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No drive by post folks, i've been here done that for a long time over here....I'm Canadian, waded through snow up to my waist and froze my feet wearing ####### boots, but no man, ever ever will control me or tell me what to wear or hold my money back because he doesnt "approve" of what I wear...and tell me I look like sh^% wearing it...he's gonna tell me I look beautiful wearing anything or nothing. And thats the short and tall of it in my book....

You still don;t understand. We don't tell them to wear those, they WANT to! That is why we married FSU women and not Canadians! Heck I've got Canadians coming out my ears where I live and its the ones with the sexy French accents, but they wear those boots for wading through snow and hauling frozen water...or whatever. Its the boots baby! :thumbs:

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No drive by post folks, i've been here done that for a long time over here....I'm Canadian, waded through snow up to my waist and froze my feet wearing ####### boots, but no man, ever ever will control me or tell me what to wear or hold my money back because he doesnt "approve" of what I wear...and tell me I look like sh^% wearing it...he's gonna tell me I look beautiful wearing anything or nothing. And thats the short and tall of it in my book....

Incidentally, the photo of Alla, in the boots, was taken in Montreal! hehehehe

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No drive by post folks, i've been here done that for a long time over here....I'm Canadian, waded through snow up to my waist and froze my feet wearing ####### boots, but no man, ever ever will control me or tell me what to wear or hold my money back because he doesnt "approve" of what I wear...and tell me I look like sh^% wearing it...he's gonna tell me I look beautiful wearing anything or nothing. And thats the short and tall of it in my book....

You still don;t understand. We don't tell them to wear those, they WANT to! That is why we married FSU women and not Canadians! Heck I've got Canadians coming out my ears where I live and its the ones with the sexy French accents, but they wear those boots for wading through snow and hauling frozen water...or whatever. Its the boots baby! :thumbs:

i've had the same boots Alla is wearing in the picture for 3 years. Dima hates them and tells me they look like hooker boots. :crying: so i retired them and only brought them out for my slutty santa costume last halloween. guess we all have our own boot preferences. p.s. he finds uggs atrocious as well.

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See, Canadians know their boots, and I'm a woman, I know what I want and no mans gonna tell me otherwise, mothers, daughters and best friends on the other hand ARE allowed to crab about if it looks funny, not husbands however....mind you maybe the cultural difference in submissive behavior in women are common in this nationality and other eastern cultures, (no offense intended)not as much here in the USA or Canada, a lot of us women dont put up with some mens b.s when it comes to telling us whats what. I'm just mad at this original poster cause I read another thread of his and he had written about having another lady on the side while waiting for this one, that ticked me off....

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See, Canadians know their boots, and I'm a woman, I know what I want and no mans gonna tell me otherwise, mothers, daughters and best friends on the other hand ARE allowed to crab about if it looks funny, not husbands however....mind you maybe the cultural difference in submissive behavior in women are common in this nationality and other eastern cultures, (no offense intended)not as much here in the USA or Canada, a lot of us women dont put up with some mens b.s when it comes to telling us whats what. I'm just mad at this original poster cause I read another thread of his and he had written about having another lady on the side while waiting for this one, that ticked me off....

... Ok. Sounds like you're the one who wants someone to submit to you. You're working on offending, stated as otherwise or not.

You got a beef with someone, take it up with someone, don't wallow around in another thread telling everyone, twice now, how it is.

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i've had the same boots Alla is wearing in the picture for 3 years. Dima hates them and tells me they look like hooker boots. :crying: so i retired them and only brought them out for my slutty santa costume last halloween

If you have any photos of you in your hooker boots or from last years Halloween, please share. :D

Just wait in a year or two he will be asking you, wear are those hooker boots? No, no, just wear the boots. :P

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omggggggggg i cant believe someone would want a pair of uggg ,, ewwwwwwww!

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"NOOOOOO!"
Oh nooooooooo! is more like it! :crying::protest:

Personally, I hate the sight of those things with a vengeance. Argh! Those things are n-a-s-t-y and a waste of your hard-earned money! Don't do this to her and yourself. Almost anything is better than those fuggs. Seriously. :dead:

Follow your instincts and just say "No!" (and then give her some $$ when she decides on an alternative boot). Oh, and also tell her what eekee wrote in her post.

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OK, Merle posted cute Uggs. What do you think, Slim?

I've never seen fat, lazy college girls wearing those with their PJs. I'm sure those were the ones my wife was talking about. (No doubt they're the $200+ style. Right?) I find it amusing that women attempt to accessorize something as important as winter footwear. In winter, footwear is an operational necessity, not something to reflect your personal style. Whatever money you're going to dedicate to footwear should be used to get more warmth/waterproofness... not more style!

But hey, it's her money, she can spend it on whatever she wants. I'm preparing already for the "my feet are so wet and cold and my boots must be cleaned when we get home." Then again, those boots look pretty rugged so maybe they will be worth the $200+.

I own a pair of nursing shoes.

Crocs are my second most *puking sound* disgusting footwear choice.

p.s. he finds uggs atrocious as well.

Just for the record, Dima is from Belarus and is an international traveler type of dude. (I'm kind of saying it's a universal thing here.....)

