The Say Anything Thread - Take 13

[Amby 490]

that's what having babies will do to you

[Nessa 23]

shut up amby *slaps*

susita, i don't look forward to the age where they say i hate u, but i know it'll happen, i did that. and i'm one of those people that have a hard time accepting that kind of thing

[Chica Yeyé 41]

does not have to happen. I can't recall ever saying that to my mother or father. It was just not an option.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

does not have to happen. I can't recall ever saying that to my mother or father. It was just not an option.

it's one of those things that makes people overseas look at america and scratch their heads.

[Nessa 23]

seriously? have they never told u that u couldnt do this or that and u screamed i hate you, slammed the door and didnt talk to them until dinner was served?

[Chica Yeyé 41]

seriously? have they never told u that u couldnt do this or that and u screamed i hate you, slammed the door and didnt talk to them until dinner was served?

hell no. If after talking pros and cons (they always amde us build a case, so to speak) the answer was "no", there was no room for debate. I liked it that way. Children these days get away with a lot of unacceptable #######.

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

seriously? have they never told u that u couldnt do this or that and u screamed i hate you, slammed the door and didnt talk to them until dinner was served?

in most of the world, telling your parents you hate them is unacceptable behavior and most kids wouldn't think of doing it.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

it's one of those things that makes people overseas look at america and scratch their heads.

no #######

[Peikko 1,575]

Meh, everyone who has hormones says crappy things (or thinks them) to their parents as a teen. It's meaningless. I was no exception to that rule and I totally love and respect my parents. When it happens, ignore it. That's my plan.

[Ladylethal 12]

In my house there was no room for I hate you either. We didn't dare throw a fit.

[Peikko 1,575]

When hormones rage, rage literally takes over. Perhaps hormones are not so strong is some people as others? Not sure, I just know I had these really ridiculous fights with my mom during teen years over absolutely nothing. She doesn't hold it against me now.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

In my house there was no room for I hate you either. We didn't dare throw a fit.

I hear you. though my mom would say --- there is always the option for you to do whatever you want: move out.

[trinket 30]

seriously? have they never told u that u couldnt do this or that and u screamed i hate you, slammed the door and didnt talk to them until dinner was served?

No you just can't do that. Although my dad never slapped me or anything but I can remember 2 distinct examples of how my parents wouldn't take my tantrums by any means

--Was having dinner I wanted a certain piece of meat from the curry, my mom couldn't find it but she did find it once the dinner was over and she called me to have it, I showed my tantrum saying how I don't care anymore and blah blah, she didn't care about me either, she threw that piece to our dog

--I was 7 or something, I don't remember why I was upset but I was upset about something and was threatning to leave the house; my dad held my hand, took me out of the house and shut the door, said I can leave whenever I want to

I don't think its really is common in Indian culture to yell or scream at your parents, smacking isn't illegal out there, so if you scream you will get the smack.

[Peikko 1,575]

Which is really odd when I think about it, as it's almost impossible to get me mad now

[Chica Yeyé 41]

yo mamma denied you curry??????????

that is abuse, i say!