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[KnightAndMagpie 7]

I am sincerely getting a headache with this thread, its hits all the wrong tones of the bell.

I request the moderators to close down this twisted Filipino abuse drama attracting a global audience. Such dramas suck out the energy of sincere experienced posters who can guide someone with a real problem in this forum.

Richlyn no disrespect, I am happy for you. Now since things are working out, you and your spouse take the "magic sing" karaoke mic and groove together all night long. No more drama.

Thank you. I was going to suggest the same thing; it's difficult to determine the truth in this matter, and as a result, giving out advice to either husband or wife will not necessarily be beneficial. It's become very convoluted.

This is not to cause offence to the poster or her husband, but...we don't live under your roof, and we're not seeing what's going on. We've got two sides of the same messy story, so it really does need to stop.

Magpie.

[Gracie79 1]

Hope you can figure out a way soon.

[chinese_mutt 11]

Thought they kissed and made up already? Sheesh!!!

People should quit posting every household squabble they have in VJ! hehe.

[fish 0]

Goodness Gracious I know this couple and I ain't gonna say anything else.... Poor guy!

Thought they kissed and made up already? Sheesh!!!

People should quit posting every household squabble they have in VJ! hehe.

[brianmarie 0]

hope everything will be ok in the future. Open communication is the key and respect each other's privacy.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

Thought they kissed and made up already? Sheesh!!!

People should quit posting every household squabble they have in VJ! hehe.

What the FFF??? and take away my daily dosis of international soap opera??????

[FortLaudy 10]

What the FFF??? and take away my daily dosis of international soap opera??????

LOL !!!!! I agree, I LOOOVE it, I haven't checked my facebook since I discovered VJ, this is just too damn addictive though!

[Chica Yeyé 41]

LOL !!!!! I agree, I LOOOVE it, I haven't checked my facebook since I discovered VJ, this is just too damn addictive though!

I like how you think!

[venera 0]

hell to everyone

i have to go back in the philippines even i dont want it, because my husband USC want me to get out of his house he told me that he dont love me anymore so he just want me to send back in the philippines,i have two children and his not own children we argue too much almost everyday 1 week we not talk, me and my children has 2 years gc. i dont really like the way he treat me, he always complain evrything like expences even i help to buy grocery and give my salaryi know is not e enough but atleast i help, he always slapping on my face what hes done to me that make me feel so bad i felt like i trash and nothing he say bad something to me and my children my daugther 4 years old he put my daugther on the rain outside for 20 munites my son told me about it because i was in work that was happen she got wet because she doesnt listen like clean her bedroom and pick the mess and he always ask my son to help him like clean the house clean the 18 wheeler truck it was very cold outside with no jacket or hut sometimes mow grass he treat my 9 years old son like adult whitch is not really bad but i felt sad to my son that it was hard for him...my husband bought ticket for us for next week and i dont want to leave because i have work here. i just want to know if i can able to comeback here with my children after visit or stay in philippines because he said he going to call to uscis to deport me if i dont leave this country and ban here in america.and how long to process the devoce here?

Is that possible for him to deport me before or after the divorce is final?

I am holding a 2-yr GC and it will expire on June 2011. Can I still file for removing of conditions after all that happened or he can ban me for getting one?

sorry my english so bad hope you understand...thanks and i would appreaciate

lyn

yes you can apply I 751 waiver after divorce, no problem

[Kardi_Shian 0]

hell to everyone

i have to go back in the philippines even i dont want it, because my husband USC want me to get out of his house he told me that he dont love me anymore so he just want me to send back in the philippines,i have two children and his not own children we argue too much almost everyday 1 week we not talk, me and my children has 2 years gc. i dont really like the way he treat me, he always complain evrything like expences even i help to buy grocery and give my salaryi know is not e enough but atleast i help, he always slapping on my face what hes done to me that make me feel so bad i felt like i trash and nothing he say bad something to me and my children my daugther 4 years old he put my daugther on the rain outside for 20 munites my son told me about it because i was in work that was happen she got wet because she doesnt listen like clean her bedroom and pick the mess and he always ask my son to help him like clean the house clean the 18 wheeler truck it was very cold outside with no jacket or hut sometimes mow grass he treat my 9 years old son like adult whitch is not really bad but i felt sad to my son that it was hard for him...my husband bought ticket for us for next week and i dont want to leave because i have work here. i just want to know if i can able to comeback here with my children after visit or stay in philippines because he said he going to call to uscis to deport me if i dont leave this country and ban here in america.and how long to process the devoce here?

Is that possible for him to deport me before or after the divorce is final?

I am holding a 2-yr GC and it will expire on June 2011. Can I still file for removing of conditions after all that happened or he can ban me for getting one?

sorry my english so bad hope you understand...thanks and i would appreaciate

lyn

if he will file for divorce, make sure you request for an attorney. under family code, you can request that so your rights are protected. if your income is less than his, he will more likely be obliged to pay for your attorney. don't worry if he will file divorce, i even think its best for you. he can not deport you. if you have question, about this, message me. take care.

[TBoneTX 45,284]

The last two posters answered the first message in a stale thread that they obviously did not read. For efficiency's sake, please avoid doing this in the future. Read entire threads before replying.

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

For efficiency's sake, please avoid doing this in the future. Read entire threads before replying.

I knew there was a reason why I always thought you were the man, TBone.

[Catt 6]

it sounds like you both need to grow up a bit. you need to respect your husband, even if he tells you to leave him alone. your behaviour needs to accomodate his culture, because you have chosen to live in it. this means no bad temper and fighting. that may work in the philipines, but you ain't there anymore. this means leave him alone when he tells you to, and help him when he tells you to. he will respect you and care for you the moment you get your life and your children's lives under control.

you also need to be careful in your use of english language. each word in the Americanised english language has very specific meaning that may not correspond to it's use in phil. you need to tell only the truth, because giving false testimony is considered a very serious offense in America, in a legal sense, and in a relationship. misrepresenting the truth can cost you your relationship, and even wind you up in jail.

Actually, respect in a relationship needs to flow both ways, regardless of where either side is from.

Telling this lady to respect her husband and to accommodate his culture, seemingly simply because she is the foreigner, is quite rude IMO.

She did not just move to the US because she chose to live here, the couple is together because they decided to share their life, is as I see it. Having a relationship involving different cultures implies respect and compromise on both sides, not just the side that happens to be American.

[TBoneTX 45,284]

I knew there was a reason why I always thought you were the man, TBone.

Why, thank you, Dear, si man. I'm rarely da-Man-ding, si man... er, no man... er...