See, Canadians know their boots, and I'm a woman, I know what I want and no mans gonna tell me otherwise, mothers, daughters and best friends on the other hand ARE allowed to crab about if it looks funny, not husbands however....mind you maybe the cultural difference in submissive behavior in women are common in this nationality and other eastern cultures, (no offense intended)not as much here in the USA or Canada, a lot of us women dont put up with some mens b.s when it comes to telling us whats what. I'm just mad at this original poster cause I read another thread of his and he had written about having another lady on the side while waiting for this one, that ticked me off....

Wow! That was like two months ago and you're still mad. Way to hold a grudge while simultaneously perpetuating the stereotype!

.... but at least you get to wear whatever boots you want. Or, at least, whatever boots are acceptable to all your other female friends/relatives/etc., and have nothing to do with actually being attractive as a woman. Don't worry though, your husband HAS TO tell you that you look nice anyway. You're entitled to it! Grrrrrrrlpower!

What you miss, Allie, is the women of this forum (American/Canadian included) actually make their own choice of footwear based on what they desire... not what the other females around them deem appropriate. This is the major misconception of "submissive" women from Eastern Europe, Asia, etc. It's not that they're "submissive" or "subservient" to mens' wishes and desires.... it's that they're free to choose as much or as little male influence as they desire.

You, on the other hand, are not. You're only "free" to choose how long you're not going to talk to your best friend or mom because you got into a spat over what they said about your boots.

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Just cause she's from another country and probably has no money of her own and cant control her life in general at the moment you want to tell her what to wear too? Let her wear what she wants and give her the damn money to buy them!!!

Not trying to be snide or rude, but are you really serious?!? I don't see how you think slim (the OP) is controlling of what his wife wears - or her life for that matter - just because he doesn't like the boots his wife wants to purchase (with his money). Am I missing something here?

IMHO, telling your spouse that a pair of boots s/he wants to buy are ugly, is perfectly legit. In fact, I personally like it when my husband tells me when he think something looks hot on me and also when he thinks something doesn't look so hot. His opinion on what I wear really matters a lot because, after all, I want and like looking good for my husband - why would I not?!? I'm sure you like looking great for your SO too...

That said, it doesn't mean I limit myself to only wearing or buying clothes that he likes...Good god, if I always did that, I'd probably have mortified myself 10 times over!!! Being the fashionable lady that I am ^_^ , I always wear what I love. And if there's a piece he hates (which isn't often), I can usually work it in a way so that he likes it too. :D

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I agree with annasm. What my best friend (who is male) or my sister (who is ten) or my mom (who has completely different ideas about fashion from me) think about my clothes are all moot points to me. It seems like an odd form of misplaced feminism to dismiss what your husband/fiancé thinks just by virtue of their maleness. Girls only!!!

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Was in Louisville this weekend with my wife and visited my daughter. What was my daughter wearing? Those ugly boots! My wife asked me later why my daughter was wearing such ugly boots.

Hince the name.l.. UGG boots come from Down under, It is short for UGLY..

I like them but I would not wear them out side just maybe flopping around in the house

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i've had the same boots Alla is wearing in the picture for 3 years. Dima hates them and tells me they look like hooker boots. :crying: so i retired them and only brought them out for my slutty santa costume last halloween

If you have any photos of you in your hooker boots or from last years Halloween, please share. :D

Just wait in a year or two he will be asking you, wear are those hooker boots? No, no, just wear the boots. :P

santa and my bff, vader in hooker boots. our faces are covered so these can't be used for incriminating purposes!

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i've had the same boots Alla is wearing in the picture for 3 years. Dima hates them and tells me they look like hooker boots. :crying: so i retired them and only brought them out for my slutty santa costume last halloween

If you have any photos of you in your hooker boots or from last years Halloween, please share. :D

Just wait in a year or two he will be asking you, wear are those hooker boots? No, no, just wear the boots. :P

santa and my bff, vader in hooker boots. our faces are covered so these can't be used for incriminating purposes!

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Nice boots

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Just cause she's from another country and probably has no money of her own and cant control her life in general at the moment you want to tell her what to wear too? Let her wear what she wants and give her the damn money to buy them!!!

You don't understand (because this was obviously a drive-by post). It is part of our screening process to find submissive, maleable women. We need to control thier every waking moment, and they need to be controlled. Our every word is law for them - just ask them! And didn't you know that EVERY married Eastern European woman is controlled absolutely by her husband?

:o Oh Drat....I must have gotten a defective one. Anyone know the return policy on a MOB?? :whistle:

I have to go now...Oksana says I can't post anymore today :cry:

Take her back to Dr. Finetush's laboratory in Crimea. Have him adjust the static rotor bar of her fratastat. No worries.

Oh, for Canadians, who don't understand...FSU women are robots, like Stepford wives, didn't you know?

OK, Merle posted cute Uggs. What do you think, Slim?

Personally I don't believe she is Russian, wearing boots INSIDE the house!!! It just isn't done.

Damn STRAIGHT, Alla would kick my @ss for that...slippers only past the front door!

See, like I said, shy, demure, submissive :D Just one more example.

:lol: She would come after me with her hammer AND her sickle!

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