NVC December 2009 Edition

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

Hey everyone i was wondering how much "Evedince" do you think ill need?

I have Wedding pictures picture of us i have prob 100 pages or texts already i have letters i have some like 5 pages or Yahoo messeges and some pics of us on the web cam. and i have some call logs From calling on the yahoo. but not many i just started that cuz the phone bills i changed my provider and they wont give me my past records. But this should be enough right i Mean im also gonna be there (I hope) for my hubbys interview.

My question is how much Yahoo messeges and web cam screenshots do i need?

Thanks eveyone!

[And_Sam 44]

Hey everyone i was wondering how much "Evedince" do you think ill need?

I have Wedding pictures picture of us i have prob 100 pages or texts already i have letters i have some like 5 pages or Yahoo messeges and some pics of us on the web cam. and i have some call logs From calling on the yahoo. but not many i just started that cuz the phone bills i changed my provider and they wont give me my past records. But this should be enough right i Mean im also gonna be there (I hope) for my hubbys interview.

My question is how much Yahoo messeges and web cam screenshots do i need?

Thanks eveyone!

You know, I didn't include any yahoo messaging or skype messaging because I had ALOT of pages of emails and phone bills and texts...etc...

Plus 2 photo albums. One is the wedding photo album and another one I made up with my visit to his family, friends, places that we went to tour, things like that.

I don't even know if they even look through all that stuff or not. I think the interview is going to be based on my husband. What he is asked and all that good stuff.

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

You know, I didn't include any yahoo messaging or skype messaging because I had ALOT of pages of emails and phone bills and texts...etc...

Plus 2 photo albums. One is the wedding photo album and another one I made up with my visit to his family, friends, places that we went to tour, things like that.

I don't even know if they even look through all that stuff or not. I think the interview is going to be based on my husband. What he is asked and all that good stuff.

Oh ok, I have some emails and I'll print out the call records but I'm only putting 5 pages of each webcam and yahoo that all LOL. What more proof do they need then wedding pics other pics and me being there with him. Gezze just give me my visa LOL

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

Ugh waitting for my hubbys relative to arrive here and give me the DS-230 packet so i can mail it in is like death lol. its taking to long! she should be here monday or tuesday, but if she dose not come monday i cant send it till the 5th! but if she comes on monday i can mail it tuesday overnight so it gets there wensday before the new years holiday. I realy want a febuary interview. is that asking for too much? lol

[Bern. 3]

I hope you get it all done soon MQ! Keep on chugging! :]

And oh wow, we're the same age hahah

Edited December 27, 2009 by Bern.

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

I hope you get it all done soon MQ! Keep on chugging! :]

And oh wow, we're the same age hahah

Yah there comming tuesday or wendsday o well, at least ill have thursday friday saturday and sunday to get everything ready ill send The DS-230 Monday overnight.

O kool i had no idea we were the same age that's kool! How long have you been married?

[And_Sam 44]

Yah there comming tuesday or wendsday o well, at least ill have thursday friday saturday and sunday to get everything ready ill send The DS-230 Monday overnight.

O kool i had no idea we were the same age that's kool! How long have you been married?

You'll get it MQ!!!

Hope eveyone had a great holiday!! I'm back home again whew!!! That traffic was horrible!! Everybody is coming to Florida!!!

It's my son's birthday tomorrow so you know where he wants to celebrate it...DISNEY WORLD!!! Good thing I like it there!

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

You'll get it MQ!!!

Hope eveyone had a great holiday!! I'm back home again whew!!! That traffic was horrible!! Everybody is coming to Florida!!!

It's my son's birthday tomorrow so you know where he wants to celebrate it...DISNEY WORLD!!! Good thing I like it there!

Glad you made it home safe. Happy early Birthday to your son, Hope you both have a great day at disney World

[And_Sam 44]

Glad you made it home safe. Happy early Birthday to your son, Hope you both have a great day at disney World

Thanks MQ~ Have you heard from your husband's relative that is bringing you the paperwork you need? I hope you get everything!!

