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I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying:
Dee Baby....I'm speechless.....

MEE too ######!!!!! like I SAID i DIDN'T HAVE A CLUE. there was this one time when his phone rang....he was like i'll call you back real fast, So I'm like who was that and of course he lied. But I forgot about it...cause you know how I tell you gu she's here later

WHAT????

Dee my prayers are with you and your kids. You have my email address if you need to chat :(

You know I'm in shock!!!! I was trying to keep that..he loves me for me spirt!!! That he would never use me. :unsure: I just don't know where to go from here. You guys know about how I talk about the way he treats me.....almost perfect. Well I guess I was wrong. :blush:

Is the girl's mother pressing charges against him for statutory rape, since she was only 16?

Dee I feel for you, and I'm praying for you all right now

The girl and her mother left eariler. The girl is protecting him. She stood in my living room crying. I let her see my wedding photos. He told her that as soon as he got his green card he was leaving me. :blush: The mother decided that they were not going to press charges sense she wont talk.

I cannot believe this shittttttttttt. I have to give it to him he had me fooled. :unsure:

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I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying: I guess sometimes it is too good to be true :blush: You all take care. He's been seeing this 16 year old for the past 6 months. Her mother called me today. :unsure: She is on the way over. with her daughter. Of course he left. It's so sad. I would have never had a clue. He's been so good to me. More details later.

I am so sorry to hear this.

WE ARE DONE!!!

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I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying:
Dee Baby....I'm speechless.....

MEE too ######!!!!! like I SAID i DIDN'T HAVE A CLUE. there was this one time when his phone rang....he was like i'll call you back real fast, So I'm like who was that and of course he lied. But I forgot about it...cause you know how I tell you gu she's here later

WHAT????

Dee my prayers are with you and your kids. You have my email address if you need to chat :(

You know I'm in shock!!!! I was trying to keep that..he loves me for me spirt!!! That he would never use me. :unsure: I just don't know where to go from here. You guys know about how I talk about the way he treats me.....almost perfect. Well I guess I was wrong. :blush:

Is the girl's mother pressing charges against him for statutory rape, since she was only 16?

Dee I feel for you, and I'm praying for you all right now

The girl and her mother left eariler. The girl is protecting him. She stood in my living room crying. I let her see my wedding photos. He told her that as soon as he got his green card he was leaving me. :blush: The mother decided that they were not going to press charges sense she wont talk.

I cannot believe this shittttttttttt. I have to give it to him he had me fooled. :unsure:

The mother had taken this girl's cell phone away. and saved all the messages he left on her phone. and played them for me when she came over. :crying: listening to him sing to her the way he sang to me...telling her how sexy she is, the way he did me. :crying: How could I have been so stupid????

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I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying:

:angry::crying: (((Dee))) I am so sorry that you are going through this! I just can't believe it! Just know that you have my (and a lot of other peoples) support and if you ever need ANYTHING please don't hesitate to ask!

Love you girl (L) Stay strong (F)

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I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying: I guess sometimes it is too good to be true :blush: You all take care. He's been seeing this 16 year old for the past 6 months. Her mother called me today. :unsure: She is on the way over. with her daughter. Of course he left. It's so sad. I would have never had a clue. He's been so good to me. More details later.

I am so sorry to hear this.

The bad thing about is my dumn assssss is worred about him. :blink::blink:

I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying:

:angry::crying: (((Dee))) I am so sorry that you are going through this! I just can't believe it! Just know that you have my (and a lot of other peoples) support and if you ever need ANYTHING please don't hesitate to ask!

Love you girl (L) Stay strong (F)

thankyou. I don't know whats going to happen from here. He left said he wasn't coming back. :crying::crying: I

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I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying: I guess sometimes it is too good to be true :blush: You all take care. He's been seeing this 16 year old for the past 6 months. Her mother called me today. :unsure: She is on the way over. with her daughter. Of course he left. It's so sad. I would have never had a clue. He's been so good to me. More details later.

I am so sorry to hear this.

