Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 3)

[Sonshyne 2]

I am starting to feel overwhelmed at this point I don't know where to start

Just take a deep breath and relax.....all will be fine

Thanks I will. I still have one major concern that worries me everyday... I've talk about this before. It is the proof of phone calls. We both have cell phone sevrices that don't distirbute bills. I have gotten a print out from the calling card co. that I use... but it only shows the last 6 months I am very worried that this may not be enough. I do have several airline tickets and itenerary info and a few letters, receipts etc... It seems that phone calls are a big part of proof. I would hate to be denied because of this

Honestly, I don't see you being denied over actual phone bills when you have other proof (airline tickets being a big plus, as well as mailed letters). Do you have any photos of you two together? And if you have calling card info from the last six months, that is proof of phone calls, just not direct dialing. No worries, just focus on what you can provide and don't stress off of what you can't.

I have proof showing that I've been utilizing their service for over a year. What they sent me shows dailed calls for the last 6 months. Your right... That is proof, I just wasn't sure it was enough Thanks

I do have photos, I don't know why things are starting to worry me so much.... Maybe because my time is getting closer.

[jamaicalove 0]

He can use the computer at work but I still have to send things to him since I have to prove support and need to send financial records!

Thanks for the advice!

[jamaicalove 0]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH........... I'm going crazy!!

I can not hear one more person say the word JAMAICA or Couples Resorts. I am having a bad day and miss my honey BADLY!

[Minfay 0]

I am very worried that this may not be enough. I do have several airline tickets and itenerary info and a few letters, receipts etc... It seems that phone calls are a big part of proof. I would hate to be denied because of this

I don't think you will get denied because of the phone records....try to get what you can.....are you going for the interview? (sorry, I can't remember...)

[Sonshyne 2]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH........... I'm going crazy!!

I can not hear one more person say the word JAMAICA.. I miss my honey BADLY!

I know how you feel. My co-workers ask me the same thing all the time(several times a week)!!! I ask them to please don't talk about that to me.. I tell them you just don't understand........ I am dying to go back there like right now! I miss her beauty, her people, and most of all MY MAN!

[BelwinMills 0]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH........... I'm going crazy!!

I can not hear one more person say the word JAMAICA.. I miss my honey BADLY!

I know how you feel. My co-workers ask me the same thing all the time(several times a week)!!! I ask them to please don't talk about that to me.. I tell them you just don't understand........ I am dying to go back there like right now! I miss her beauty, her people, and most of all MY MAN!

Ditto I get the same thing everyday from people. I get so frustrated them asking when is he going to be here and I say I don't know every time. I get so frustrated at times and tell them to stop asking please.

[jamaicalove 0]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH........... I'm going crazy!!

I can not hear one more person say the word JAMAICA.. I miss my honey BADLY!

I know how you feel. My co-workers ask me the same thing all the time(several times a week)!!! I ask them to please don't talk about that to me.. I tell them you just don't understand........ I am dying to go back there like right now! I miss her beauty, her people, and most of all MY MAN!

I can't travel until March at the earliest because of my job. I feel the same way - people ask "how are you doing" how the heck would you be doing in my situation?!?!?! Sometimes I just want to curl up in a ball and talk to him for HOURS!! How can I continue to do this?? I just want to pack up and move there!!!!!!!! It would be easier!!!!!

[BelwinMills 0]

No one that I know is going down there anytime soon! My parents will be headed there in February but that's too long to wait!

Another option is the scan the forms AFTER you fill them out and email them to him so he can print them. We did this also. Just make sure you proof-print your scans before sending them to him!

I wish my fiancee had internet access... It would make things faster as well as a little easier for me I am starting to feel overwhelmed at this point I don't know where to start

Is there an Internet cafe or library near him? Hubby didn't have computer at home but he went to Ochi and used the computers at a local spot to print the forms I sent him. Didn't cost much either.

Take things one day at a time, I've been in your shoes so I know how you feel. You aren't in this alone!

I've seen a few internet cafe's around Negril. This may sound like a silly question..... But who would I send it to being that he doesn't have an e-mail account? Should he go there and sent one up before I send the info??

You can make him an email account on yahoo or hotmail. Then tell him his account and password.

[jamaicalove 0]

I LIKE THIS GUY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[BelwinMills 0]

I LIKE THIS GUY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

really I would have never guessed

[Sonshyne 2]

I am very worried that this may not be enough. I do have several airline tickets and itenerary info and a few letters, receipts etc... It seems that phone calls are a big part of proof. I would hate to be denied because of this

I don't think you will get denied because of the phone records....try to get what you can.....are you going for the interview? (sorry, I can't remember...)

I plan to go, I may have to go sick at work, but I'll be there

[Jonesie 1]

No one that I know is going down there anytime soon! My parents will be headed there in February but that's too long to wait!

Another option is the scan the forms AFTER you fill them out and email them to him so he can print them. We did this also. Just make sure you proof-print your scans before sending them to him!

I wish my fiancee had internet access... It would make things faster as well as a little easier for me I am starting to feel overwhelmed at this point I don't know where to start

Is there an Internet cafe or library near him? Hubby didn't have computer at home but he went to Ochi and used the computers at a local spot to print the forms I sent him. Didn't cost much either.

Take things one day at a time, I've been in your shoes so I know how you feel. You aren't in this alone!

I've seen a few internet cafe's around Negril. This may sound like a silly question..... But who would I send it to being that he doesn't have an e-mail account? Should he go there and sent one up before I send the info??

Set up a free Yahoo or Hotmail account for him, and when he gets to Internet cafe walk him through the log on and print process (make sure you have a high minute phone card ) and you can also use his email address to send yourself "love notes", you can reply back, and print out a few of these emails to add to your packet of evidence

There is always a way when things look impossible - sometimes you just have to get creative

[Sonshyne 2]

You can make him an email account on yahoo or hotmail. Then tell him his account and password.

Thanks again

Edited January 2, 2007 by Sonshyne

[Jonesie 1]

He can use the computer at work but I still have to send things to him since I have to prove support and need to send financial records!

Thanks for the advice!

Good - so you can send him the forms! Good luck

[Jonesie 1]

Ugh...not in the mood to work today