How to revoke tourist visa (person poses a threat to my family)

[LordJon 0]

There's nothing to stop you from reporting her behaviour to the Police. If she's already stated that she intends to work illegally, then that is something that I'm sure ICE would be interested in. Also, if she has written down that she wanted to hurt your daughter and was exposing her to sexually explicit content that may count towards child abuse/pedophilia and is certainly something you could mention.

But, as a priority, I would let her know that her behaviour is so unacceptable to you, your wife and your family that you can no longer welcome her into your lives and certainly not into your home.

Whether she comes to the US again depends on whether her motivation is to see her daughter or for other purposes.

Yup.Call the cops.

[Boiler 45,767]

You don't need USCIS, FBI, CIA, or DEA for that. You need a telephone or a laptop computer and a set of balls. Looks like you have either of the first two; now get the other ones out of the jar and be a man.

That is so awesome it is worth repeating, just wish I could give you Karma.

Another suggestion for the ball-less:

Print off all the offending documentation.

Send with a note saying you have also passed the information to the Police and the Department of Homeland Security, both of which would like to have a chat if she ever decides to visit again.

[sjr09 155]

they have to make a movie based on your story :popcorn:

Really! 'As the story grows'.

[MRStee 19]

they have to make a movie based on your story :popcorn:

It is really unreal.... We are just glad that we found out about who she really is before she left because otherwise, she would be with us again this year.

Maybe a restraining order?

[twulf 0]

I totally agree with Justbob and Boiler.

Its your family ... if you aint standing up to protect it then no one can help you.

[CA dreamer 3]

i felt what you are in,better forgive her just to respect your spouse

this mother is suffering from loneliness that made many sorts of illness in her mentality,she steals,throwback to act like teens....etc so deal with the whole thing as she is an ill woman,let your spouse talk to her in private declaring that her presence is not welcomed anymore.and if your spouse wanna visit his/her mom this won't be at your home.(in case she came back to us)

iam telling you as if i were in your shoes.

good luck

[D&R 0]

Hello Everyone,

This topic has been bothering me and my family for quite a while now. We helped my mother in law obtain a tourist visa by paying a tourist agency help her obtain it. She got approved with a 10 year multiple entry visa last year. We were so excited because she said that she will help us by babysitting our toddler daughter. She stayed with us for almost six months. During her stay she acted strange by saying that she is always dizzy and have diabetes and pains in her body and always just stared straight blank at us. But, when we say to go to the doctor, she would refuse and she actually did not get sick the whole time she was with us and ate a lot of sweets (even thought she claimed she has diabetes, but we never saw her take the blood test that we bought for her). She also broke our desktop twice, so we told her to just use tha laptop. We knew that she liked to chat with friends and she said that she is happy with just doing that. Her husband died 5 years ago and liked to meet people. She said that they are just friendly chats.

Around a month before she needs to leave the US, we noticed that our things started to diasapper. We also noticed that when we ask her if she saw any of the items, she would say I have never seen them. After 1-2 days, the items that we asked starts to reappear in the most obvious places that we already looked before. Even my daughter and sisters coins also disappered. She sent 2 boxes to her homecountry 1 week before she left and she was so concious for us not to look inside them.

We were already trying to be obvious with her that we know that she was stealing from us, but she still continued with what she was doing until her flight. I also noticed that she is not comfortable when I use my laptop (which she uses for chats) and would always be sitting beside me when I use it. When she left, we started using the laptop regularly and when we turn it on, we saw all her chat archives in there. We read very graphic XXX sexually explicit things. She was having cybersex with several men online and was sending our pictures (including my daughter) to those maniacs. She also mentioned that she wanted to hurt my daughter when we were not there. She also was masterbating with the men showing their private parts while my daughter was watching TV beside her. We got really MAD!!!! She was also gossiping about our whole family to strangers online and telling our complete names to them. She also dated a guy which we found out that she was having sex with when they go out. She also mentions his name and all the things that they did in bed to her online chatmates.

We were releaved that she is out of the country, but she is trying to get back here and is planning to be back next year. She plans to work illegally for the duration of her tourist stay as a caregiver to old people. I am afraid that she will bother us again and also steal and hurt the people that she will stay with or work for especially the helpless old people. She is psycho and pretends to be a kind, sickly and helpless old woman (57 yrs old) as her front. She is very good at it that is why she fooled all of us, including his son for all these years.

Can you please give me suggestions on how we can prevent her from coming back to the US and victimizing us or other people? I wanted her tourist visa to be revoked so she can no longer be a threat.

Thank you.

