November 2009 K1 CSC Filers

[Thamara 0]

According to the e-mail I should follow the instructions on the NOA2. I finally got the NOA2 today and the instructions are... to wait!

Very anticlimatic, lol

[Lindsey8181 1]

According to the e-mail I should follow the instructions on the NOA2. I finally got the NOA2 today and the instructions are... to wait!

Very anticlimatic, lol

HAHAHA!! But, wait as in wait for the packet to go NVC and then the embassy, yes?

[Thamara 0]

HAHAHA!! But, wait as in wait for the packet to go NVC and then the embassy, yes?

Yeah, wait from 2 to 4 weeks for the file to make it to the NVC and then wait for it to be sent to the Montreal Embassy. The embassy is the one who then sends you "real" instructions

[AandD 20]

Congratulations to Lindsey and Lover89 !!!

Quick update : We finally received a long awaited letter from Uscis, the RFE. We found out it' s ( Thanks Gosh ! ) an easy fix. Hopefully, my fiance can send it back ASAP ( my letter with some additional proves from Europe still didn' t reach his mailbox ) and we can cross fingers and toes to get approved by the end of the month or early ( but very early ! Yes, it' s an order ! ) in March !

Great news AR and MD!

Hope that you will have your NOA2 soon!

[a loves a 0]

It has happened my fiancee had her interview at the embassy today and they handed her an american flag and said welcome to america. Proccess complete now time to prepare for a march 25th wedding. Just a note from my experiance we did not do a packet 3 they called her cell phone and had her come to the embassy a turn it in and scheduled the interview for 2 days later. Digital signatures thru adobe work i digitaly signed my I-134 and sent 2 years of tax returns and it was accepted. It also helped to provide 6 months worth of chat transcripts. Anyone have any questions feel free to ask.

this is a buch of lies cause my fiancee is an american and i know they dont give u a dam flag and say welcome to usa and she never got a medical exam and she has to have that and the embassy dont phone u either they send a letter dont know who you trying to fool but this american u cant fool and they dont take digital signatures either have to have the real signiture so please dont let people think it was this easy cause i know its not.

[A + M 29]

Hello my croatian friend ! I cannot believe how fast is your interview approaching. Thursday is gonna be a big day. Taking in consideration you got a RFE and all you made it quite fast until the end. So glad Croatian embassy doesn' t cause additional problems and delays.

I hope we can get our approval soon too ( it' s been almost 4 months, hellooo !!! ) and so we can move to the fastest part of this visa journey ! I wanna go home to my man !

[AandD 20]

Hello my croatian friend ! I cannot believe how fast is your interview approaching. Thursday is gonna be a big day. Taking in consideration you got a RFE and all you made it quite fast until the end. So glad Croatian embassy doesn' t cause additional problems and delays.

I hope we can get our approval soon too ( it' s been almost 4 months, hellooo !!! ) and so we can move to the fastest part of this visa journey ! I wanna go home to my man !

You will go soon... and once all this waiting will be behind you.

And yes...Thursday is gonna be a great day. I have all my papers, all forms, evidences of our relationship, boarding passes...a lot of everything. I am well prepared! Our embassy is really great and so supportive.

[rionet 0]

Congratulations to Lindsey and Lover89 !!!

Quick update : We finally received a long awaited letter from Uscis, the RFE. We found out it' s ( Thanks Gosh ! ) an easy fix. Hopefully, my fiance can send it back ASAP ( my letter with some additional proves from Europe still didn' t reach his mailbox ) and we can cross fingers and toes to get approved by the end of the month or early ( but very early ! Yes, it' s an order ! ) in March !

Im back! My fiance just left for USA again

AR and MD, good thing you know what happen to your application already. Keep the faith, you will be approve soon.

[A + M 29]

Ančica, tomorrow is your day !!! I cannot imagine how you must feel. I' m sure you must be so excited. Glad to know you have tons of evidences. I wonder what forms you needed to send in ? ( DS 156K, DS 156, DS 230 ? ) There is no Packet 3 and 4 for Zagreb ? All you needed from your fiance was the form I 134 ( Evidence of support ) ? GOOD LUCK !!!

Rionet, you are back. How lovely to know you spent more time with your fiance. I' m sure you' ll have a visa in your passport soon as I see Manila embassy is so easy to handle.

Oh ! What about us ? When are we getting our approval ? It seems this is taking forever and more !

[Thamara 0]

Well, like we say in Spanish "Tanto nadar para morir en la orilla".

"All this swimming just to die on the shore"

My fiancé and I broke up so, I guess I'm going to let the process take it's course. See if something changes between now and then. If not then he can just abandon the process when the letter from the embassy arrives. C'est la Vie

Good luck with the interview tomorrow

[TerriandEric 4]

Well, like we say in Spanish "Tanto nadar para morir en la orilla".