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

Thanks MQ~ Have you heard from your husband's relative that is bringing you the paperwork you need? I hope you get everything!!

Yah he put everything in an evelope and sent it with her, told her not to let anyone open or touch it, that im the first one to open it lol, he put me a gift in there also. But it will be here tuesday or wensday. Ill gather everything make sure nothing is missing and such and send it on thr 4th and everything will be with them on the 5th. all that will be left on my part is to wait for log in failed lol.

[Bern. 3]

O kool i had no idea we were the same age that's kool! How long have you been married?

I've been married since February 25, 2009, so 10 months! How long have you been married for MQ?

And just so you know, for our evidence we have pictures dating back to 2008, letters dating back from 2007, 2 receipts from the flowers he's sent me since he's been deployed, 2 roses pressed too, and phone logs, skype logs...yeah, and still compiling evidence.

Edited December 28, 2009 by Bern.

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

I've been married since February 25, 2009, so 10 months! How long have you been married for MQ?

And just so you know, for our evidence we have pictures dating back to 2008, letters dating back from 2007, 2 receipts from the flowers he's sent me since he's been deployed, 2 roses pressed too, and phone logs, skype logs...yeah, and still compiling evidence.

Aw thats great i have been married since June 18 2009 so about 6 months.

Yah i have text messages and letters and phone logs pictures some webcam pics and some screen caps of yahoo messeger lol. he sends me lots of gifts but with reletaves who come here so i cant prove that to them lol

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

I was just reading threw the practice questions for the interview and some of them are a bit umm lets just say if they asked me or my hubby i would be sooo angry and some are just dumb

Development of Your Relationship

• When and where did you meet for the first time?

• Could you please describe the first meeting?

• Did you make arrangements to meet again?

• Did you exchange phone numbers and/or email addresses?

• When did you meet next?

• Where were you living at the time? Where was your spouse living?

• What did the two of you have in common?

• Where did you go for the dates?

• When did your relationship turn romantic?

• Who proposed to whom?

• Why did you decide to have a long (or short) engagement?

• How long was it before you decided to get married?

• When did you decide to get married?

• Did you live together before marriage?

• Did your parents approve of the match? Why or why not?

You and your spouse

• What is your name, address and date of birth?

• What is the name, address and date of birth of your spouse?

• What did you do for your spouse's last birthday?

• What did you give each other for your last birthdays?

• How often and what time do you call each other by phone?

• Which holidays do you celebrate together?

• What activities did you do together the last time you visited each other?

• Which of your financial matters are shared, or who supports the other financially?

• Do you and/or your spouse have any scars or tattoos? If yes, where on the body?

• Where do you work?

• What time do you or your spouse arrive home (whoever is working)?

• What are your working hours?

• What is your annual salary?

• Where does your spouse work?

• What are your spouse's working hours?

• What days of the week does your spouse work?

• What is your phone number at work?

• What is your spouse's phone number at work?

• Do you know your spouse's salary? If yes, how much is it?

• Do you and/or your spouse attend regular religious services? Where?

• Do you have any joint bank accounts? Where? What kind of accounts (checking, savings, money market etc)?

• Are both of you listed on the account? As a proof, do you have a bank letter or cancelled checks?

• Who takes care of paying the bills?

• What religious holidays do you celebrate together?

• What is the most important holiday of the year in your household? Where do you typically celebrate it?

• What did the two of you do last New Year's Eve? Fourth of July? Thanksgiving? Christmas?

• How did you celebrate your most recent wedding anniversary?

• Have you and your spouse gone to see a movie (or any other form of entertainment) lately? When and what did you see?

• When was your last vacation? Did you and your spouse go anywhere together at that time?

• When did your spouse take vacation last time from work?

• When was the last vacation you and your spouse took together?

• Where did you go? How did you get there? Could you please describe in detail?

