what shall i do?

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Agreed. If he just drops out of sight, and you can't reach him, and have no other friend, family or relative to call and txt to inquire about him, then that is not a good sign at all.

You see, if he is concerned and in love with you, he would be sensitive to your feelings. In an LDR, daily communication is the lifeblood. For most, if a txt, email, phone call is not received at the regular hour, then it means a disrespect and even worry for the other person. Sorry not to be able to give you a sugar coated, "It will be alright" but this is the reality of an LDR. Some cold-hearted partners are here today, and gone tmrw, never to be heard from again. Good luck and God Bless.

ohhhh.. hope he is not like that... hope he just want some space... i understand what u are feeling right now... pray hard that he is fine and he realize on his senses that u are here in PI and waiting for his call and yms.... :innocent:

i really dont worry that he fall out love, what i worry much is hes so sick and really came to worst...

[Tahoma 2,292]

yes we already met in person, im still on the process of my annulment, as far as i know hes taking anti diabetic pill due to type 2 diabetes and during his severe headache hes injecting a certain IV which i forgot the name i have to search on our message archive...due to overdose he has severe headache and painful stomach...the time he texted its night time on his time thats why we did not really have too much time to talk coz its night time there and i want him also to rest coz he told me hes not yet that well...so in the morning he texted usual things telling me how much he loves me...around three texts its 3:49 am then, just saw his last text when i woke up in the morning around 5:30 am...so i answered but since then no more text or emails up to now.. i already emailed his co workers but still no answer...i already called the office of his apartment telling them to please checked him on his room but they told me they are not allowed to do that..i know how much he loves me hes not usually like this he always find way to contact me if there is a problem coz he knows i worry too much...this is the first time it happened so im really worried...i just wish and pray hes fine thats all i can do for now....but its hurting and my heart is too heavy...

We are sorry to hear about this. We hope that your fiance is in good condition.

Is there any way that you can contact any of his closest relative or friend to check on him and his health?

I am just thinking that if he has diabetes and it is not managed properly then there is the possibility that he can suffer either from hypoglycemia(low blood sugar) or hyperglycemia(high blood sugar). Either way is not good if care is not given immediately.

Also, some medications can interfere with the anti-diabetic pills he takes so it is important that he inform his Doctor if he takes other meds.

Please read more about it on the internet so you will be knowledgeable on it. There's a lot of information there.

We hope that you will get some updates about him soon. Hang in there.

~ Chinook

[Llyne 0]

To Rick and Del...

my thoughts to you is..

1. Try to keep calm

[Lingladyinred19 13]

hello everyone,

My fiance lives in Denver, Colorado, the past week i have not received any text or email from him which is unusual, i keep on calling his phone and no answer i was so worried something happen, but then last wednesday he texted me at last telling me he was confined due to overdose of medicine prescribed by the doctor, and still hes under medication i feel a little comfort knowing his ok but still worried coz im not really there to take care of him and not knowing what is happening. So, as usual we exchange texts from wednesday up to thursday at 3:39 am here philippine time...after that i cant keep in touch again...his phone only ringing no answer...no email...i called his sons from colorado springs and they dont know what happen...and they are not that approachable to answer me...im so worried now that everything came to worst, i dont know if he got serious or what...my mind is so tired thinking what happen...been crying for 3 days now and my heart is heavy and hurting...its so hard hes too far and i cant do anything....what shall i do?

Hi - How are u now? did u contact him? is he okey??

take care

[Llyne 0]

To RickandDel

my thoughts to you is...

1. Keep calm ( I know that its not that easy to keep calm and be relax,knowing that your fiance was confined)

2. As his girlfriend, continue doing your part..send emails, text and other means of communication. At least we can say that you are doing your part.

3. If you can sense that something feels different or that the "magical feeling" is slowly slippin' away..then..breath slowly, drink cold water and think..think alone first, then when you are ready, go talk to him.

**Take note: According to him he was confined, so lets give him that benefit, give him 3 weeks or so, to recover..

4. "Loving ends, when caring ends.."

a. A person who is truly in-love wouldn't let his/her partner worry or wouldn't makes causes for sadness.

Lastly, maintain a firm disposition in life..yeah we do love our partners..BUT our world shouldn't revove ONLY to them, we also have a life to live, they are also people around us who needs our love, our care and our presence.

If you are currenly employed, divert that sadness into positive energies, keep busy with work, by doing so, we can be proud to tell anybody that we are an independent being. YOUR happiness doesn't depend to only ONE person rather depends on YOU, on how you accept things. We may not ALWAYS take control of things around us but it can depend on our own perception of things.

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hi everyone, im happy to tell everybody that fiance already called....he lost his phone and he did not go to work coz he undergo endoscopy test...he did not want to tell me coz he know i will worry much....he also think that he has cancer but thank GOD findings is negative..so finally he called to tell me the good news...i am so glad hes ok i really prayed a lot...thanks for all of you guys who showed concern i appreciate it very much..during those times im so worried and depressed your kind words keep me going...GOD BLESS YOU ALL.....

Edited November 1, 2009 by RickandDel

[LaneAndDaisy 0]

hi everyone, im happy to tell everybody that fiance already called....he lost his phone and he did not go to work coz he undergo endoscopy test...he did not want to tell me coz he know i will worry much....he also think that he has cancer but thank GOD findings is negative..so finally he called to tell me the good news...i am so glad hes ok i really prayed a lot...thanks for all of you guys who showed concern i appreciate it very much..during those times im so worried and depressed your kind words keep me going...GOD BLESS YOU ALL.....

friend,

REMEMBER WHEN UR DOWN TO NOTHING, GOD IS UP TO SOMETHING...and ur PRAYER saved you and ur fiance....GOD BLESS

Edited November 1, 2009 by LaneAndDaisy

[Lingladyinred19 13]

hi everyone, im happy to tell everybody that fiance already called....he lost his phone and he did not go to work coz he undergo endoscopy test...he did not want to tell me coz he know i will worry much....he also think that he has cancer but thank GOD findings is negative..so finally he called to tell me the good news...i am so glad hes ok i really prayed a lot...thanks for all of you guys who showed concern i appreciate it very much..during those times im so worried and depressed your kind words keep me going...GOD BLESS YOU ALL.....

good... I am happy to hear that... hope everything went well.. And U soon u both will be together

God bless u

[fransha 0]

I'm happy to know that your fiance is ok and that you are relieved to your worries now...

God heard and answered your prayers... He's great!

Fransha