT GO

NEXT

JQ ....I totally understand what you are saying and TOTALLY AGREE with you.... It's almost like if anyone says ANYTHING about Kimmy post (chiney) they become attacked but Kimmy can attack anyone else's and people are afraid to say anything about it!! The attitude that kimmy gave was of a child with a toy who didn't get their way so they say "I am gonna take my toy and nobody can play with it!!!" FINE....we appreciate everyone's input...newbie or veteran but DAMN.....REALLY??.....why have a temper tantrum because you don't like people's reply's??? NO ONE PERSON HAS THE ANSWER TO EVERY SITUATION....post your views or opinions and then step back! Philly...what kimmy did was post her opinion then throw dirt on us as she said she wasn't coming back....the comment about us all needing to sing cumbiya(sp) was unnecessary because it was in essence saying anyone who gave positive advise were wrong. I have no issues or problems with Kimmy (chiney/hotlegs) and I appreciate her perspective but refuse to sit here and watch when I think a comment was out of line....and then when JQ points it out she gets warned and jumped on. SO>>>>>> next.....

I respect your post Jamerican

[DaDa 1]

Kimmy, the thing is, didn't you do the same thing? You didn't really come out and say what you are wanting to say. Didn't you dance around the subject?

You know what I did. Even though I didn't tell you what I said, I told you that I did say something privately. Cause I think that's the way to handle what I was feeling. It's done and over. I don't see the point in being negative in public sometimes.

And, as far as someone said on here about Ell's being part of the issues at hand. I've been there. I've been exactly where she is. She is frustrated and she's angry. It's not that she doesn't like the man. Hell, she barely knows the man. It's so new still. Hubby and then all of a sudden father appears. She's angry that he didn't take an interest in his son before. She's hearing second hand information sometimes. And the time and energy put into the LDR....you get him here and you want him all to yourself for a while. It takes time to adjust. Lots and lots of time. This wrinkle in the plan is a hassle and it's being sorted through. Just cause she vents......and vents in what I am calling typical Ell's style.....doesn't mean she's acting that venting out. Nor, is it the end all my way or no way. It's VENTING. If you haven't been there yet, you will be. There will be someone that will annoy you in this visa journey. Some family member. Some friend. I've heard it over and over and over again. You work it out. It just takes time. For God's sake, let her vent. People on this very thread may be the only people that will ever understand what she's going through.

Ells, honey.....I understand. Really I have been there and I understand. Deep breaths, girlie. It will all calm down eventually. Look for amicable solutions. Give a little....sometimes a lot. And, stand your ground when you need to. Most importantly, communicate with your hubby. Talk it all out, my friend.

Wow this is the longest post I have seen from you in a long while....

[jamerican 2]

JQ mi nuh think yuh wan ramp wid Chiney!

Like you stated this is an open forum for all a wi to voice our opinions and that was how she felt so mi nuh think its fair fi yuh to come at her like dat she was expressing how she felt. Dats all I have to say pon dis subject!

Dat's the same thing I was thinking like aww damn ..LOL

Ok so its gang up on me huh!

Ok yall old timers on here and..........

Let me clarify,

I got PM's saying other things so lets not go there with other things that you know nothing about.......

I wasnt trying to go there Philly with you are no one else but just cause she been on here 15 years dont mean she can just say whatever she want in a PM and then say .....you know what it aint worth it, if you got anything else to say to me say it in a PM so I can address you because here we go with the negativity again

and thats not what the forum is for.

I said my opinion and you said yours such and such said theres and thats it

LET IT GO

NEXT

JQ ....I totally understand what you are saying and TOTALLY AGREE with you.... It's almost like if anyone says ANYTHING about Kimmy post (chiney) they become attacked but Kimmy can attack anyone else's and people are afraid to say anything about it!! The attitude that kimmy gave was of a child with a toy who didn't get their way so they say "I am gonna take my toy and nobody can play with it!!!" FINE....we appreciate everyone's input...newbie or veteran but DAMN.....REALLY??.....why have a temper tantrum because you don't like people's reply's??? NO ONE PERSON HAS THE ANSWER TO EVERY SITUATION....post your views or opinions and then step back! Philly...what kimmy did was post her opinion then throw dirt on us as she said she wasn't coming back....the comment about us all needing to sing cumbiya(sp) was unnecessary because it was in essence saying anyone who gave positive advise were wrong. I have no issues or problems with Kimmy (chiney/hotlegs) and I appreciate her perspective but refuse to sit here and watch when I think a comment was out of line....and then when JQ points it out she gets warned and jumped on. SO>>>>>> next.....