The bad thing about is my dumn assssss is worred about him. :blink::blink:

I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying:

:angry::crying: (((Dee))) I am so sorry that you are going through this! I just can't believe it! Just know that you have my (and a lot of other peoples) support and if you ever need ANYTHING please don't hesitate to ask!

Love you girl (L) Stay strong (F)

thankyou. I don't know whats going to happen from here. He left said he wasn't coming back. :crying::crying: I

I guess this is the reason why the green card hasn't worked out. :blush: God works in mysterious ways. :blush:

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I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying: I guess sometimes it is too good to be true :blush: You all take care. He's been seeing this 16 year old for the past 6 months. Her mother called me today. :unsure: She is on the way over. with her daughter. Of course he left. It's so sad. I would have never had a clue. He's been so good to me. More details later.

I am so sorry to hear this.

The bad thing about is my dumn assssss is worred about him. :blink::blink:

I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying:

:angry::crying: (((Dee))) I am so sorry that you are going through this! I just can't believe it! Just know that you have my (and a lot of other peoples) support and if you ever need ANYTHING please don't hesitate to ask!

Love you girl (L) Stay strong (F)

thankyou. I don't know whats going to happen from here. He left said he wasn't coming back. :crying::crying: I

I guess this is the reason why the green card hasn't worked out. :blush: God works in mysterious ways. :blush:

Maybe he has filed before. Who knows?

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I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying: I guess sometimes it is too good to be true :blush: You all take care. He's been seeing this 16 year old for the past 6 months. Her mother called me today. :unsure: She is on the way over. with her daughter. Of course he left. It's so sad. I would have never had a clue. He's been so good to me. More details later.

I am so sorry to hear this.

The bad thing about is my dumn assssss is worred about him. :blink::blink:

I just found out my loving husband was cheating on me. :crying:

:angry::crying: (((Dee))) I am so sorry that you are going through this! I just can't believe it! Just know that you have my (and a lot of other peoples) support and if you ever need ANYTHING please don't hesitate to ask!

Love you girl (L) Stay strong (F)

thankyou. I don't know whats going to happen from here. He left said he wasn't coming back. :crying::crying: I

I guess this is the reason why the green card hasn't worked out. :blush: God works in mysterious ways. :blush:

Maybe he has filed before. Who knows?

Don't kill yourself trying to think of all the clues you think you should have picked up on or the pieces of the puzzle you didn't fit together. You are an amazing wonderful woman who definitely didn't deserve to be treated this way. You are not stupid and I don't blame you for worrying...he was your man and you loved him...that doesn't just switch off in a minute. Take care of yourself Dee and take care of your children. God is watching over you all...don't forget that!

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I can't breathe....

JAMA0001.GIFMindy & Roy

06/08/05 -- I-129f Sent to Nebraska

08/30/05 - Approved

12/02/05 - Interview in Kingston

01/13/06 - Roy flies to Chicago

03/03/06 - Married

03/29/06 - EAD/AOS Sent

06/06/06 - EAD Approved

07/11/06 - AOS Approved - w/o interview

07/17/06 - GC Received....

I-751 - Lifting Conditions

04/01/08 - Sent to Nebraska

04/03/08 - NOA1 Notice Date -- Trans to California

04/14/08 - Received NOA1 in mail

04/14/08 - Check cleared bank

04/24/08 - Biometrics letter received

05/02/08 - Biometrics scheduled

10/10/08 - Card Ordered

10/16/08 - Card received -- DONE!!!

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I'm speechless..... My heart goes out to you

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USCIS

06-28-2011-Mailed I-130

07-03-2011-NOA1

12-08-2011-NOA2

NVC

12-19-2012-NVC Received Case

01-06-2012-Case Number

01-25-2012-Case Completed

02-21-2012-Medical

03-06-2012-Interview--APPROVED

03-13-2012-VISA RECEIVED

03-16-2012-POE ATL

ROC

02/24/2014-Mailed I-751

02/26/2014-Package Received

02/28/2014-NOA1 Hard Copy

02/28/2014-Check Cashed

03/25/2014-Biometrics Appt

06/04/2014-RFE Sent more info back on 07/29/2014

09/04/2014 ROC Approved

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Dee -- you're not crazy....I would be worry about him too....do you have any idea where he might have gone?