• Do you have the photos from your last vacation together?

• Did you file a joint tax return this year? Can I see the copy of it?

• Do you jointly own any property? If yes, can I see the copies of the documents?

• Do you have an insurance policy listing your spouse as the beneficiary? If yes, can I see copy of the same?

• Do you have any utility bills where both of you are listed together?

• Do you have receipts from items you have purchased together?

• What other documentation do you have to prove that you are living together as a married couple?

• What did you do for Christmas, New Year, your anniversary? Did you exchange gifts? If so, what kind of gift?

Wedding

• Where was the wedding held?

• How did you and your spouse get to the church, temple, mosque, gurudwara, courthouse etc?

• How many people attended your wedding?

• Who were the witnesses to the ceremony?

• Did each of your parents attend the wedding?

• What kind of cake or other food was served?

• Did you serve the liquor? What kind?

• Did anyone get drunk or otherwise embarrass themselves at the reception? Who? Describe.

• How late did the guests stay at the wedding?

• Did you exchange wedding rings? Did you and your spouse purchase them together or separately?

• Was there music or other entertainment?

• Who were the bridesmaids/groomsmen?

• Did you have a reception after the ceremony?

• If you didn't have a reception, what did you do after the wedding ceremony?

• Where was the reception held?

• Could you please describe the reception?

• Could you please show me any photos of the wedding ceremony and/or reception?

• Did the bride change clothes for the reception?

• What time did you and the [bride or groom] leave the reception?

• Did you go on a honeymoon? When did you leave? How did you get there? Where did you go? For how long? What airlines?

• Where did you live after the wedding?

Relatives

• Do you know your spouse's family members? Which ones?

• Have you met each other's parents?

• When did you see them last time? For how long? Where?

• Do you buy gifts for your in-laws on important holidays? Do they buy gifts for you?

• Which other members of your spouse's family do you see frequently? When was the last time you saw them? What did you do together?

• How often do you see each other's parents?

• How do each of you get along with your parents-in-law?

Children

• How many children do you have?

• What are the names, birth dates and birth place (hospital name, city) of each child?

• Which children were normal delivery and which ones were c-section?

• What is the name of your child's best friend?

• Who prepares and packs the lunch for your children?

• What is your usual babysitter's name? What are the day care timings?

• What is the name of your child's teacher?

• Who picks up the children at school?

• What are their least favorite foods?

• Which children (if any) still use a car seat?

• What are the favorite toys/activities of your children?

• If your spouse has children from a previous marriage, what are their names, ages, where they live, and where they go to school, if applicable?

House

• Could you please describe the place where you lived right after the marriage? No. of bedrooms and bathrooms; furnishings; color of walls, floor coverings, appliances, etc; type of air conditioning (window or central), heating (gas or electrical), etc; number of telephones, TV sets etc.

• Do you live in a home (single family, condominium, townhouse) or apartment? How much is the mortgage or rent? Who pays it?

• Who cleans the house?

• What are the garbage pick up days?

• Do you write checks for paying the bills or online billing?

• What color are the curtains in your house?

• What type of curtains or window coverings are in your living room? What color?

• Who gets up first? At what time?

• Do you set up the alarm clock to get up in the morning?

• What do each of you eat for breakfast?

• How many staircases are in your house?

• Is there a carpet in your front hallway? What color?

• Do you have any pets? Which ones (such as dog, cat, fish etc.)? Who feeds it? Who walks it or cleans its cage, kitty litter box etc?

• How many sinks, toilets, and showers are there in your house/apartment in total?

• Is your sofa a regular one or does it have pull-out bed? If later, have you ever had guests sleep there?

• Where did you get the furniture? Was the furniture already there, did you buy it, was it a gift, or did it come from you, or your spouse's previous residence?

• How was the furniture transported to the house?

Technology

• Who keeps the garage door opener in the car?

• How many remote controls are there in your house?

• How many cars do you have?