I respect your post Jamerican

That means a lot to me....thanks Philly..... I don't expect folks to agree but we can all give each other the respect to disagree.

[*JG* 2]

Kimmy, the thing is, didn't you do the same thing? You didn't really come out and say what you are wanting to say. Didn't you dance around the subject?

You know what I did. Even though I didn't tell you what I said, I told you that I did say something privately. Cause I think that's the way to handle what I was feeling. It's done and over. I don't see the point in being negative in public sometimes.

And, as far as someone said on here about Ell's being part of the issues at hand. I've been there. I've been exactly where she is. She is frustrated and she's angry. It's not that she doesn't like the man. Hell, she barely knows the man. It's so new still. Hubby and then all of a sudden father appears. She's angry that he didn't take an interest in his son before. She's hearing second hand information sometimes. And the time and energy put into the LDR....you get him here and you want him all to yourself for a while. It takes time to adjust. Lots and lots of time. This wrinkle in the plan is a hassle and it's being sorted through. Just cause she vents......and vents in what I am calling typical Ell's style.....doesn't mean she's acting that venting out. Nor, is it the end all my way or no way. It's VENTING. If you haven't been there yet, you will be. There will be someone that will annoy you in this visa journey. Some family member. Some friend. I've heard it over and over and over again. You work it out. It just takes time. For God's sake, let her vent. People on this very thread may be the only people that will ever understand what she's going through.

Ells, honey.....I understand. Really I have been there and I understand. Deep breaths, girlie. It will all calm down eventually. Look for amicable solutions. Give a little....sometimes a lot. And, stand your ground when you need to. Most importantly, communicate with your hubby. Talk it all out, my friend.

Wow this is the longest post I have seen from you in a long while....

Ha ha.....when I go for Queen of VJ, I have to make sure no one can say I just posted 100,000 one liners!

[jamerican 2]

ok Kimmy.....wha u gonna say about me??? I know it's comming......... Mi love you still.... mi can handle it.....

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

JAmerican...mek mi be the ###### child who gives a ###### wah mek yuh no just over look like all my other posts..dont get me start on ur ###### ediat man

[DaDa 1]

My friend just texted me and said they played till 1:15 a.m. Geez!

Our Christmas party is here in the dining room. Mass....we have to then socialize with each other....and then lunch, which I have to cater. I don't know why they bother. Everyone just wants to get out of here early and start out holidays.

We are not even getting a Xmas party this year, but they are calling it an Employee Appreciation party at the end of January.

We had a Xmas party but I didn't go. I just wasn't in a celebrating mood on Friday. Well why did I hear that one of the executives ran a tab and you were aloud to get whatever you wanted for an hour but the bar forgot to shut down the tab so it went all night. Ugh!!! I'm so mad at myself!!!!

Wait.............one hour turned into all night? OMG, that's crazy.

Yes so I wonder if he disputed the bill. He did instruct them for a hour they were supposed to shut it down. I hear his bill was outrageous. You know people started taking advantage and getting 5-6 Grey Gooses and such... Dat's why my dad always told me neva to tell a person you got there drink until after they ordered it. People are good for drinking beer and then when you say I got it they go for top shelf.

My mom told me the same thing about eating out. Neva tell a person I'm treating until after they ordered. I see why.

