Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 21)

[MRStee 19]

On the real, I love my children, they just don't show me as much respect as they should. They are at a "selfish, gang up on mom stage" They know not to go too far because they know im "touched". They try to pull together to gang up on me. Its all good though cause I have faith in God and a good bat! Im a realist, I tell them what they aint ready to hear sometimes, but there it is. My children are going to have to learn their life lessons the hard way and when they do, I will tell them "I told you so" but I will also be there to let them that it will be okay.

Steve is the one who sits down and talks. I can only do that for so long, then "Rashida" comes out and its ON!!!!

[IrieCat 2]

All I can say is it is tough. Things started out great, I NEVER thought Louis and Tierra would not get along.

I know Tierra can be jealous of Louis and now she has to share me. I do my best to make this a happy family.

There has to be a mutual respect between Louis and I. We will not always agree on everything.

[MRStee 19]

Chiney, I know it may not solve everything one time. But I can only take it day by day. I would love to go to family counseling but that is not in the budget right now. I also now how stress can effect Louis' attitude.

Louis has no children so this is all new to him. We will have to work this out as a family.

I hope you can work it out, the good thing is Tierra is still young so it can be done, not like my hard-headed a** monsters!!!

LOL..how old are ur kids Mstee?

18 and 14.. AND I CAN'T WAIT FOR THEM TO GET OUT!!!!! lol

Leave them alone...I can tell you one thing soon to be Mrstee -- your son has wonderful manners

He better!!! Yes he does but he is a great manipulator, always has been, he will convince you the sky is green, even though you can see its clearly blue. He needs to be a politician or something! lol

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

Chiney, I know it may not solve everything one time. But I can only take it day by day. I would love to go to family counseling but that is not in the budget right now. I also now how stress can effect Louis' attitude.

Louis has no children so this is all new to him. We will have to work this out as a family.

right! but dont u see he has a different view on how a child should behave? stress is no good for anyone..does Tierra say any after he speaks to her or are u the one feeling the "hurt" for her? so ur reacting on his words many children are resilient and until they develop the understanding they will let things "roll" of their shoulders..I see it with Kimora..and she is the only child..and so is Shems daughter

She is an only child but I extremely strict rules in my house...always have and always will. Damien has told plenty of people that I don't play. You cannot have the same rules for a 4 year-old as a 17 year-old..children do grow up.

i didn't think was comparing 4 and 17 yr old..the rules dont change much the way u present them does..

All I can say is it is tough. Things started out great, I NEVER thought Louis and Tierra would not get along.

I know Tierra can be jealous of Louis and now she has to share me. I do my best to make this a happy family.

There has to be a mutual respect between Louis and I. We will not always agree on everything.

But u must always agree on parenting ..thats what it is about

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Chiney, I know it may not solve everything one time. But I can only take it day by day. I would love to go to family counseling but that is not in the budget right now. I also now how stress can effect Louis' attitude.

Louis has no children so this is all new to him. We will have to work this out as a family.

I hope you can work it out, the good thing is Tierra is still young so it can be done, not like my hard-headed a** monsters!!!

LOL..how old are ur kids Mstee?

18 and 14.. AND I CAN'T WAIT FOR THEM TO GET OUT!!!!! lol

Leave them alone...I can tell you one thing soon to be Mrstee -- your son has wonderful manners

He better!!! Yes he does but he is a great manipulator, always has been, he will convince you the sky is green, even though you can see its clearly blue. He needs to be a politician or something! lol

Well, he's very polite. Girl, he had me dying when he was trying to pronounce my name I said, tell your mom her Jamaican friend called...he's like nawwwww I can remember your name...I said...sure

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Man I go and clean up for the weekend and yall start a new page. LOL!!!

Always--Hope you are doing okay after the accident.

My2--Congrates on being approved. I know you were so happy!!

Belwin--I am praying for you and your family

Okay. Wednesday is the big day. Eric will be here that evening. Hope all goes well. Got make sure my flask got some liquor in it, so I can take a swig before his plane lands. LOL!!!!!!

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

On the real, I love my children, they just don't show me as much respect as they should. They are at a "selfish, gang up on mom stage" They know not to go too far because they know im "touched". They try to pull together to gang up on me. Its all good though cause I have faith in God and a good bat! Im a realist, I tell them what they aint ready to hear sometimes, but there it is. My children are going to have to learn their life lessons the hard way and when they do, I will tell them "I told you so" but I will also be there to let them that it will be okay.

Steve is the one who sits down and talks. I can only do that for so long, then "Rashida" comes out and its ON!!!!

Honestly mstee..this didn't just manifest..it's always been there...trust i'm not perfect..BUT i definately try

[jamerican 2]

Chiney, I know it may not solve everything one time. But I can only take it day by day. I would love to go to family counseling but that is not in the budget right now. I also now how stress can effect Louis' attitude.

Louis has no children so this is all new to him. We will have to work this out as a family.

I hope you can work it out, the good thing is Tierra is still young so it can be done, not like my hard-headed a** monsters!!!

LOL..how old are ur kids Mstee?

18 and 14.. AND I CAN'T WAIT FOR THEM TO GET OUT!!!!! lol

Leave them alone...I can tell you one thing soon to be Mrstee -- your son has wonderful manners

He better!!! Yes he does but he is a great manipulator, always has been, he will convince you the sky is green, even though you can see its clearly blue. He needs to be a politician or something! lol

Well, he's very polite. Girl, he had me dying when he was trying to pronounce my name I said, tell your mom her Jamaican friend called...he's like nawwwww I can remember your name...I said...sure

don't nobody call me

[Shemmy 4]

All I can say is it is tough. Things started out great, I NEVER thought Louis and Tierra would not get along.

I know Tierra can be jealous of Louis and now she has to share me. I do my best to make this a happy family.

There has to be a mutual respect between Louis and I. We will not always agree on everything.

Exactly...I feel the same way. Things are always not going to be easy. We discuss, find a solution and move on.

[*JG* 2]

Chiney, I know it may not solve everything one time. But I can only take it day by day. I would love to go to family counseling but that is not in the budget right now. I also now how stress can effect Louis' attitude.

Louis has no children so this is all new to him. We will have to work this out as a family.

I hope you can work it out, the good thing is Tierra is still young so it can be done, not like my hard-headed a** monsters!!!

LOL..how old are ur kids Mstee?

18 and 14.. AND I CAN'T WAIT FOR THEM TO GET OUT!!!!! lol

Mine are 17 and 14.....I feel your pain.

[sus 70]

don't nobody call me

I call you!

BTW - Di phone is in di mail

[*JG* 2]

I followed all of my parents rules while I lived at home, so did my siblings...our manners were immpecable (we knew better) in more ways than one

And now you are surrounded by crazy people at work......hmmmmmmmm karma?

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

All I can say is it is tough. Things started out great, I NEVER thought Louis and Tierra would not get along.

I know Tierra can be jealous of Louis and now she has to share me. I do my best to make this a happy family.

There has to be a mutual respect between Louis and I. We will not always agree on everything.

Exactly...I feel the same way. Things are always not going to be easy. We discuss, find a solution and move on.

one person can't be the only one working on a happy home...if i'm pulling and ur pushing where does that get us?

[jamerican 2]

don't nobody call me

I call you!

BTW - Di phone is in di mail

How you gonna call me if "Di phone is in di mail"?? :rofl:

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

don't nobody call me

I would if I had your number