Separated while awaiting 751

[kipalkot 0]

Hi guys, my husband and i just separated!!!! We have been having issues. I found out he was cheating on me and i questioned him. He is been seeing this girl for a while now. He keeps visiting his family our of state a lot without me. He does not keep a job. I support him and my 8 year old son. We filed for my removal of conditons in May and my file am told has just been transfered to the local office. I told him we might be called for an interview but he said he is done with me. We have had such huge arguments lately about him not keeping a job and visiting home so much. I suspect he is using something because some days he will be so sweet and at times mean on the phone.

Now am confused what do i do if he does not want to go with me for the interview. I have a son to support and morgage to pay. I have no other family here other than him and his sister who lives out of state. My husband has just changed and seems to enjoy something he does out of state with this girlfriend of his. Please advice.

[Lona.C. 16]

Hi guys, my husband and i just separated!!!! We have been having issues. I found out he was cheating on me and i questioned him. He is been seeing this girl for a while now. He keeps visiting his family our of state a lot without me. He does not keep a job. I support him and my 8 year old son. We filed for my removal of conditons in May and my file am told has just been transfered to the local office. I told him we might be called for an interview but he said he is done with me. We have had such huge arguments lately about him not keeping a job and visiting home so much. I suspect he is using something because some days he will be so sweet and at times mean on the phone.

Now am confused what do i do if he does not want to go with me for the interview. I have a son to support and morgage to pay. I have no other family here other than him and his sister who lives out of state. My husband has just changed and seems to enjoy something he does out of state with this girlfriend of his. Please advice.

without a timeline it is hard to give good advice

but am sorry you going trough this ,and to the comment he gave you " he is done with you " well he actualy is not done with you , he was your sponser and therefor is financeuly responsible ,so he cant say he is done with you .

and since you got transfered there is a good chance you might not need an interview ( but like I said no timeline so i dont know if you came with K1 )

but am sure someone with more knowlage can answer better

[kipalkot 0]

Hi, i came in as a student then married after finishing college. I met him in college but he did not sponsor me since he did not qualify. I was sponsored by a friend. Does it mean when cases are transferred to local office you do not get called for interview? I thought that was the primary reason? Am confused.

Hi guys, my husband and i just separated!!!! We have been having issues. I found out he was cheating on me and i questioned him. He is been seeing this girl for a while now. He keeps visiting his family our of state a lot without me. He does not keep a job. I support him and my 8 year old son. We filed for my removal of conditons in May and my file am told has just been transfered to the local office. I told him we might be called for an interview but he said he is done with me. We have had such huge arguments lately about him not keeping a job and visiting home so much. I suspect he is using something because some days he will be so sweet and at times mean on the phone.

Now am confused what do i do if he does not want to go with me for the interview. I have a son to support and morgage to pay. I have no other family here other than him and his sister who lives out of state. My husband has just changed and seems to enjoy something he does out of state with this girlfriend of his. Please advice.

without a timeline it is hard to give good advice

but am sorry you going trough this ,and to the comment he gave you " he is done with you " well he actualy is not done with you , he was your sponser and therefor is financeuly responsible ,so he cant say he is done with you .

and since you got transfered there is a good chance you might not need an interview ( but like I said no timeline so i dont know if you came with K1 )

but am sure someone with more knowlage can answer better

[TracyTN 237]

Hi, i came in as a student then married after finishing college. I met him in college but he did not sponsor me since he did not qualify. I was sponsored by a friend. Does it mean when cases are transferred to local office you do not get called for interview? I thought that was the primary reason? Am confused.

Wait - a friend sponsored your current immigration status? How does that work? Never heard of such a thing. Unless your 'friend' sponsored you pretending to be somehow related to you (spouse or otherwise) which would be immigration fraud. You'll have to explain yourself a little more.

[Dakine 26]

Hi, i came in as a student then married after finishing college. I met him in college but he did not sponsor me since he did not qualify. I was sponsored by a friend. Does it mean when cases are transferred to local office you do not get called for interview? I thought that was the primary reason? Am confused.

Wait - a friend sponsored your current immigration status? How does that work? Never heard of such a thing. Unless your 'friend' sponsored you pretending to be somehow related to you (spouse or otherwise) which would be immigration fraud. You'll have to explain yourself a little more.

Doesn't have to be a family member to sponsor.

[TracyTN 237]

No it doesn't, depending on the circumstances. But I'm confused why she's worried about the divorce affecting her removal of conditions if she didn't get the GC based on her marriage. So I thought it'd help if she could elaborate.

[kipalkot 0]

Yes it does not have to be a family member as long as they are permanent resident. No i came as a student F1 but i got my conditionan GC through my marriage to this American Husband. That is why am worried of the separation.

No it doesn't, depending on the circumstances. But I'm confused why she's worried about the divorce affecting her removal of conditions if she didn't get the GC based on her marriage. So I thought it'd help if she could elaborate.

[TracyTN 237]

i got my conditionan GC through my marriage to this American Husband. That is why am worried of the separation.

That's all I was trying to figure out.

There's a pinned topic in another forum that covers this - you should be fine, so long as you entered into the marriage in good faith (which it sounds like you did).

Have a read:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...t&p=3360213