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

ok Kimmy.....wha u gonna say about me??? I know it's comming......... Mi love you still.... mi can handle it.....

man #### dat

[jamerican 2]

JAmerican...mek mi be the ###### child who gives a ###### wah mek yuh no just over look like all my other posts..dont get me start on ur ###### ediat man

:rofl: :rofl: :lol:

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

JAmerican...mek mi be the ###### child who gives a ###### wah mek yuh no just over look like all my other posts..dont get me start on ur ###### ediat man

:rofl: :rofl: :lol:

it funny to meee tooo man..just cause my man no go sleep inna no body cyar wid no bus fare

[phillyfashionista 8]

for the record~

i was replying to phillys picture of the eyelashes

(i even tried reposting the pic, but doesnt look as if it worked)

i dont get involved in heated discussions 'round here

and i have no earthly idea what this is all about

(( hugs Justucia))

Child Hush mi can manage!

O.k. wait a darn minute!!!! I was not taking up for Kimmy nor was I taking up for Philly hell I wasn’t taking up for anyone I was just saying when I saw JQ’s response I was like Uh Oh here we go… Dat is all……

I know what its like to go to war with a veteran. Hell I have went to war with quite a few of them and its like me being the newbie as soon as I spoke up all the veteran’s jumped on me because they s tuck together so I been there done that. All I was saying was uh oh here we go dat is all….

By the way Jamerican you crack me up referencing all the names…

LOL mi knoa what yuh meant I was typing too fast to say what I really wanted to say, LOL I knoa

Me toooo. Even though she takes six months to respond to a PM mi still luv her anyway....

LOL and you got 2 in one day

Mek mi guh get North Philly up in here today CHO! MI see how people tan and likes the last word, LEAVE MY NAME OUT YA MOUTH. Like you said this an open forum no one was jumping on you I was expressing how I feel but you took it personal. All that been on here for 15 years foolnish is outta orda but you chat bout let it go. We all can say how we feel as long as its respectful but when people wan tek it dere mi cya tek it. Now mi dun!!

LOL @ JG this is Xmas time!

Philly me neva seen yuh vexed b4.. It’s turning me on…

I know right I am not usually so hype but yuh know it happens! nuh wake deh beast!

[1luv 1]

MI GAN A MI YARD!

[*JG* 2]

My friend just texted me and said they played till 1:15 a.m. Geez!

Our Christmas party is here in the dining room. Mass....we have to then socialize with each other....and then lunch, which I have to cater. I don't know why they bother. Everyone just wants to get out of here early and start out holidays.

We are not even getting a Xmas party this year, but they are calling it an Employee Appreciation party at the end of January.

We had a Xmas party but I didn't go. I just wasn't in a celebrating mood on Friday. Well why did I hear that one of the executives ran a tab and you were aloud to get whatever you wanted for an hour but the bar forgot to shut down the tab so it went all night. Ugh!!! I'm so mad at myself!!!!

Wait.............one hour turned into all night? OMG, that's crazy.

Yes so I wonder if he disputed the bill. He did instruct them for a hour they were supposed to shut it down. I hear his bill was outrageous. You know people started taking advantage and getting 5-6 Grey Gooses and such... Dat's why my dad always told me neva to tell a person you got there drink until after they ordered it. People are good for drinking beer and then when you say I got it they go for top shelf.

My mom told me the same thing about eating out. Neva tell a person I'm treating until after they ordered. I see why.

Ha ha.....I got offered a free drink last night and I was too freakin' tired to even take it.

[phillyfashionista 8]

That means a lot to me....thanks Philly..... I don't expect folks to agree but we can all give each other the respect to disagree.

Exactly Jamerican that was all I was trying to convey in my initial post

[jamerican 2]

JAmerican...mek mi be the ###### child who gives a ###### wah mek yuh no just over look like all my other posts..dont get me start on ur ###### ediat man

:rofl: :rofl: :lol:

it funny to meee tooo man..just cause my man no go sleep inna no body cyar wid no bus fare

Kimmy....it's not nice to drop pieces of info and everyone not know what you're talking about....Lets fill everyone in....

Ok yall....When Sus went to visit DJ the last time my hubby went to visit them and didn't have enough $ to get home so he slept in Sus car one night.... AND??? Didn't know I should be ashamed about this..... my bad! Kimmy I have no battle with you but just as you can say WHATEVER you want.....so can I. No need to throw stones cause no one of us live in glass houses.......