help me

[junebride 0]

I have a question:

Why would you not have contact with your husband's family, friends & co-workers?

My wife has phone numbers for many of my family, some of my friends, and my employer. She also has e-mail ym and facebook contact with many of them and some dive buddys.

yah its because of my compliance and to have a case like this. but thanks to god through google i found contact number of his bestfriend and i call them they didnt heard also from my husband. i hope my husband will contact me soon. yah next time i will ask all contact number of his family and close freinds in case like this.

if you know the full name of his parents you can search them at whitepage.com to get their home phone number.

thank you. yah i know the complete name of his mother. thanks for the info i will search it hopefully i can find contact number of them

[Ban Hammer 13,598]

come on, let's try to give helpful answers instead of ones that could start a fight.

for the op - if you know the names of his parents or siblings, i know of a few search engines you could run names through. you'll need first and last name and state for it to generate a list, the more unique the last name the better the results. in other words, "smith" will get you more pages than you can look at, but something unusual like "Jzkowskider" will get you a short list of results.

[Gumbolette 58]

Relax. Take a deep breath and Pray.

Probably he just got tied up with something that's prolly the reason why he is not yet online. This happens.

Be patient.

Or, you can look for the hospitals or police stations around his area and you may try to call them and check if they have a patient or case in their record of your husband.

Edited November 7, 2009 by LÜvtechwifey

[adiiann 163]

You should at least have contact number or email of his parents or sisters or brothers, or whoever really close to him.

LoL. If within 24 hours, I didn't have messages or calls from my husband or I can't reach him at all when I was still in the Philippines, I'm gonna really get mad at him, and I started calling his parents.

yah its been a 24 hrs. i didnt hear from him i keep calling but no answer and he is not online too. sad to know i dont have any contact number too from his friends and parents just contact number from him. i dont know what to do here im very worried here now.hope everything is ok. thanks for your message

I understand your dilemma. It's freakin' scary.

Try to call the nearest police headquarters in his house, and ask them if they can check the house of your husband. Tell them that you are his wife and trying to contact him for more than 24 hours.

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

come on, let's try to give helpful answers instead of ones that could start a fight.

I just want to clarify that I was not trying to start any fight. It was an honest question. This is the second thread in like 1 week where a wife/fiancée in the PH was worried because she couldn't get in touch with her SO and had little or no contact information for his local friends/family.

[Ban Hammer 13,598]

posting that again just results in me making it invisible again. don't post it again.

[junebride 0]

posting that again just results in me making it invisible again. don't post it again.

thanks charles. and thank you so much guys who help me and post advices to me. AT this moment im still very worried and i didnt yet heard any from my husband

[Dennis&Dane 0]

Charles, thanks... that post was not funny at all when viewed from her worried prospective... kudos!

[Ban Hammer 13,598]

personal attacks won't be tolerated. your post has been made invisible. let's not have a repeat performance.

[junebride 0]

personal attacks won't be tolerated. your post has been made invisible. let's not have a repeat performance.

guys my fellow vj, im so sad here and i cant believe my husband was already died he was find out not reponsive inside the apartment by his bestfriend due to cardiac arrest and i want to come there in US just for the last time to see him. i dont know what to do here cause our papers is still under processing.please help me to find ways what other possible way..thanks a lot..until now i cant believe this and still in shock

[Ban Hammer 13,598]

guys my fellow vj, im so sad here and i cant believe my husband was already died he was find out not reponsive inside the apartment by his bestfriend due to cardiac arrest and i want to come there in US just for the last time to see him. i dont know what to do here cause our papers is still under processing.please help me to find ways what other possible way..thanks a lot..until now i cant believe this and still in shock

i'm sorry to hear this bad news.

Edited November 7, 2009 by charles!

[endoftheroad 1]

guys my fellow vj, im so sad here and i cant believe my husband was already died he was find out not reponsive inside the apartment by his bestfriend due to cardiac arrest and i want to come there in US just for the last time to see him. i dont know what to do here cause our papers is still under processing.please help me to find ways what other possible way..thanks a lot..until now i cant believe this and still in shock

This is not bad news, it devastatingly horrific. I am so sad to read of your beloved's demise. Call the consulate and ask them what your options are.

So sad.

My heart is with you.

Peace.

[Lingladyinred19 13]

guys my fellow vj, im so sad here and i cant believe my husband was already died he was find out not reponsive inside the apartment by his bestfriend due to cardiac arrest and i want to come there in US just for the last time to see him. i dont know what to do here cause our papers is still under processing.please help me to find ways what other possible way..thanks a lot..until now i cant believe this and still in shock

O my GOD.. I am so sorry to hear this..please try to be strong ... I wish someone here can give u advice, how u can go there to see him. this is so sad.. its hurts really..

God bless u and pray

[Gumbolette 58]

I'm sorry to hear this very terrible news.

My prayers is all for your husband. This is so heart breaking.

Please be strong sweetie.

[endoftheroad 1]

guys my fellow vj, im so sad here and i cant believe my husband was already died he was find out not reponsive inside the apartment by his bestfriend due to cardiac arrest and i want to come there in US just for the last time to see him. i dont know what to do here cause our papers is still under processing.please help me to find ways what other possible way..thanks a lot..until now i cant believe this and still in shock

My heart breaks with yours.