LOVE IS POWERFUL..>!!!!!!!!!!!

[robbie jeannet 5]

I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START THIS BUT, I WANT TO SHARE THIS WONDERFUL, AND COLORFUL LIFE OF ME.... I MEET MY BF ONLINE, DIDN'T EXPECT THE LOVE THAT GROW BETWEEN US, I THOUGHT ITS ALL MY DREAM, AND ITS FAIRY TALE, BUT SUDDENLY I REALIZED IT WASN'T A FAIRYTALE NOR A DREAM. ITS REAL. AND NOW WE ARE ABOUT TO START A NEW LIFE TOGETHER....

TO THOSE WHO READ THIS MESSAGE. DO THINGS WITH LOVE.....WE CAN BE HAPPY IF LOVE IS ALWAYS THERE BETWEEN US....

HAPPY READING!!!!!!!!!!!

[rlogan 2,036]

I DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START THIS BUT, I WANT TO SHARE THIS WONDERFUL, AND COLORFUL LIFE OF ME.... I MEET MY BF ONLINE, DIDN'T EXPECT THE LOVE THAT GROW BETWEEN US, I THOUGHT ITS ALL MY DREAM, AND ITS FAIRY TALE, BUT SUDDENLY I REALIZED IT WASN'T A FAIRYTALE NOR A DREAM. ITS REAL. AND NOW WE ARE ABOUT TO START A NEW LIFE TOGETHER....

TO THOSE WHO READ THIS MESSAGE. DO THINGS WITH LOVE.....WE CAN BE HAPPY IF LOVE IS ALWAYS THERE BETWEEN US....

HAPPY READING!!!!!!!!!!!

I know how you feel. I wish the best for you. It's been the most amazing thing that ever happened to me.

The only surprise to me was from people who showed some racism, or bigotry, whatever you want to call it - without realizing they were doing it. One person actually said to me that I had "given up". I didn't know ####### he was talking about so I asked him to explain, and he said I had given up on white women, as if that was something that was superior and I had settled for a lesser race.

I was so blown away by it I didn't know how to answer because it was completely backwards to my way of thinking. Here I had this exotic, intriguing and staggeringly beautiful girl - something I specifically sought out in fact - and I was giving up? I'm looking at superwoman, I just adore my wife, and he's thinking "mud person". Talk about a retard!

Then there was the more subtle "you can't love each other because..." bigotry out of supposedly more genteel folk. Different social classes, different languages and culture, different ages, education, radically different weather and seasons, etc. Well, you don't really love each other, because logically it cannot be so, and therefore you more or less tolerate each other's presence. Probably look the other way when you are making love. You know, the man thinking of a white girl speaking perfect midwestern dialect and the girl thinking about a young drunk smoker/gambler #######-fighting junkie from her Barangay. Someone who is guaranteed to run away if she gets pregnant. The girl pining away for a Typhoon and floods. The man barfing up his pancit 'cuz you know the only legitimate food is french fries. Rice? ick!

The people who are similarly situated can empathize. Holy Cow it has been more than we ever could have imagined. So we understand. It's wonderful. Pancit is my favorite food, just the way she cooks it. I know the Pinay ladies here love their men and make them more a priority than their US competition by and large. I cherish that. How much you love us.

Initially I did try to explain it to the people that had this bigoted attitude: no, look, you have it all wrong - I am totally digging the asian look and the cultural differences are attractive to me, it's an adventure to do things outside rigid class/race/nation boundaries...

but with some of them there's just no point in engaging with them. It gives me insight into how people in the pre-civil rights era could, with a perfectly sincere manner, say "***" to a black man and indeed mean "inferior race" by it. It's appalling, but there are bad people who steal and murder, rape, etc. too. You cannot logically convince a committed bigot/racist about something because that is who they are. The Master Race, you know.

Expect to run into some subtle or even not-so-subtle bigotry. Probably depends a lot on how cosmopolitan your new area is. I don't mean racism like the pre-1960's apartheid USA black/white type. But it's here in our society. Not just racial bigotry, but if you are cutting across several artificial human boundaries besides race like economic class, age, education, language, etc in your marriage, then expect some.

And, believe it or not, they take it as a premise that you can't love each other. Because genuine love only occurs between people of the same race/class/age/caste etc.

right?

[robbie jeannet 5]

[nelsonclassic 0]

Hello friend,

Falling in love is really a most beautiful thing in whole world..It's a best feeling which everyone wants to experience but only some fortunate ones gets the chance of it, and from that only some could think of spending their whole life with each other, and you told that you are one of those.So I will suggest you to make your wedding day the most special day of your lives and enjoy that much as you can ..I want to wish you Best Of Luck for your rest of the life.

So enjoy you wedding and post your wedding photographs..I'll be waiting for it.

Regards,

Nelson