JAMA0001.GIFMindy & Roy

06/08/05 -- I-129f Sent to Nebraska

08/30/05 - Approved

12/02/05 - Interview in Kingston

01/13/06 - Roy flies to Chicago

03/03/06 - Married

03/29/06 - EAD/AOS Sent

06/06/06 - EAD Approved

07/11/06 - AOS Approved - w/o interview

07/17/06 - GC Received....

I-751 - Lifting Conditions

04/01/08 - Sent to Nebraska

04/03/08 - NOA1 Notice Date -- Trans to California

04/14/08 - Received NOA1 in mail

04/14/08 - Check cleared bank

04/24/08 - Biometrics letter received

05/02/08 - Biometrics scheduled

10/10/08 - Card Ordered

10/16/08 - Card received -- DONE!!!

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So sorry to hear this....

I know you are worried, you can't just turn love off like a switch. But he'll be fine.

What you need to be worrying about is YOU!

Make sure he has no access to any joint accounts you have, if I were you I'd cancel the visa process NOW.

It's little comfort now, but it is better you found out BEFORE rather than AFTER he had his papers to remain here.

Naturalization

Son's N-400 Timeline

08/14/2020 - Sent N-400 and I-912 waiver to TX lockbox

09/18/2020 - NOA via text

06/05/2021 - Notification of biometrics scheduled

09/17/2021 - Interview - decision cannot be made

11/24/2021 - Denial letter, 30 days to appeal

12/24/2021 - Appeal sent back with I-912 waiver

12/24/2021 - Motion to terminate deportation proceedings from 2013 filed

 

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They only thing I'd worry about is getting revenge. Mi bad. Even if he had the greencard in hand, it's conditional. For all of the BS we have gone through, the government has something right.

Don't let him sweet talk you.

01/21/2003 Married

I-130 filed August 2003

K-3 filed August 2003

K-3 Approved Dec 2003

01/07/2004 Interview I Denied at embassy (Marijuana detected blood test) Barred 3 years

Move to Jamaica March 2004

I-130 approved (November 2004)

Return to US to try again October 2005

04/07/2006 Interview II The Sequal Told case would be on hold until Jan 8th 2007

02/20/2007 Interview III Told another Physical requred

02/27/2007 3rd physical

03/23/2007 Police report expires

04/03/2007 Interview IV rescheduled due to police report being late

04/19/2007 Interview V They did not put her on the list

US Senators office had to call for them to see her

Finally approved

04/28/1007 Arrive Miami Held up in Immigration misses flight to Indy

Fly to Dallas, then Indy arrive 11pm instead of 3pm

05/10/2007 SS Card arrived

05/12/2007 Welcome to the US letter arrives

05/14/2007 10yr Green Card Arrives

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Dee -- I hope you are feeling better today....

JAMA0001.GIFMindy & Roy

06/08/05 -- I-129f Sent to Nebraska

08/30/05 - Approved

12/02/05 - Interview in Kingston

01/13/06 - Roy flies to Chicago

03/03/06 - Married

03/29/06 - EAD/AOS Sent

06/06/06 - EAD Approved

07/11/06 - AOS Approved - w/o interview

07/17/06 - GC Received....

I-751 - Lifting Conditions

04/01/08 - Sent to Nebraska

04/03/08 - NOA1 Notice Date -- Trans to California

04/14/08 - Received NOA1 in mail

04/14/08 - Check cleared bank

04/24/08 - Biometrics letter received

05/02/08 - Biometrics scheduled

10/10/08 - Card Ordered

10/16/08 - Card received -- DONE!!!

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The girl and her mother left eariler. The girl is protecting him. She stood in my living room crying. I let her see my wedding photos. He told her that as soon as he got his green card he was leaving me. :blush: The mother decided that they were not going to press charges sense she wont talk.

I cannot believe this shittttttttttt. I have to give it to him he had me fooled. :unsure:

Dee, all I have to say is that you handled yourself very well in this situation. You are a classy wonderful woman. Please don't blame yourself.

Good morning VJ family.

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