"All this swimming just to die on the shore"

My fiancé and I broke up so, I guess I'm going to let the process take it's course. See if something changes between now and then. If not then he can just abandon the process when the letter from the embassy arrives. C'est la Vie

Good luck with the interview tomorrow

I am so sorry to hear that..many hugs on the way

[AandD 20]

Well, like we say in Spanish "Tanto nadar para morir en la orilla".

"All this swimming just to die on the shore"

My fiancé and I broke up so, I guess I'm going to let the process take it's course. See if something changes between now and then. If not then he can just abandon the process when the letter from the embassy arrives. C'est la Vie

Good luck with the interview tomorrow

I am sorry to hear that...

Thanks for your supporting.

[A + M 29]

Well, like we say in Spanish "Tanto nadar para morir en la orilla".

"All this swimming just to die on the shore"

My fiancé and I broke up so, I guess I'm going to let the process take it's course. See if something changes between now and then. If not then he can just abandon the process when the letter from the embassy arrives. C'est la Vie

Good luck with the interview tomorrow

Thamara, what happened ? Something this big that you two wanna abandon the whole thing ? I just read your lines the other day how you two just recently saw one another and how all was good during the visit. No way you can fix whatever happened ? I hope you can. I' m sending you my best wishes. Espero que todo ira bien.

[AandD 20]

Ančica, tomorrow is your day !!! I cannot imagine how you must feel. I' m sure you must be so excited. Glad to know you have tons of evidences. I wonder what forms you needed to send in ? ( DS 156K, DS 156, DS 230 ? ) There is no Packet 3 and 4 for Zagreb ? All you needed from your fiance was the form I 134 ( Evidence of support ) ? GOOD LUCK !!!

Rionet, you are back. How lovely to know you spent more time with your fiance. I' m sure you' ll have a visa in your passport soon as I see Manila embassy is so easy to handle.

Oh ! What about us ? When are we getting our approval ? It seems this is taking forever and more !

Hi...yes tomorrow and I am so excited. I sent DS-156, DS-156K and DS-230. I checked on the webside and found what I need for my interview, called the embassy and they said that I can fax the forms and the copies of my passport. I sent by mail 2 photos and that was everything. I did not received packets.

David sent me I-134 and the letter of intent and a lot of other things for the proof of our relationship.

Thanks for good luck! I hope that tomorrow after the interview I will start to relax and feel relief.

[Thamara 0]

Thamara, what happened ? Something this big that you two wanna abandon the whole thing ? I just read your lines the other day how you two just recently saw one another and how all was good during the visit. No way you can fix whatever happened ? I hope you can. I' m sending you my best wishes. Espero que todo ira bien.

Awww thanks everyone for your wishes and support.

We are in fact really happy when we are together but we dont do that well when we are apart. That's why we try seeing each other every 6 weeks or so. IT has to do with being apart and in that "vacation" mode but we are failing when it comes to the day-to-day interaction. Communication (or lack of it) has played a key part in this drama. I am a hopeless romantic, Dan deems himself a "simple man" which means, I expect him to do things for me without me asking, he expects me to tell him what to do to make me happy. I understand that we are both wrong. I know he can't read my mind and it wouldnt be fair for me to expect him to guess what I need and get it right every time. He shouldn't expect case-by-case instructions from me and even if I can provide them, he should be smart enough to adapt based on the circumstances.

Take Valentine's Day for example... when we started the K-1 I told him "dont spend money, we need to save as much as we can for the wedding, the visa fees and you moving here as debt free as possible". I spent about $20 on 2 books and a greeting card for him. He didn't get me anything. Why? Because "I told him not to spend money" :S Thanks to my romantic ideas I was expecting at least a card, or even a handwritten note. Because "he is a simple man", he was expecting me to tell him that it was ok to "override" my original instructions and spend a little bit on a greeting card.

I am more than willing to reach a happy medium. Put some of my romantic ideas aside and give him pointers as to what I expect from him without having to tell him what to do all the time. The problem is, he is too stubborn. He's fixated on the idea that, "he is who he is" and he's not willing to change or reach that happy medium. I don't think I can live with that. I don't want a puppet that I can control 24 /7. I don't want a robot I have to "program" with detailed instructions and it wont do anything more than what I tell him.

We are still a few months away from getting the package from the embassy so Im giving him the space and time to think about it. See if he stops being so stubborn and decides Im worth the effort. If not then we can just abandon the petition. We are not going to get married and make each other miserable, have him abandon his job and family just because the I-129F was approved. I think Im taking it better than I expected based on the fact that, it could have happened after we were married. That would have been worse than what Im going thru now.

Anyways, enough of sad stories. I'll still be watching this thread, crossing my fingers for you guys and giving ya'lls my support