im sitting here at pc in tears and cant stop crying!

[Welshcookie 17]

I dunno....the first thing that struck me as weird is that blogger/VJ member would actually sit through the whole 69 videos, stopping only to get popcorn and coffee....that makes me laugh personally It's a bit like voluntarily looking through stacks of your neighbours holiday photographs for hours on end

As for the OP, it's the internet and people feel more comfortable being cruel/mean/petty than they normally would be in person.

[Eric19myracle 0]

you know i go on internet today looking around studying things and looking at my videos on you tube and i found out something that is just hurting me, someone from vj looked at my videos which is fine but they took and made a hugeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee blogg on blogger.com.. made fun of my videos of me and my husband and my friends in egypt, and made fun of my laughing, and said my husband dont deserve to be called dad by my kids, said horrible horrible things about me and my family and they dont even know me, i never even met this lady or spoke one word about her or to her in all my life,and then alllllllll these people read her blogg and now all them saying hurtful and cruel things and she even took a video of mine from myspace and put it on her blogg what did i ever do to anyone to deserve this? what did i do!!!!!!!!!!!!! the whole thing makes me want to go to sleep and not even wake up for a long time,i cant smile, mykids want me to watch cartoons with them and i cant even get in the mood for it, i put the links to my videos to show ppl more about me and my husband, they even critized mybabies on this blog what do i do!

I feel sorry your in tears. I watched the video you made it was perfect and I saw to both of you loving each other. It was a perfect family. Dont give a S**T for all the ####### people out there made a comment to your video. Cheer up!!! You need to be strong for your family dont let anyone makes you down.

[Marzy 1]

That's why do not post videos of your family. Rascals are creeping out to find something to make fun of. You're lucky you have family to show off.

Edited December 23, 2009 by S*J

[panamania79 2]

Get over it! You put the stuff out there. Its fair game.

Really !

[Minya's wife 25]

That's why do not post videos of your family. Rascals are creeping out to find something to make fun of. You're lucky you have family to show off.

Thread is over a month old...let's let it rest.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

you know i go on internet today looking around studying things and looking at my videos on you tube and i found out something that is just hurting me, someone from vj looked at my videos which is fine but they took and made a hugeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee blogg on blogger.com.. made fun of my videos of me and my husband and my friends in egypt, and made fun of my laughing, and said my husband dont deserve to be called dad by my kids, said horrible horrible things about me and my family and they dont even know me, i never even met this lady or spoke one word about her or to her in all my life,and then alllllllll these people read her blogg and now all them saying hurtful and cruel things and she even took a video of mine from myspace and put it on her blogg what did i ever do to anyone to deserve this? what did i do!!!!!!!!!!!!! the whole thing makes me want to go to sleep and not even wake up for a long time,i cant smile, mykids want me to watch cartoons with them and i cant even get in the mood for it, i put the links to my videos to show ppl more about me and my husband, they even critized mybabies on this blog what do i do!

You put personal information and videos on the internet and cry when someone makes fun of it? Stop doing that.

Take down your personal information and videos, then stop reading this other blog. Push back from the computer and go out in the real world and get a life. Nothing in the cyber world can bother you if you turn it OFF.

[thongd4me 69]

thank u everyone for your comments and yes i know i put myself out there but i was just trying to preserve my memories andmake it to where my family all over this world could see us, but ididots really made this a bad thing for me so i guess i can go to you tube and set them all on privacy and make it to where only the ones on my list on you tube can view them, i would delete them but the disc i have them on is dammaged so if i delete them then ill loose all of it,, thanks everyone for your support, ill try to get through this, just hurts!

I've never posted anything on YouTube but I would suspect that if I did and it was personal I would expect there to be controls to limit the viewing range.

It was unfortunate what happened but with 20-20 hindsight you should know how to prevent a repetition of that kind of abuse.

That kind of behavior is totally uncalled for but in an unregulated environment it's bound to happen, like it or not.

If no such controls exist, you now know enough not to do that again.

"Friends come and go but enemies are for life."

[Kathryn41 3,205]

This thread is over a month old. The issues have been discussed quite extensively. It really isn't a kindness to revive this thread and continue the discussion. Why not just let it rest?

[scandal 951]

Nothing in the cyber world can bother you if you turn it OFF.

Tell that to Erin Andrews, who had nude videos of herself posted online by a stalker.

[thongd4me 69]

This thread is over a month old. The issues have been discussed quite extensively. It really isn't a kindness to revive this thread and continue the discussion. Why not just let it rest?

I didn't revive it but I just felt I had to say something regarding the OP's last comment.

The OP deserves to be heard (if the story is true) but there's also such a thing as diminishing returns

on benefits from further posts after such a long time has passed.

The offensive material may have been given new life as well by the OP complaining so publicly.

If there was hard proof of who the offender was, do the mods have any obligation in that area?

[Visadreams 0]

you know i go on internet today looking around studying things and looking at my videos on you tube and i found out something that is just hurting me, someone from vj looked at my videos which is fine but they took and made a hugeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee blogg on blogger.com.. made fun of my videos of me and my husband and my friends in egypt, and made fun of my laughing, and said my husband dont deserve to be called dad by my kids, said horrible horrible things about me and my family and they dont even know me, i never even met this lady or spoke one word about her or to her in all my life,and then alllllllll these people read her blogg and now all them saying hurtful and cruel things and she even took a video of mine from myspace and put it on her blogg what did i ever do to anyone to deserve this? what did i do!!!!!!!!!!!!! the whole thing makes me want to go to sleep and not even wake up for a long time,i cant smile, mykids want me to watch cartoons with them and i cant even get in the mood for it, i put the links to my videos to show ppl more about me and my husband, they even critized mybabies on this blog what do i do!

Screw them!

[Peikko 1,575]

Eric, is that you?