• Do you have a garage? How many cars fit into it? Who parks in it? Do you use a garage door opener?

• How many telephones are in your house? Where are they?

• Do both of you have cell phones? Do you have family plan on the phones?

• Does your phone have answering machine? Who checks the messages?

• Do you have VCR? What brand? Do you use it only to watch videos, or do you record any TV shows?

• Do you have DVD player? What brand?

• Where do you rent the movies from?

• Does your spouse listen to the radio? What station?

• Do you have cable TV or satellite dish?

• Who is the cable/dish provider in your house?

• Does your spouse listen to music? What kind of equipment does he/she have such as walkman, iPod etc?

• How many TV sets are in your house? In which rooms?

• Do you watch TV shows together, or separately?

• Name one TV show that you always watch together.

• Do you have still camera? Is that digital camera or the one with the roll?

• Who uses the camera most often?

• Who takes pictures at important family occasions or during sightseeing?

• Do you have camcorder? What brand is it?

What dose any of that have to do with anything?

Kitchen

• Who goes for grocery shopping? Where? How often? How do you get there?

• What color are the kitchen curtains?

• Who makes the breakfast?

• What does your spouse drink in the morning? (Such as coffee, tea, milk etc.) If so, does he/she use cream and/or sugar?

• What is your spouse's most (or least) favorite food?

• Is there a particular food that you eat every week? What is it?

• What are your favorite foods and who cooks what?

• Do you have a barbecue grill? Do you use it? Is it gas or charcoal?

• Who does most of the cooking?

• How many times a week on average do you eat out?

• What is your special restaurant?

• Where is the garbage kept in the kitchen?

Bedroom

• What size is your bed (twin, queen, king)?

• Do you have a regular mattress, futon, or waterbed?

• Who sleeps on each side the bed?

• Does either of you read or watch television before going to sleep?

• Do you have lamps next to your bed?

• Have you ever had an argument that resulted in one of you sleeping in another room? Who, and which room?

• What kind of birth control do you use? What brand do you use?

• When was your wife's last menstrual period? • Do you leave any lights on when you go to sleep at night?

• How many windows are there in your bedroom?

• Where do you keep your toothbrushes?

• Does your spouse use regular toothbrush or an electrical one?

• What kind of toothpaste, soap, and shampoo does each of you use?

• Where do you keep your clothes? Where does your spouse keep his/her clothes?

• What color are your spouse's pajamas?

• What is your favorite position (missionary, doggy, cow girl etc)?

• Where are the bathroom towels kept?

• Where do you keep the dirty clothes?

Just before the interview

• Did you or your spouse go to work yesterday?

• If so, at what time did you and/or spouse leave the house and return?

• Did you eat dinner together last night? What did you have?

• Did anyone else have dinner with you last night?

• Who cooked the dinner last night? What time was dinner served?

• Did you watch TV after dinner? What shows did you watch?

• Who went to bed first?

• At what time did you go to bed?

• Did you have the AC, fan or heater on? • Who woke up first this morning? Did an alarm clock go off?

• Did you or your spouse take a shower this morning?

• Did you have breakfast? Where and what did you eat?

• Did you come to the interview together? Who drove?

Red=What Dose It Have To Do With Anything

Blue= Excuse me i dont think that any of your consern

There are so many more but im kidda annyoed at these questions lol im not gonna even highlight them all. I mean realy these better not be the questions they realy ask cuz common.what else whould you like to know if i went to the bathroom before i walked in? common realy

Edited December 28, 2009 by Muslimqueen

[ishazi 0]

MQ i am in the same state as you are waiting for the DS-230 package. I also plan to mail it around the same time as you so lets hope for the best.

[♥Muslimqueen♥ 2]

MQ i am in the same state as you are waiting for the DS-230 package. I also plan to mail it around the same time as you so lets hope for the best.

ow thats cool im glad there some one else at the same progress as you when do ypu expect to recive it?