Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 21)

[MRStee 19]

Ok ladies i am so excited we set the date it is the 27th of feb

congrats

[LadyC 1]

Morning all!

TGIF, but I woke up to SNOW this am

It's been a harder than normal adjustment back - One of my co-workers (we also worked together at a previous job, so we have been friends for over 10 years) has cancer and has been battling for a long time now - While I was away, she started a new type of chemo. Apparently, it didn't go well, and she has been very sick since - Her lungs are filling with fluid, and she has had to have them drained (2 liters of fluid at a time, she weighs all of 90 lbs). I spoke with her yesterday, and she said she doesn't think she is coming back to work again - and that she is stopping chemo.

My heart is breaking - no matter what, it's like she can't catch a break - Within a 6 month window, she lost her mom, her ex-husband, and was diagnosed - now she is dealing with the stress of being ill and a single parent - she's from France so she has no other family here.

Please say prayers for her -

Good Morning SUS....I am sending up some prayers for your friend....T

[MRStee 19]

The wedding is on Saturday. I still have a couple of things to do so I am in panic-mode. I bought the outfit for my wedding night sexy party today , bought my jewelry and the remaining items for his outfit. Now I just need to find a salon to do my hair and makeup, figure out where we are having dinner and find a tiara/veil or some type of headpiece. Its funny how I still have all of this left to do, but I have all of our entertainment plans figured out!

Char, it will all come together. I had to change my venue one week before I was getting married and it all worked out beautifully so no worries

Hey Yardies! Just passing through before I head to bed and wanted to give you a quick update! Gregory and I are doing fine. Still adjusting to each other's ways/habits on a day-to-day basis. I swear we adjust to something different EVERYDAY! But I love having him here. We're making small progress here and there. We STILL haven't gotten the greencard, but they re-issued it after it came back to them that no one lived at that address (Oh yeah--how the hell did I get all of your other freakin mail? ) We should expect it early next week. His social security card arrived in the mail Christmas Eve (YAY!) and his state i.d. arrived yesterday! So we have been putting in applications and I'm trying to put together a resume for him. He will also be able to begin the orientation classes for the GED program at the Community College on Monday, and we are BOTH happy about that! He's so ready to get out the house it ain't even funny. He HATES the cold weather and I tell him that it could be MUCH worse, but he can't even fathom anything being worse than what we're experiencing! He's bundled up all the time and I try not to laugh ALL THE TIME--but he's SOOO cute and funny. We definitely have our days when we're both like "I don't wanna talk to u right now", but we get over it, talk when we're ready, and tell each other that we love each other regardless. Sooo....long story short, we've had some ups and downs, but we're learning and pushing through. I feel like things are definitely starting to look up for us though, and I just think he'll be a lot less anxious when he "feels" like he is actually doing something productive (even though I tell him how much I appreciate his help around the house all the time). I can't imagine not being without this man ever. I love him so much, and I would go through wars as long as I'm going through them with him. Everything that we have ever been through has been all worth it, and I'm only expecting bigger and better things in 2010! Good luck to all the yardies in their relationships/marriages

Tamisha

This sounds like my life but yes things will get better Steve sleeps with a hat on

Morning all!

TGIF, but I woke up to SNOW this am

It's been a harder than normal adjustment back - One of my co-workers (we also worked together at a previous job, so we have been friends for over 10 years) has cancer and has been battling for a long time now - While I was away, she started a new type of chemo. Apparently, it didn't go well, and she has been very sick since - Her lungs are filling with fluid, and she has had to have them drained (2 liters of fluid at a time, she weighs all of 90 lbs). I spoke with her yesterday, and she said she doesn't think she is coming back to work again - and that she is stopping chemo.

My heart is breaking - no matter what, it's like she can't catch a break - Within a 6 month window, she lost her mom, her ex-husband, and was diagnosed - now she is dealing with the stress of being ill and a single parent - she's from France so she has no other family here.

Please say prayers for her -

Sus, sorry about the rough adjustment and yes your friend is in my prayers! God bless her.

Good morning Yardies:

I am home AGAIN battling whatever it is that I have, but I do feel better today than I have all week. I hope all is well with you guys.

Den's before I forget have a safe trip and we want a full report when you get back! lol

[DedicatedWife 4]

Morning all!

TGIF, but I woke up to SNOW this am

It's been a harder than normal adjustment back - One of my co-workers (we also worked together at a previous job, so we have been friends for over 10 years) has cancer and has been battling for a long time now - While I was away, she started a new type of chemo. Apparently, it didn't go well, and she has been very sick since - Her lungs are filling with fluid, and she has had to have them drained (2 liters of fluid at a time, she weighs all of 90 lbs). I spoke with her yesterday, and she said she doesn't think she is coming back to work again - and that she is stopping chemo.

My heart is breaking - no matter what, it's like she can't catch a break - Within a 6 month window, she lost her mom, her ex-husband, and was diagnosed - now she is dealing with the stress of being ill and a single parent - she's from France so she has no other family here.

Please say prayers for her -

Good morning Sus!

I made it in this morning only to find out that the firm made an announcement at 7:34 a.m. and I usually get here at 7:45 a.m. anyways:angry: that the firm had a delayed opening at 10:00 a.m.! Gee thanks!!!!

Sus, so sorry to hear about your friend. My prayers are with her!

[DedicatedWife 4]

Good morning Yardies:

I am home AGAIN battling whatever it is that I have, but I do feel better today than I have all week. I hope all is well with you guys.

