The Vent - Part Trois

[The_Dude 1,142]

They say death comes in threes...

In September, it was my maternal grandfather.

In November, it was my paternal grandmother.

Now, it's my dear Uncle Dale.

I never got to see him often because I lived in the Midwest all my life and he and my aunt lived in Pennsylvania, but we got along SO well the few times we did get to meet up. He was so awesome. We had this inside joke because we both used to be so gluttonous: "We do not eat to live; we live to eat!"

I'm not a Christian, but I hope, if there is an afterlife, that it is good to him.

At least he's not suffering anymore.

Ugh. If my family could stop dying now, that would be wonderful.

My condolences to you and your family Necrotica.

[bowflex 0]

Very sorry to hear that.

[OBX 51]

Very sorry for your loss.

[sdw 10]

sorry for you loss

[Rhiannercakes 14]

[minnew 4]

Sorry for your loss Necrotica my condolences to you & your family.

[Revenesque 2]

They say death comes in threes...

In September, it was my maternal grandfather.

In November, it was my paternal grandmother.

Now, it's my dear Uncle Dale.

I never got to see him often because I lived in the Midwest all my life and he and my aunt lived in Pennsylvania, but we got along SO well the few times we did get to meet up. He was so awesome. We had this inside joke because we both used to be so gluttonous: "We do not eat to live; we live to eat!"

I'm not a Christian, but I hope, if there is an afterlife, that it is good to him.

At least he's not suffering anymore.

Ugh. If my family could stop dying now, that would be wonderful.

My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Edited February 5, 2010 by Revenesque

[Danu 19]

My condolences to you and yours during this difficult time.

[lgg 2]

Hey Necrotica...

Hope things get a little brighter for you...

LGG

[bowflex 0]

Lol I often wonder when reading some questions if people actually think that everyone else just simply over-looked the easier solution.

Question: "Can I visit the USA for the entire K-1 or CR-1 process, go back to get my medical and interview, then just move right back over?"

Answer: "6 months blah blah hard to prove ties blah blah typical information that everyone rocks at giving here that makes it PAINFULLY simple to know it varies and should be careful, prepare for the time apart, all that good stuff "

Question: "Well then can I just move the the USA, get married, and then file for AOS?"

Seriously do people think that anyone WOULDN'T do it that way if it was nice, legal, and 100% a possibility? ARRRRRRG hehe

[MrsCat 6]

Ya know what I hate, trying to clean the house and find our winter clothes in storage, and rather than getting to the task, my husband takes it as his opportunity to go on a stroll down memory lane opening every box up like its Christmas and nostalgiatizing about every single item. Its 11:15 and we've only made it through 3 boxes, none of which contain winter clothes. And now, he's found his High School letterman jacket. God help me. This is going to take all day.

[bowflex 0]

Ya know what I hate, trying to clean the house and find our winter clothes in storage, and rather than getting to the task, my husband takes it as his opportunity to go on a stroll down memory lane opening every box up like its Christmas and nostalgiatizing about every single item. Its 11:15 and we've only made it through 3 boxes, none of which contain winter clothes. And now, he's found his High School letterman jacket. God help me. This is going to take all day.

Haha Here come the Al Bundy/Homer Simpson high school memories flooding back to the poor guy. You might walk in and he'll be doing a one-man keg stand lol

[lgg 2]

OH WORD to that, bowflex, word to that. It's like, really? You don't think every single one of us hadn't looked up, researched, checked out the easier way and then still opted for the longer way, the way with the absolute longest wait humanly possible?

I know, I hear you...

*hands bowflex a nice cold Friday afternoon draught*

Lol I often wonder when reading some questions if people actually think that everyone else just simply over-looked the easier solution.

Question: "Can I visit the USA for the entire K-1 or CR-1 process, go back to get my medical and interview, then just move right back over?"

Answer: "6 months blah blah hard to prove ties blah blah typical information that everyone rocks at giving here that makes it PAINFULLY simple to know it varies and should be careful, prepare for the time apart, all that good stuff "

Question: "Well then can I just move the the USA, get married, and then file for AOS?"

Seriously do people think that anyone WOULDN'T do it that way if it was nice, legal, and 100% a possibility? ARRRRRRG hehe

[Flames9_RN 358]

At least the person you are talking about is asking questions! lol Many people have been given lots of wrong info! Soo many still think if ya marry a USA citizen, u get automatic entry! I feel bad for the ones that do come here and ask, then get a rough time! lol

[bowflex 0]

At least the person you are talking about is asking questions! lol Many people have been given lots of wrong info! Soo many still think if ya marry a USA citizen, u get automatic entry! I feel bad for the ones that do come here and ask, then get a rough time! lol

Lol Oh I'm glad the questions are asked and I'm glad that she got off the illegal way so quickly. It just always surprises me when it just seems the person is waiting for someone to pat them on the back and tell them doing it the wrong way is okay or that anything in this funky process is a sure thing.

I remember when my wife and I went to Montreal I thought it was in the bag and then it felt like a stern kick square to the left fig when we were denied Lol. People need to know that every part of this process has the potential to suck royally haha.