How was your day today?

[Twisted K 2]

i am sure he will do fine. he should know everything about you after all this time will be praying

Yes he does knows everything..but it just scares me it's New Delhi and there CO's find stupidest reasons to give 221g/AP

just for u, i know the nerve wracking feeling. i pray it all goes well for you. can't wait to hear your good news in the morning. i would stay up with you, but i work at 5am, and it is almost 11

aww.. Thanks I will definitely let you now the great news ASAP!!!

i can't help but to agree with the bolded statement. been there, done that.

[sara..... 371]

i am sure he will do fine. he should know everything about you after all this time will be praying

Yes he does knows everything..but it just scares me it's New Delhi and there CO's find stupidest reasons to give 221g/AP

just for u, i know the nerve wracking feeling. i pray it all goes well for you. can't wait to hear your good news in the morning. i would stay up with you, but i work at 5am, and it is almost 11

aww.. Thanks I will definitely let you now the great news ASAP!!!

i can't help but to agree with the bolded statement. been there, done that.

Well here is hoping that Delhi has had a change of staff for the BETTER........

sara

[Twisted K 2]

Amen, Miss Sara They seem to have been doing better than they were in 2008. I don't know if you saw it, but "Catknit" is coming home in a couple of weeks with her fiance

[just for u 0]

Amen, Miss Sara They seem to have been doing better than they were in 2008. I don't know if you saw it, but "Catknit" is coming home in a couple of weeks with her fiance

Thanks Sara and Kaushalia!! this makes me feel better..while I sit here and bit my nails off! lol

[Twisted K 2]

good night ladies. and just for u, i will be looking for your good news first thing in the morning

[sara..... 371]

Amen, Miss Sara They seem to have been doing better than they were in 2008. I don't know if you saw it, but "Catknit" is coming home in a couple of weeks with her fiance

yessss i was on chat with her this morning!!!!!!!!!!! Im so happy for them!!!!!!!!!! :dance: :dance:

I got to see both of them on web cam i wish i had taken a snap of it they both had the biggest smiles i have ever seen on anyone.......... their happiness was contagious......

sara

Amen, Miss Sara They seem to have been doing better than they were in 2008. I don't know if you saw it, but "Catknit" is coming home in a couple of weeks with her fiance

Thanks Sara and Kaushalia!! this makes me feel better..while I sit here and bit my nails off! lol

dont bite them off too short......have to have pretty nails for the wedding

sara

[just for u 0]

good night ladies. and just for u, i will be looking for your good news first thing in the morning

Yup I will definitely have my status up dated here.. as soon as I get the phone call!!! This damn phone is taking for ever to RING!!!!!! lol

Good Night

dont bite them off too short......have to have pretty nails for the wedding

sara

LOL I'll try not to!

[Twisted K 2]

i hear congratulations are in order

[ONN 1]

im sorry......what happened?

sara

Sara,

It was a perfect match because we felt so and everyone agreed. We did everything together for eight months - laughed, cried, loved and understood each other. We also filed out our I-129F, got NOA1, then after 4 months got our NOA2... then in another two months while waiting eagerly for packet 3 and 4 and sending stuff back to consulate, we found out our interview date was yet another two months away. We got sad but were happy now we had a 60 day count down and then we will be together forever. Yea right!

Two weeks before the interview, he went for medical (passed it), submitted all the docs to VFS the next day and came home and said to me he doesn't want to come to America any more. Our interview would have been two days back but he didn't go to it. He said he didn't feel like coming any more... :'(

I withdrew our file and canceled the petition.

I don't want to ruin other people's day because they have good things happening. It's nice to see couples who stick together... for years. My hands are trembling seeing what is love and what I saw in my life.

[Twisted K 2]

sorry ONN. any chance of reconciling? would u move to india?

[ONN 1]

sorry ONN. any chance of reconciling? would u move to india?

No idea fixing it. I had said I would but I need to ask myself whether I trust him enough. A man who can change his mind like this now can do anything in future. I just wish he had shared his fears/thoughts with me before making such a huge decision on his own. He didn't even think about me. Forget about asking me, I wasn't even one of the first few people whom he told about his decision. Apparently, he told everyone else before me and then just said to me about his decision even when he knew this decision of his was going to affect me the most after himself. I feel betrayed.

[Twisted K 2]

i would feel hurt and betrayed. so sorry you are going through this . i am just a pm away if u need to talk. i have been in this immigration process for a long time, working on my 19th month.

[Third 0]

sorry ONN. any chance of reconciling? would u move to india?

No idea fixing it. I had said I would but I need to ask myself whether I trust him enough. A man who can change his mind like this now can do anything in future. I just wish he had shared his fears/thoughts with me before making such a huge decision on his own. He didn't even think about me. Forget about asking me, I wasn't even one of the first few people whom he told about his decision. Apparently, he told everyone else before me and then just said to me about his decision even when he knew this decision of his was going to affect me the most after himself. I feel betrayed.

OOn, I am sorry to hear that things didn't work out between you guys They say things happen for good so this must be true with you. Don't feel bad when you are sharing things here, this thread is meant for these things too. :-)

good night ladies. and just for u, i will be looking for your good news first thing in the morning

Yup I will definitely have my status up dated here.. as soon as I get the phone call!!! This damn phone is taking for ever to RING!!!!!! lol

Good Night

dont bite them off too short......have to have pretty nails for the wedding

sara

LOL I'll try not to!

Any news buddy??

[ELW 5]

I'm so sorry it didn't work out, ONN.

Congrats on the visa approval, K.loveh!

[Nina~ 431]

sorry ONN. any chance of reconciling? would u move to india?

No idea fixing it. I had said I would but I need to ask myself whether I trust him enough. A man who can change his mind like this now can do anything in future. I just wish he had shared his fears/thoughts with me before making such a huge decision on his own. He didn't even think about me. Forget about asking me, I wasn't even one of the first few people whom he told about his decision. Apparently, he told everyone else before me and then just said to me about his decision even when he knew this decision of his was going to affect me the most after himself. I feel betrayed.

I am really sorry Onn. I can totally understand you for not trusting him after this. To me it sounds like this was all about himself, and you were just means to an end. This is going to sound cheesy but it is true.. time heals.