Den's before I forget have a safe trip and we want a full report when you get back! lol

Good morning MrsTee (hugs from a distant) Hope you feel better soon!

Thanks, I will report back as soon as I can! Yall know I'm a VJ junkie now....

[LadyC 1]

Good morning Yardies ...how is everyone doing?

Congrats to all those who have good news. I took the day off of VJ yesterday but I will try to catch up.

Char girl everything will fall into place so dont fret.

My2 congrats on the wedding date

Ms Plamer I'm glad everything is falling into place. I think we all have to adjust to each other. I so understand the I dont want to talk to you right now statement.

[DedicatedWife 4]

Steve sleeps with a hat on

What????? Why????

Good morning Yardies ...how is everyone doing?

I took the day off of VJ yesterday but I will try to catch up.

Good morning Lady C! I knew I missed you yesterday! Hope you are staying warm.

[MRStee 19]

What????? Why????

Good morning Lady C! I knew I missed you yesterday! Hope you are staying warm.

Lol maybe because I have the window cracked open just a wee bit and we sleep with our heads towards the window. When the winter is over im burning the hat

Lady C, the drama has calmed down a little bit now. My son starts a job today and school on the 20th. My daughter is being the perfectly lil angel now.. but my eyes are open like this im like a hawk...

[LadyC 1]

What????? Why????

Good morning Lady C! I knew I missed you yesterday! Hope you are staying warm.

Hey Dens....are you ready for your trip? Did you pack?

[LadyC 1]

Lol maybe because I have the window cracked open just a wee bit and we sleep with our heads towards the window. When the winter is over im burning the hat

Lady C, the drama has calmed down a little bit now. My son starts a job today and school on the 20th. My daughter is being the perfectly lil angel now.. but my eyes are open like this im like a hawk...

Hey MrsTee...Im glad everything is calm now. Our kids sure knows how to push our buttons. "AND THIS TOO SHALL PASS".

Steve sleeps with a hat on? Girl I just got a picture in my head

[DedicatedWife 4]

Hey Dens....are you ready for your trip? Did you pack?

I'm soooooo ready!

I'm about 60% packed. Will finish up the rest today since I plan on leaving work early since I got here and found out the office decided to have a delayed opening and advised us at the last minute. Most all the early arrivers were already here or on the way....ughhhhh!

Lol maybe because I have the window cracked open just a wee bit and we sleep with our heads towards the window. When the winter is over im burning the hat

MrsTee, that's cute though. He not trying to catch no drifts while he sleep. I love it! Get a picha of the hat for us!

[LadyC 1]

I'm soooooo ready!

I'm about 60% packed. Will finish up the rest today since I plan on leaving work early since I got here and found out the office decided to have a delayed opening and advised us at the last minute. Most all the early arrivers were already here or on the way....ughhhhh!

MrsTee, that's cute though. He not trying to catch no drifts while he sleep. I love it! Get a picha of the hat for us!

Dens I would have been heated if my job did that to me...Yes leave early and finish packing.

[phillyfashionista 8]

I'm going to wait on the interview, my hubby wants to come home with me he said if i leave him one more time he is going to fall in depression

Awee sweetie this hurts my heart , you are almost at the finish line

Hey Yardies! Just passing through before I head to bed and wanted to give you a quick update! Gregory and I are doing fine. Still adjusting to each other's ways/habits on a day-to-day basis. I swear we adjust to something different EVERYDAY! But I love having him here. We're making small progress here and there. We STILL haven't gotten the greencard, but they re-issued it after it came back to them that no one lived at that address (Oh yeah--how the hell did I get all of your other freakin mail? ) We should expect it early next week. His social security card arrived in the mail Christmas Eve (YAY!) and his state i.d. arrived yesterday! So we have been putting in applications and I'm trying to put together a resume for him. He will also be able to begin the orientation classes for the GED program at the Community College on Monday, and we are BOTH happy about that! He's so ready to get out the house it ain't even funny. He HATES the cold weather and I tell him that it could be MUCH worse, but he can't even fathom anything being worse than what we're experiencing! He's bundled up all the time and I try not to laugh ALL THE TIME--but he's SOOO cute and funny. We definitely have our days when we're both like "I don't wanna talk to u right now", but we get over it, talk when we're ready, and tell each other that we love each other regardless. Sooo....long story short, we've had some ups and downs, but we're learning and pushing through. I feel like things are definitely starting to look up for us though, and I just think he'll be a lot less anxious when he "feels" like he is actually doing something productive (even though I tell him how much I appreciate his help around the house all the time). I can't imagine not being without this man ever. I love him so much, and I would go through wars as long as I'm going through them with him. Everything that we have ever been through has been all worth it, and I'm only expecting bigger and better things in 2010! Good luck to all the yardies in their relationships/marriages

Tamisha

Tam girl why were you on my mind yesterday I am so happy they are reissuing the GC and the adjustment is going good! I knew it would all work out for you 2010 is going to be a great year for all Yardies!

[MRStee 19]

Hey MrsTee...Im glad everything is calm now. Our kids sure knows how to push our buttons. "AND THIS TOO SHALL PASS".

Steve sleeps with a hat on? Girl I just got a picture in my head

you wont have to picture it much longer cause Imma take a picture!

[IrieCat 2]

Morning People! Happy Friday!

Louis and I went to breakfast this morning before I had to get started on work. I AM SO SLEEPY!

1 huge coffee from starbucks and then 2 more cups at breakfast... I need to start mainlining the caffeine!