How many lies before you lose trust

[PsychoKat 0]

Just curious about the responses I'll get for this. Remember, when voting don't consider your family, friends or loved ones in your choice, we all know we are more tolerant of those we love than those outside of that circle.

[Isabel 0]

I am very strict on these things. (aside from loved ones of course). The worse one can do is lie to me. Then I am pretty much done with that person.

Isabel

[kittykatwoman 0]

I voted "3 They might just have needed more time to feel comfortable and safe being honest" 3 or more lies, it's not the numbers that count but the circumstances and all kind of things, tho i'm not a psycho so when i find out someone lied to me, i always offer the personn the chance to explain and talk about it calmy and then if this personn keep diving into his/her lies again and again, i may start to be a pain in the ###, hurtfull and all the jazz tho i always give people chances to be imperfect...

I can easily trust someone's word tho once i made up my mind nothing can change it and when i decided someone is useless and is wasting my time i easily turn my back, parents, family, friends, lovers and so, regular people. I have a long list of people i threw out of my life, starting with my own parents, knowing that people know i'm serious about this ######, i'm often called heartless, it must be true in some ways.

Edited July 23, 2006 by kittykatwoman

[46]

All lies in our relationship relate to candy. No loss of faith or weight gain yet on either side.

[iceyspots 0]

zero tolerance!!

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Depends on what they lie about.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Depends on what they lie about.

yeah

[JenT 0]

Once bitten, twice burned. An honest person of moral character would not lie in the first place, regardless of what they lied about.

Jen

Edited July 24, 2006 by JenT

[PsychoKat 0]

So far it's looking fairly evenly spread out

[pj1959us 0]

I agree, zero tolerance for liars. How can someone feel uncomfortable being honest? I couldn't care less the reason...if they're lying to me before I even really know them, then there is no reason to pursue any kind of relationship. Besides, even if a loved one is a liar they definitely aren't on my Christmas card list, either.

[JRluvsLhyn 0]

Once is enough, Second time is Too much!

[William33 110]

Integrity is the basis of trust. Lying sucks....

[babybunny 2]

Depends on what they lie about.

I agree..

[*Robert* 2]

lie is a lie is a lie... should never happen

[samir_shannon 0]

if they would lie once... they will do it again