I think she is now seeing someone else, dont know how to feel.

[RaspberrySwirl 20]

There is no such thing as an easy divorce. only really civil ones. I dont care how much of a friend you THINK you are with your soon to be EX- your not. I have maintain civil level with all 26 of my ex husbands. That dont mean I will sit down and have tea with them bassstards! Protect yourself. I also agree with the military support issue. My ex is military my maintaince was maintained.

26 ex husbands huh? So do you have a numbering system or do you just brand them with your name?

ever heard of sarcasm? shon was using it

Nah, I think it's to blame to her uber Shon typing skills. I hope.

[Fandango 1,439]

What I'm wondering is whether or not the wife left the email there as a way to let him see it?

No she didn't, althought she asked me to monitor things before I came over here and asked me if I could after we split for a while (but said she understood if I didnt want to), I dont check her emails regularly and there was has never been anything untoward to bring up with her, so I personally think that she has forgot that I am checking her emails.

I'm sure I'll get slammed for this...but if she forgot that she's asked you to monitor her emails, then why are you still doing it? It's a bit different than the request before you split up or immediately after a split....but now you are getting divorced, so do you think she really wants you to keep checking her stuff?

Her official reason is she wants to 'stand on her own two feet' and she really isn't doing that if you're monitoring her email. I would think that reason would mean that she wants to be accountable for herself, and that prolly includes email. If she can get online to order a $300 shirt, she can monitor her own accounts for untoward activities.

Edited July 21, 2006 by LisaD

[Ban Hammer 13,345]

deleted cause lisa caught her 3x post

Edited July 21, 2006 by charlesandnessa

[Fandango 1,439]

deleted cause lisa caught her 3x post

vj's back to being slow again and I guess I am the impatient type

[sarah and hicham 3]

There is no such thing as an easy divorce. only really civil ones. I dont care how much of a friend you THINK you are with your soon to be EX- your not. I have maintain civil level with all 26 of my ex husbands. That dont mean I will sit down and have tea with them bassstards! Protect yourself. I also agree with the military support issue. My ex is military my maintaince was maintained.

26 ex husbands huh? So do you have a numbering system or do you just brand them with your name?

ever heard of sarcasm? shon was using it

I love how you ALWAYS stand up for Shon... I wouldn't expect any less from you.

[jordanianprincess 0]

There is no such thing as an easy divorce. only really civil ones. I dont care how much of a friend you THINK you are with your soon to be EX- your not. I have maintain civil level with all 26 of my ex husbands. That dont mean I will sit down and have tea with them bassstards! Protect yourself. I also agree with the military support issue. My ex is military my maintaince was maintained.

26 ex husbands huh? So do you have a numbering system or do you just brand them with your name?

ever heard of sarcasm? shon was using it

ohhh yes..right, sarcasm. Gee Charles, thanks for being so kind and pointing that out to me. What would we do here in VJ without you?

[Ban Hammer 13,345]

There is no such thing as an easy divorce. only really civil ones. I dont care how much of a friend you THINK you are with your soon to be EX- your not. I have maintain civil level with all 26 of my ex husbands. That dont mean I will sit down and have tea with them bassstards! Protect yourself. I also agree with the military support issue. My ex is military my maintaince was maintained.

26 ex husbands huh? So do you have a numbering system or do you just brand them with your name?

ever heard of sarcasm? shon was using it

I love how you ALWAYS stand up for Shon... I wouldn't expect any less from you.

ah so now i'll be accused of what? and if you'd check my post history way back, you'd find that statement of yours to be false.

Edited July 21, 2006 by charlesandnessa

[jordanianprincess 0]

There is no such thing as an easy divorce. only really civil ones. I dont care how much of a friend you THINK you are with your soon to be EX- your not. I have maintain civil level with all 26 of my ex husbands. That dont mean I will sit down and have tea with them bassstards! Protect yourself. I also agree with the military support issue. My ex is military my maintaince was maintained.

26 ex husbands huh? So do you have a numbering system or do you just brand them with your name?

ever heard of sarcasm? shon was using it

I love how you ALWAYS stand up for Shon... I wouldn't expect any less from you.

ah so now i'll be accused of what? and if you'd check my post history way back, you'd find that statement of yours to be false.

LOL Charles, with the amount of posts you have it may take someone 2 years to look through them all.

[Miranda&James 8]

I sure am glad I'm not in London or else I'd be paying a whole lot of money for taxis cause no way I'd walk or take the tube in that heat!

Currently feels like 101 here...I just looked and it actually got up to 102 on Tuesday Although, I think the humidity has been pretty low for our norm (normal it feels like a wet blanket outside) so the heat hasn't been as bad as it could have been. Our apartment is sweltering though...the thermostat refuses to go below 80.

[Ban Hammer 13,345]

There is no such thing as an easy divorce. only really civil ones. I dont care how much of a friend you THINK you are with your soon to be EX- your not. I have maintain civil level with all 26 of my ex husbands. That dont mean I will sit down and have tea with them bassstards! Protect yourself. I also agree with the military support issue. My ex is military my maintaince was maintained.

26 ex husbands huh? So do you have a numbering system or do you just brand them with your name?

ever heard of sarcasm? shon was using it

I love how you ALWAYS stand up for Shon... I wouldn't expect any less from you.

ah so now i'll be accused of what? and if you'd check my post history way back, you'd find that statement of yours to be false.

LOL Charles, with the amount of posts you have it may take someone 2 years to look through them all.

sounds like laziness. or a fear of being proven wrong

[jordanianprincess 0]

There is no such thing as an easy divorce. only really civil ones. I dont care how much of a friend you THINK you are with your soon to be EX- your not. I have maintain civil level with all 26 of my ex husbands. That dont mean I will sit down and have tea with them bassstards! Protect yourself. I also agree with the military support issue. My ex is military my maintaince was maintained.

26 ex husbands huh? So do you have a numbering system or do you just brand them with your name?

ever heard of sarcasm? shon was using it

I love how you ALWAYS stand up for Shon... I wouldn't expect any less from you.

ah so now i'll be accused of what? and if you'd check my post history way back, you'd find that statement of yours to be false.

LOL Charles, with the amount of posts you have it may take someone 2 years to look through them all.

sounds like laziness. or a fear of being proven wrong

Actually reading your posts is a huge waste of time the first time around, no need to repeat the mistake

[Ban Hammer 13,345]

Actually reading your posts is a huge waste of time the first time around, no need to repeat the mistake

what's wrong, afraid eating crow won't taste too good?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...ic=9538&hl=

start there, have a second helping while you're at it.

[jordanianprincess 0]

Actually reading your posts is a huge waste of time the first time around, no need to repeat the mistake

what's wrong, afraid eating crow won't taste too good?

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...ic=9538&hl=

start there, have a second helping while you're at it.

Ohh wow, talk about a ghost from the past. You had to go back that far to find a time you disagreed with Shon?

[iceyspots 0]

I dont think its ever gonna end......

[Miranda&James 8]

I sure am glad I'm not in London or else I'd be paying a whole lot of money for taxis cause no way I'd walk or take the tube in that heat!

Currently feels like 101 here...I just looked and it actually got up to 102 on Tuesday Although, I think the humidity has been pretty low for our norm (normal it feels like a wet blanket outside) so the heat hasn't been as bad as it could have been. Our apartment is sweltering though...the thermostat refuses to go below 80.

WHOA, sorry guys. Somehow I replied in the wrong post