Prison officer jailed for having inmate's baby

[Wyatt's Torch 45]

again

people commit more serious crimes than this and get off scott free!!

My God this is really ridiculous...I think firing that prison officer would have been suffice

Yeah, I'm surprised this thread hasn't stuck with the fact that 2.5 years in prison is ridiculous for this case!

I mean, not only is the judge going overboard in the sentencing of what should be a misdemeanor...he's also going to have a hand in screwing up the life of the child as well, forcing it to be without its mother during those critical first years.

I'm no bleeding heart, but this strikes me as a dumb ruling.

[Heracles 417]

This is my take on it...

In so far as "women like bad boys", the answer is that they don't like them for being "bad." Well, some do, but that's an entirely different subject usually relating to family abuse or low self-esteem.

"Bad" is often thought of as a negative trait (and in some cases it is), but what usually happens is these so-called "bad boys" attract the girls because they have confidence. A male who is confident -- but not arrogant -- is often very attractive to women.

Women like nice guys. They want someone who treats them and their family well. Unfortunately, most "nice guys" are doormats. In other words, they lack confidence and basically do whatever the woman says. Women don't want someone who is bossy, but on the other hand, they also want someone who isn't a sniveling little dork hiding from his own shadow.

It's more or less a combination of the two: You need to be confident, but still attend to her needs. That's easier said than done, of course.

Do you think this also applies to guys? The bad girl type equivalent (psycho) is not my type. I find those girls usually prey on nice guys who will not question them in any way.

Also, nothing worse than the ultra bossy or over confident female; which tend to be a result of being daddy's little girl. I had a few run ins with those types. Never dated one but my friends did.

[spookyturtle 9,465]

maybe she was some horny terribly ugle lady who can't get laid and you know, inmates will **** anything

specially each other

True. I'm surprised she got pregnant since most inmates are into butt fuсking.

[The_Dude 1,142]

Why do women like bad boys?

The irony is I don't know many guys who like the bad girl equivalents. Actually, most run sprint for the hills from these types.

You've said on here that you have no friends in real life, so how the hell would you know? Most guys i've known, and myself included loved bad girls in our teens and 20's, but as you get older, you get tired of the drama and all around BS.

No friends here my age bud. I refuse to associate with any douche under 33 here. Boy do you guys have Douches.

If you think everyone around you is a douche.... chances are it is in fact YOU who is the douche. I think a vast plurality of people on this website can attest to that as well.

[DeadPoolX 9]

This is my take on it...

In so far as "women like bad boys", the answer is that they don't like them for being "bad." Well, some do, but that's an entirely different subject usually relating to family abuse or low self-esteem.

"Bad" is often thought of as a negative trait (and in some cases it is), but what usually happens is these so-called "bad boys" attract the girls because they have confidence. A male who is confident -- but not arrogant -- is often very attractive to women.

Women like nice guys. They want someone who treats them and their family well. Unfortunately, most "nice guys" are doormats. In other words, they lack confidence and basically do whatever the woman says. Women don't want someone who is bossy, but on the other hand, they also want someone who isn't a sniveling little dork hiding from his own shadow.

It's more or less a combination of the two: You need to be confident, but still attend to her needs. That's easier said than done, of course.

Do you think this also applies to guys? The bad girl type equivalent (psycho) is not my type. I find those girls usually prey on nice guys who will not question them in any way.

Also, nothing worse than the ultra bossy or over confident female; which tend to be a result of being daddy's little girl. I had a few run ins with those types. Never dated one but my friends did.

Honestly, I've never given that much thought. The "bad girl" type didn't do much for me.

Besides... there's a difference between a "bossy woman" and Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction.

And what, pray tell, even constitutes a "bossy woman" anyway? A woman who tells you to pick up after yourself or stop eating over the garbage can? More often than not, a woman gets "bossy" if she needs to repeatedly ask her boyfriend or husband to do relatively simple things.

I know I'm guilty of putting stuff off. Sometimes my wife has to light a fire under my a$$ in order to motivate me.

I'm not quite sure about the "over confident" female bit. I know there are some women like this, but I'd say that's arrogance rather confidence. Plenty of men act that way too.

But yes, I know of the type of girl you're talking about. In one thread within the Canada Forum, there's a good example of this. TheTreble's brother-in-law was unfortunate enough to marry such a girl. They divorced very soon afterward, but her BIL (and his family) were pushed around a lot.

[SuperDuper! 230]

Why do women like bad boys?

We don't know. Why don't you tell us why they like you so much and want to have your babies?

[Nessa 23]

maybe she was some horny terribly ugle lady who can't get laid and you know, inmates will **** anything

specially each other

True. I'm surprised she got pregnant since most inmates are into butt fuсking.

they're into it because there's no gina. and when one shows up, it's like gold

[spookyturtle 9,465]

maybe she was some horny terribly ugle lady who can't get laid and you know, inmates will **** anything

specially each other

True. I'm surprised she got pregnant since most inmates are into butt fuсking.

they're into it because there's no gina. and when one shows up, it's like gold

I thought they prefered a nice hairy butt.

[Nessa 23]

you should get HBO

[DeadPoolX 9]

you should get HBO

Cinemax (or as it's unofficialy called: Skinemax).

[Mr. Big Dog 10,747]

Hot men, possibly, men who have means and acumen certainly, but useless ne'er do wells? Please, grow tf up.

I'd count my younger brother somewhat into this category and he's never short of hot chicks.

[DeadPoolX 9]

Hot men, possibly, men who have means and acumen certainly, but useless ne'er do wells? Please, grow tf up.

I'd count my younger brother somewhat into this category and he's never short of hot chicks.

There was a study in 2006 conducted by two sociologists (Richard A. Bogg and Janet M. Ray) who gathered data on dating habits and relationships.

They found the following:

"Women are perceived as declaring preferences for 'kind, sensitive, and emotionally expressive men' but in making dating selections often appear to prefer 'unkind, insensitive, emotionally closed men.' The present authors, reflecting on a four-year study of working class men and women who frequented bars, recalled a similar phenomenon. Observed willful men with serious drinking problems, chaotic job performances, and acute suspiciousness of women as a class, had surprising success gaining and maintaining the loyalty of attractive, employed females. Furthermore, these men, all of whom had been cited for misdemeanors, seemed to have advantages over men who had clean slates, steady jobs, and generous spirits."

That said, there is data we don't know, such as socioeconomic class, age group, relationship history, employment, area of the country, etc. So there's a lot of information that's unaccounted for in this study.

[Amby 490]

I know quite a few guys that are kind/sensitive & azzholes. I like the combo.

[spookyturtle 9,465]

I know quite a few guys that are kind/sensitive & azzholes. I like the combo.

Any live in the DC area?

[Amby 490]

I know quite a few guys that are kind/sensitive & azzholes. I like the combo.

Any live in the DC area?

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