As for the XXX email/chat log... I'm sure if you looked at random selection of laptops there would be a large percentage with that kinda stuff on there. You say she "...dated a guy which we found out that she was having sex with when they go out" I don't see the problem with that?! That's normal isn't it? That's what people who date, do!

BUT.... that said... "She also mentioned that she wanted to hurt my daughter when we were not there" This sentence ALONE warrants her to NEVER be allowed in your house EVER again!!!!

Not much you can do about her Visa, but what you can do is report her for working illegally when you find out where/what it is she'll be doing. Gather some evidence, and report her!! Then let her be deported and banned. Another idea is actually report her to the police for stealing. I'm only guessing but I'd think that stealing/breaking the law while on a visitors visa might result in having it revoked... eventually.

I'd be concerned about her giving out your names too. I'd change any passwords you have on any computers you have, and make a point in double checking your bank statements and things like that.

Hope this helps!!

[truthrevealed 0]

Hi,

I had problems with a nutty relative making BAD threats, and hanging around my driveway with a chain saw.... He is mentally ill, and had stopped taking his medication. He was carted off to hospital. Anyways, point is I consulted with the police how to handle this when he got out, as I did not want him coming round here again. Police said I could get a court order, but it would cost, and not achieve much. I got a similar result simply but getting a solicitor to write an official letter. Make sure she gets it. Sign for it. Keep a copy. Then get the police numbers programmed into your mobiles. Keep letter in a known place at home. If she shows up call the police, and wave the papers at them saying this person is not welcome on your property. No papers it just becomes a family row. Papers let the police act. Just draft that she is not welcome since her behaviour on last visit and put the dates.

Makes it very clear for everyone. In the UK showing up after that easily gets a breach of the peace. Police threatening it is enough to get rid.

Thank you for your suggestion. I will definitely talk to authorities about this situation. It is really good to hear from people with specific and concerned suggestions.

[Cloudy9 11]

She is really one of a kind. She fooled a lot of people. She is already an expert in deceiving people and will do whatever she can to get what she wants. I am afraid of what she will do to the people she will work for.

Is writing to the Embassy who issued her the visa work? Do I need to report to the police before I write to the Embassy?

As others have said change your locks, and report her to ICE when you find out shes working illegally. If she thinks shes going to work as a caregiver for the elderly it won't be for a company I can tell you that right now. I work for one and before we hire them we do background checks, that and she won't have documents to say she can work legally here to file the I-9 we request from all new hires.

[jpetrocxme 0]

She is really one of a kind. She fooled a lot of people. She is already an expert in deceiving people and will do whatever she can to get what she wants. I am afraid of what she will do to the people she will work for.

Is writing to the Embassy who issued her the visa work? Do I need to report to the police before I write to the Embassy?

As others have said change your locks, and report her to ICE when you find out shes working illegally. If she thinks shes going to work as a caregiver for the elderly it won't be for a company I can tell you that right now. I work for one and before we hire them we do background checks, that and she won't have documents to say she can work legally here to file the I-9 we request from all new hires.

I am no expert but I offer the following ideas.

She seems to have some degree of being mentally challenged.

Your family safety is first. But also remember that, if I recall from your 1st post that you facilitated her obtaining a visa.

With the new information that you have, to just let her come even thought she could not be allowed near you or your house, could possibly compromise yourselves in the view of INS/DHS. IF YOU HAVE concrete evidence of her skulduggery then gather it and present copies to law enforcement, INS/DHS and etc. You have then done your duty to advise them of your concerns. Then the ball is in their court.

Further, if she does come again and cause others disasterous problems you will not have any guilt for having done nothing to warn others.

The fact that she threatened your child is of great concern. If you have solid evidence then morally you have an obligation to your family and others to protect all of them from her future actions that could put them at risk.

Just my 2 cents

John

[NickD 203]

Don't see what mother-in-law problems have to do with immigration, certainly had my share of problems with her coming over telling me how to raise my kids, what I should wear, what I should do, etc., etc, etc... One day she attempted to walk into MY home and I told her she was no longer welcomed, was not only her, but the father, brother, and sister in-laws to boot. But by saying that, created new problems with my wife, hey, it's her mother!!!!

So how does the wife fit into this scenario? Finally had enough and got rid of the whole bunch of them, just history trying to forget. Really have a honey of a mother-in-law, plus a honey of a wife, you find stuff like this runs in the family. B!tchy mother-in-law, b!tchy daughter that happens to be your wife.

Really don't know your situation, and don't care to know, but if your problems were like mine, get rid of the lot of them, makes for a much happier life. Fortunately, you only have to divorce just the one, the rest go with it.

[Krikit 1,165]

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