what shall i do?

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hello everyone,

My fiance lives in Denver, Colorado, the past week i have not received any text or email from him which is unusual, i keep on calling his phone and no answer i was so worried something happen, but then last wednesday he texted me at last telling me he was confined due to overdose of medicine prescribed by the doctor, and still hes under medication i feel a little comfort knowing his ok but still worried coz im not really there to take care of him and not knowing what is happening. So, as usual we exchange texts from wednesday up to thursday at 3:39 am here philippine time...after that i cant keep in touch again...his phone only ringing no answer...no email...i called his sons from colorado springs and they dont know what happen...and they are not that approachable to answer me...im so worried now that everything came to worst, i dont know if he got serious or what...my mind is so tired thinking what happen...been crying for 3 days now and my heart is heavy and hurting...its so hard hes too far and i cant do anything....what shall i do?

[fransha 0]

hello everyone,

My fiance lives in Denver, Colorado, the past week i have not received any text or email from him which is unusual, i keep on calling his phone and no answer i was so worried something happen, but then last wednesday he texted me at last telling me he was confined due to overdose of medicine prescribed by the doctor, and still hes under medication i feel a little comfort knowing his ok but still worried coz im not really there to take care of him and not knowing what is happening. So, as usual we exchange texts from wednesday up to thursday at 3:39 am here philippine time...after that i cant keep in touch again...his phone only ringing no answer...no email...i called his sons from colorado springs and they dont know what happen...and they are not that approachable to answer me...im so worried now that everything came to worst, i dont know if he got serious or what...my mind is so tired thinking what happen...been crying for 3 days now and my heart is heavy and hurting...its so hard hes too far and i cant do anything....what shall i do?

PRAY, pray alot! He'll be fine and i know you'll be hearing from him very soon...

Try not to worry so much and just think positive.

Fransha

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thanks fransha. how i wish but my worries killing me...i cant eat or sleep...i love him so much...i cant live without him...

[Loolie 56]

hello everyone,

My fiance lives in Denver, Colorado, the past week i have not received any text or email from him which is unusual, i keep on calling his phone and no answer i was so worried something happen, but then last wednesday he texted me at last telling me he was confined due to overdose of medicine prescribed by the doctor, and still hes under medication i feel a little comfort knowing his ok but still worried coz im not really there to take care of him and not knowing what is happening. So, as usual we exchange texts from wednesday up to thursday at 3:39 am here philippine time...after that i cant keep in touch again...his phone only ringing no answer...no email...i called his sons from colorado springs and they dont know what happen...and they are not that approachable to answer me...im so worried now that everything came to worst, i dont know if he got serious or what...my mind is so tired thinking what happen...been crying for 3 days now and my heart is heavy and hurting...its so hard hes too far and i cant do anything....what shall i do?

hi,

thats so sad...theres nothing you can really do but to keep in touch with his sons and wait for him to text you again.

[Bluerose001 4]

Keep on praying, sis.

Maybe he is just resting thats why he isn't answering his phone. Sometimes when one is sick, he just wants to sleep and rest.

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i appreciate all of your answers, it keeps me strong how i really wish hes ok....

[loveaboo 0]

Do you know in which hospital your fiance is? If you do, maybe you can call the hospital and inquire about your fiance's condition.

[tallcoolone 102]

Don't sound good.

Maybe he a drunk and on a drunken binge, Maybe he a dopeHead and at crackhouse.

Who knows, But it's not good that you can't get hold of him.

[-B&T- 1]

Have you already met in person? This is not a good sign really that he's not communicating with you at all. If has been able to text you after his confinement how come he can't pick up the phone to answer a long distance call? Observe and try to figure things out maybe he is sending you a message by doing such…

Agree with the other post if you knew the hospitals name, contact them and check.

Good luck and don't cry no more. Be strong!

[rheanick 42]

hello everyone,

My fiance lives in Denver, Colorado, the past week i have not received any text or email from him which is unusual, i keep on calling his phone and no answer i was so worried something happen, but then last wednesday he texted me at last telling me he was confined due to overdose of medicine prescribed by the doctor, and still hes under medication i feel a little comfort knowing his ok but still worried coz im not really there to take care of him and not knowing what is happening. So, as usual we exchange texts from wednesday up to thursday at 3:39 am here philippine time...after that i cant keep in touch again...his phone only ringing no answer...no email...i called his sons from colorado springs and they dont know what happen...and they are not that approachable to answer me...im so worried now that everything came to worst, i dont know if he got serious or what...my mind is so tired thinking what happen...been crying for 3 days now and my heart is heavy and hurting...its so hard hes too far and i cant do anything....what shall i do?

Fly to denver, colorado if money is not an issue.

[Passing.star 0]

Just pray and think positive. He's in the hospital, he's sick might be tired. ust wait for his message or calls again. You might just over react. Hope he's Okay!

[George and Movi 1]

Hi,

You said he was confined due to overdose of medicine. Do you know whats his illness and what medication/s is/are he taking and why was there an overdose? If so, do some research on the net abt it. It will give you more or less an idea of what to expect or the information will somehow lessen your worries.

At this point, being apart and not hearing a word from him will trigger your anxiety level to shoot up.Be careful on that. I have my fiance's neighbors number and office number so i think maybe you have theirs too, then call them. And as what other suggested, if you know the hospital then call the hospital.

Be strong!

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yes we already met in person, im still on the process of my annulment, as far as i know hes taking anti diabetic pill due to type 2 diabetes and during his severe headache hes injecting a certain IV which i forgot the name i have to search on our message archive...due to overdose he has severe headache and painful stomach...the time he texted its night time on his time thats why we did not really have too much time to talk coz its night time there and i want him also to rest coz he told me hes not yet that well...so in the morning he texted usual things telling me how much he loves me...around three texts its 3:49 am then, just saw his last text when i woke up in the morning around 5:30 am...so i answered but since then no more text or emails up to now.. i already emailed his co workers but still no answer...i already called the office of his apartment telling them to please checked him on his room but they told me they are not allowed to do that..i know how much he loves me hes not usually like this he always find way to contact me if there is a problem coz he knows i worry too much...this is the first time it happened so im really worried...i just wish and pray hes fine thats all i can do for now....but its hurting and my heart is too heavy...

[SuperDuper! 230]

Agreed. If he just drops out of sight, and you can't reach him, and have no other friend, family or relative to call and txt to inquire about him, then that is not a good sign at all.

You see, if he is concerned and in love with you, he would be sensitive to your feelings. In an LDR, daily communication is the lifeblood. For most, if a txt, email, phone call is not received at the regular hour, then it means a disrespect and even worry for the other person. Sorry not to be able to give you a sugar coated, "It will be alright" but this is the reality of an LDR. Some cold-hearted partners are here today, and gone tmrw, never to be heard from again. Good luck and God Bless.

[marklovetina 52]

Agreed. If he just drops out of sight, and you can't reach him, and have no other friend, family or relative to call and txt to inquire about him, then that is not a good sign at all.

You see, if he is concerned and in love with you, he would be sensitive to your feelings. In an LDR, daily communication is the lifeblood. For most, if a txt, email, phone call is not received at the regular hour, then it means a disrespect and even worry for the other person. Sorry not to be able to give you a sugar coated, "It will be alright" but this is the reality of an LDR. Some cold-hearted partners are here today, and gone tmrw, never to be heard from again. Good luck and God Bless.

ohhhh.. hope he is not like that... hope he just want some space... i understand what u are feeling right now... pray hard that he is fine and he realize on his senses that u are here in PI and waiting for his call and yms.... :innocent: