Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 3)

[Shemmy 4]

It's like the theme song from the Facts of Life...."you take the good, you take the bad"........

Amen Sister!! Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha......

Their kinda like elephants......

Hello family.

I totally agree .

Best wishes to Kelly and Craig

[brownnskinn 0]

........ dats my $1 worth ( sry we dont have 2 cents in ja)

It's like the theme song from the Facts of Life...."you take the good, you take the bad"........

Amen Sister!! Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha, Ha......

Their kinda like elephants......

Hello family.

I totally agree .

Best wishes to Kelly and Craig

Ditto Best wishes...Are they doing the I do today????

[Shemmy 4]

........ dats my $1 worth ( sry we dont have 2 cents in ja)

That is funny.

[darlene 0]

Very well said Phil.... Whenever I go to Jamaica it takes me some time to get into the laid back mode. I like it once I am there. We are crazy up here. Hurry up and wait. The US should take lessons from the fine people of Jamaica....

[Minfay 0]

I THINK WAT ALOT OF PPL FAIL TO UNDERSTAND IS DAT JA RUNS TOTALLY DIFFERENT IN EVERY WAY FROM THE U.S

You are absolutely right. It's just kinda hard for us (being in the U.S.) to "adapt" to that kind of environment. For as much as we might say we understand you really don't until you are put into that situation......waiting and waiting and waiting......it gets really frustrating. That's when everyone needs to just step back and take it for what it's worth.

[Elizabethnhenry 0]

LADIES LISTEN UP.............. I THINK WAT ALOT OF PPL FAIL TO UNDERSTAND IS DAT JA RUNS TOTALLY DIFFERENT IN EVERY WAY FROM THE U.S, DONT GET ME WRONG JA "PPL" NOT JUS MEN HAVE AN ATTITUDE TO BE LAID BACK AN MOVE SLOW AN THATS HOW IT IS ALMOST EVERYWHERE IN JA , THOSE FORMS CAN BE OVERWHELMING IT DOESN MEAN DAT HE DOESNT UNDERSTAND THEM BUT JUS THE FACT DAT THATS ITS SO MUCH STUFF CAN BE ANNOYING , AN U REALLY SHOULD LET HIM WAIT TILL EH GETS THE PASSPORT AN GET AL DAT DONE IN ONE DAY BECUZ BELIVE ME THE PPL AT THE POLICE RECORD PLACE ARE A MESS I SPENT HOURS THERE JUST TO GET FINGER PRINTED AN TH EPPL DAT WORK THERE ARE " LAID BACK" TO SAY THE LEAST AN SEEM PISSED OF IF U ASKED NE QUESTIONS (HANDS DOWN THE WORSE PLACE IVE EVER BEEN) ..........BUT THE BOTTOM LINE IS U NEED TO SIT AN TALK WITH UR ;)MAN AN GO OVER STUFF AN DEVELOP AN PLAN OF ACTION B4 STUFF COMES SO U BOTH HAVE AN UNDERSTING OF WHAT TO DO AN IT HELPS TO HAVE PLAN B AND C in go over every detail with him ( if u want things to happen how when u want) plan for every possible situation it helps. Jus communicate with him an help him where he needs it .....an never ever ever ever ever ever in sult a man's manhood

he sounds like he knows this is important he was jus trying to figure out the best plan dont stress ova dat . dats my $1 worth ( sry we dont have 2 cents in ja)

Thanks for giving us the man side, man!!

And @ no JA 2 cents!

[Minfay 0]

dee...if been meaning to ask you anything new on your case yet???

No Praying for some good news this week as we reach the two month mark

Hey Dee -- Something has to happen soon!!!

[Sbys 0]

Thanks Sonshyne

Sbys... your baby is beautiful!

Bellysgirl - I agree with all the .02 and $1 JA And I wanted to add about the forms, don't forget that there are a lot of people out there who hire lawyers to fill these papers out. I would have been lost myself without everyone on the Yardies thread and the VJ guides.

You'll get your interview date soon enough and then you'll forget all about all this waiting you did.

[Savanphil 3]

dats my $1 worth ( sry we dont have 2 cents in ja)

u stoopid!

[Shemmy 4]

Julie - your baby is soooooooooo cute

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Hey everyone...thanks for the 2 cents or $1, or whatever you contributed to my situation...Sitting down and really thinking about it, I know that what he is doing is making the most sense. It's just that I want this to be over SOOOO bad so that we can just be together....This whole situation has taught me so much more than patience...And I feel what a couple of yall are saying about not insulting his manhood...I do run off at the mouth sometimes (I got that ALOT from EVERY man that I've dated! ) I've tried to keep myself in check most of the times, but there are those times when....Anyway, he and I did have the opportunity to talk about everything that was said between us, and the way things were going, and we've managed to get back on track....One things for sure...I love this man with all of my heart and I wouldn't want to do anything or say anything that would risk my losing him...He is the light of my life, and I will do whatever I have to do in order to be with him...Thanks for listening guys!

[Minfay 0]

dats my $1 worth ( sry we dont have 2 cents in ja)

u stoopid!

I just love having you two around.....you're so cute together!! (and apart )

One things for sure...I love this man with all of my heart and I wouldn't want to do anything or say anything that would risk my losing him...He is the light of my life, and I will do whatever I have to do in order to be with him...Thanks for listening guys!

Most of us have been there and totally understand where you are coming from. PLEASE vent when you need to. We have all used this board to do that exact thing.

I've said it before -- I would have NEVER been able to get through this without everyone here on VJ. We are all here for you!!!

[Shemmy 4]

Hey everyone...thanks for the 2 cents or $1, or whatever you contributed to my situation...Sitting down and really thinking about it, I know that what he is doing is making the most sense. It's just that I want this to be over SOOOO bad so that we can just be together....This whole situation has taught me so much more than patience...And I feel what a couple of yall are saying about not insulting his manhood...I do run off at the mouth sometimes (I got that ALOT from EVERY man that I've dated! ) I've tried to keep myself in check most of the times, but there are those times when....Anyway, he and I did have the opportunity to talk about everything that was said between us, and the way things were going, and we've managed to get back on track....One things for sure...I love this man with all of my heart and I wouldn't want to do anything or say anything that would risk my losing him...He is the light of my life, and I will do whatever I have to do in order to be with him...Thanks for listening guys!

Everything will work out Just be patient.

Damien always tell me I chat to much . I thought he meant that I talk to much in general. But nope it means I run my mouth (talking trash) to him all the time. I've learned to choose my battles with him and learn to listen - well at least I'm trying

[Savanphil 3]

dats my $1 worth ( sry we dont have 2 cents in ja)

u stoopid!

I just love having you two around.....you're so cute together!! (and apart )

Thank you chica....((HUG))

One things for sure...I love this man with all of my heart and I wouldn't want to do anything or say anything that would risk my losing him...He is the light of my life, and I will do whatever I have to do in order to be with him...Thanks for listening guys!

Most of us have been there and totally understand where you are coming from. PLEASE vent when you need to. We have all used this board to do that exact thing.

Belly

I agree, this journey, takes a lot out of you. I think I have experienced every emotion, from joy, to depression.

At least you have a strong support system here...so you can vent. These ladies are the best.

so feel free to:

(CRY)) ((SCREAM)) ((THROW STUFF)) ....... you know what I mean

[Minfay 0]

Picking your battles and keeping your mouth shut......Now that's something that we could all learn from......I find myself "jumping" before he finishes his thought.....he just looks at me and shakes his head.... I'm trying to get better at that too!!

Edited September 18, 2006 by Minfay