I looooove you!

[Karen_L 1]

Just a poll to see when people first told their sig. other 'I love you!' and who said it first in the relationship. I realize many people here communicated online as friends prior to officially beginning a romantic relationship, but I guess you should answer the second question based on when you personally think your relationship began, whether Romantic or at all ;-)

As for me... my fiance' told me "Ti amo tanto" about 1 month after we began dating He said it first

[sparkofcreation 0]

Errr ... he said it several months before our "relationship" began. I freaked out. Understandably, I think. We'd known each other almost a year by then but we were just friends.

[iceyspots 0]

I said it, around two months after we were talking

Ana neghbrik

[gimygirl 0]

[Karen_L 1]

Certainly it doesn't LOL -- maybe I should have added "...And did you/he/she actually mean it? Yes. No. Dunno."

[BelwinMills 0]

He said it after 2 years of being friends. And a couple weeks we spent togther when I was down with my college group. He called me and said the sweet words and I never accepted another collect call from him again

[Mandi+Ryan 1]

I, the USC, said it first. Though my fiancé was thinking it too. We were together about 2ish months. I said it to him, and it felt SO GREAT to hear him say it back.

Edited July 22, 2006 by Mandi

[luvaLimey 0]

we danced around actually saying for a while.

It was kind of sweet the way we found every other way of saying it instead of saying those words.

But I know when he says it, he means it. He doesn't say things he doesn't mean.

And I mean it too. I love him so much. I feel like I didn't really know what love was until I met him.

[moondancer627 0]

He said it over the phone after one of our first few weekends together.

Moondancer

[Alex+R 0]

Is this bad? Neither of us can remember...

I'm pretty sure he was first...but I can't confirm that.

[cheeky^Wolf 0]

It was about 7 days into my first visit here, we were driving down the road, Dave was very quiet, I asked him if everything was ok, he said "yes, but I don't know how to say this.... basically I've fallen in love with you" I said " oh good, so have I!" Since then I don't think a day has passed that we've not told the other I love you.

So it was a week after our first meeting and 5 years since we first started talking.

[gimygirl 0]

Since then I don't think a day has passed that we've not told the other I love you.

So it was a week after our first meeting and 5 years since we first started talking.

this is a subject i find really interesting ... i feel no huge need or compulsion to tell geoff that i love him every single day or every time i leave the house or anytime we may ever be apart and he feels the same.

our love is complete and true and is shown on a daily basis ... mere words alone can't compete with our actions. saying some phrase over and over ends up sounding like: i like mayo on my fries ... it loses it's intended meaning after a while.

i don't know ... ya'll know i'm left of center already!

[Alex+R 0]

Since then I don't think a day has passed that we've not told the other I love you.

So it was a week after our first meeting and 5 years since we first started talking.

this is a subject i find really interesting ... i feel no huge need or compulsion to tell geoff that i love him every single day or every time i leave the house or anytime we may ever be apart and he feels the same.

our love is complete and true and is shown on a daily basis ... mere words alone can't compete with our actions. saying some phrase over and over ends up sounding like: i like mayo on my fries ... it loses it's intended meaning after a while.

i don't know ... ya'll know i'm left of center already!

I feel the same way. But yet, as time goes on, I keep sort of expecting "I love you" at the end of many calls, or at least feel the compulsion to say it myself. I have no idea why. Is it just because of what I've grown up with? I guess that's what we do in my nuclear family, so perhaps that's why, although we have made an effort to not say that at those certain conventional times to try to make it mean more when we say it. I dunno.

[gimygirl 0]

Since then I don't think a day has passed that we've not told the other I love you.

So it was a week after our first meeting and 5 years since we first started talking.

this is a subject i find really interesting ... i feel no huge need or compulsion to tell geoff that i love him every single day or every time i leave the house or anytime we may ever be apart and he feels the same.

our love is complete and true and is shown on a daily basis ... mere words alone can't compete with our actions. saying some phrase over and over ends up sounding like: i like mayo on my fries ... it loses it's intended meaning after a while.

i don't know ... ya'll know i'm left of center already!

I feel the same way. But yet, as time goes on, I keep sort of expecting "I love you" at the end of many calls, or at least feel the compulsion to say it myself. I have no idea why. Is it just because of what I've grown up with? I guess that's what we do in my nuclear family, so perhaps that's why, although we have made an effort to not say that at those certain conventional times to try to make it mean more when we say it. I dunno.

absolutely .... i'm SO there with you on that! same thing with my nuclear family as well. when i end a call with my sister it almost sounds like one word: k loveyoubye!

[cheeky^Wolf 0]

Since then I don't think a day has passed that we've not told the other I love you.

So it was a week after our first meeting and 5 years since we first started talking.

this is a subject i find really interesting ... i feel no huge need or compulsion to tell geoff that i love him every single day or every time i leave the house or anytime we may ever be apart and he feels the same.

our love is complete and true and is shown on a daily basis ... mere words alone can't compete with our actions. saying some phrase over and over ends up sounding like: i like mayo on my fries ... it loses it's intended meaning after a while.

i don't know ... ya'll know i'm left of center already!

I've never been an "i love you" kinda person with my family, I think I've said it to my parents twice out loud.. we always say we don't need to say it, it's a given.

However Dave's a long distance truck driver. I've always said "mind how you go, I love you" while he's out on the road, I guess it's quicker than saying "if anything should happen to you I'd be devastated and please make it home"