My husband has been in AP for almost five months ! ISL, PAK

[khalidnfatima 0]

How much longer can my gov't make me wait to begin living again ??? I'm tired of waiting. I have visited Pakistan once since I left after we married and I am no longer able to make the trip due to responsibilities here in the US. I hate our policies. How can these policymakers be so heartless ??? I am the type of woman that needs a man by her side. I found the perfect man and the gov't keeps us apart. I don't know how much longer I can wait. I'm not waiting patiently sometimes - this is killing me.

[illnevergetthis 5]

I know how stressful the waiting is. We are in AP too and everyday I hope my husband gets the call from the embassy requesting his passport.

I hope you get that call very soon. Try to keep yourself busy. I stay busy 24/7, it is the only way that I know how to cope with this. Recently I found a walking path along the lake (that I didn't know was there before); I find it very soothing when I walk there. Maybe you can find someplace like this in your city. It has really helped me.

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

We've been in AP over two months too and I feel that with everything we've been through that AP really is the worst part of this process. It makes me sick.

[illnevergetthis 5]

We've been in AP over two months too and I feel that with everything we've been through that AP really is the worst part of this process. It makes me sick.

I didn't realize that ya'll were put in AP too. I am sorry to hear that. I agree, I have been through a lot with this process, and AP is the worst.

You know that it could be any day that your SO gets the visa, or it could be months. Do you start getting everything ready... just in case or do you just wait...?

[CasandraYounes 0]

I'm sorry that guys have had to go through this. I can only imagine what you must be feeling. At this point, all you can do is keep the faith and hang in there knowing that you stuck through this and thats what made you stronger. Your spouses will thank you for all of the courage you have, because at that long end of that tunnel, you will get your prize. I will be keeping you in my prayers, all of you.

Cassie

[illnevergetthis 5]

I'm sorry that guys have had to go through this. I can only imagine what you must be feeling. At this point, all you can do is keep the faith and hang in there knowing that you stuck through this and thats what made you stronger. Your spouses will thank you for all of the courage you have, because at that long end of that tunnel, you will get your prize. I will be keeping you in my prayers, all of you.

Cassie

Thank you!!!

[Omark 3]

I have been in AP for more than 90 days as well.My interview was on July 14th,2009 and i m just hanging in there.

[MRStee 19]

I'm sorry that guys have had to go through this. I can only imagine what you must be feeling. At this point, all you can do is keep the faith and hang in there knowing that you stuck through this and thats what made you stronger. Your spouses will thank you for all of the courage you have, because at that long end of that tunnel, you will get your prize. I will be keeping you in my prayers, all of you.

Cassie

Well put Cassie!