Im in shock and I dont know what to do

[Veemer 0]

Thanks for all the advice and opinions everyone, all of you that have posted have valid sense. I dont know where to go from here but im going to give it sometime, she has been texting me lately and I would just reply to her that I am extremely busy. I think I would only need a week to come up with a decision. There are so many things to think off such as saying that PAST IS PAST or WHAT IF SHE WILL DO IT AGAIN BEHIND MY BACK. So much to think off.

THanks and I'll keep everyone posted.

[TripleG 3]

I agree with PhilSir. The definition is relate-able to OP's original question. If he asks for advice, then all parts of the topic should be allowed. Charles you commented several times about the definition of prostitution, then posted that PhilSir and others should stay on topic. I know your a MOD and I wouldn't want the task, but whats good for the goose........

I already sent the OP a PM so I wouldn't get moderated. My basic feeling on the subject is that a bargirl is just like any other woman a man can meet, only she has a crappy job that she might or might not like. If a woman is not a bargirl but is still promiscuous, the same moral dilemma exist, without all the stone throwing from the self-righteous. A prostitute can repent for her sins, change her ways, and go on to lead a normal life and be an excellent wife. The same goes to the woman that had multiple partners without money exchanging hands. I see absolutely no problem what so ever with marking the box with a no answer on the prostitution question. If the medical comes back clear and there is no criminal record then the past is the past, and the CO will not ask the question. Its a double standard anyways. I would say maybe 10% if that many of the Pinoy men that I have met are monogomous. Being a playboy is an accepted part of their culture. So by the logic of some on here, if a man is not monogomous or has used the services of a prostitute then he should not be allowed to immigrate either? Thats B.S.

While living in the RP as an expat before I met my wife, I knew a few bargirls and some where more than just friends. One in paticular became one of my best friends but she was 38 and I was 28 and she would have made an excellent wife, but she was done with the idea of having kids. My point is I wasn't an angel the whole time I was in the RP and I will have to answer for my transgressions one day. On that note, any mistakes I made shouldn't keep me from being happy for the rest of my life though. If I can have forgiveness? Why can't this young lady?

Wyatt

[Ban Hammer 13,445]

personal attack removed. next time you'll get higher level action.

[luv2uallday 1]

personal attack removed. next time you'll get higher level action.

[Dakine 26]

How about a Angeles City cam girl?

A friend has a similiar situation as the OP has.

Edited December 8, 2009 by Dakine

[Ban Hammer 13,445]

given the op has come back and replied that he's got lots to think about and no further information is anticipated in the next 24 hours or so, it seems this thread has run it's course.

thread closed as i don't see any benefit to it staying open. should the op have updates and want to add to this thread, he can pm any of the mods and request that.