How to revoke tourist visa (person poses a threat to my family)

[truthrevealed 0]

Hello Everyone,

This topic has been bothering me and my family for quite a while now. We helped my mother in law obtain a tourist visa by paying a tourist agency help her obtain it. She got approved with a 10 year multiple entry visa last year. We were so excited because she said that she will help us by babysitting our toddler daughter. She stayed with us for almost six months. During her stay she acted strange by saying that she is always dizzy and have diabetes and pains in her body and always just stared straight blank at us. But, when we say to go to the doctor, she would refuse and she actually did not get sick the whole time she was with us and ate a lot of sweets (even thought she claimed she has diabetes, but we never saw her take the blood test that we bought for her). She also broke our desktop twice, so we told her to just use tha laptop. We knew that she liked to chat with friends and she said that she is happy with just doing that. Her husband died 5 years ago and liked to meet people. She said that they are just friendly chats.

Around a month before she needs to leave the US, we noticed that our things started to diasapper. We also noticed that when we ask her if she saw any of the items, she would say I have never seen them. After 1-2 days, the items that we asked starts to reappear in the most obvious places that we already looked before. Even my daughter and sisters coins also disappered. She sent 2 boxes to her homecountry 1 week before she left and she was so concious for us not to look inside them.

We were already trying to be obvious with her that we know that she was stealing from us, but she still continued with what she was doing until her flight. I also noticed that she is not comfortable when I use my laptop (which she uses for chats) and would always be sitting beside me when I use it. When she left, we started using the laptop regularly and when we turn it on, we saw all her chat archives in there. We read very graphic XXX sexually explicit things. She was having cybersex with several men online and was sending our pictures (including my daughter) to those maniacs. She also mentioned that she wanted to hurt my daughter when we were not there. She also was masterbating with the men showing their private parts while my daughter was watching TV beside her. We got really MAD!!!! She was also gossiping about our whole family to strangers online and telling our complete names to them. She also dated a guy which we found out that she was having sex with when they go out. She also mentions his name and all the things that they did in bed to her online chatmates.

We were releaved that she is out of the country, but she is trying to get back here and is planning to be back next year. She plans to work illegally for the duration of her tourist stay as a caregiver to old people. I am afraid that she will bother us again and also steal and hurt the people that she will stay with or work for especially the helpless old people. She is psycho and pretends to be a kind, sickly and helpless old woman (57 yrs old) as her front. She is very good at it that is why she fooled all of us, including his son for all these years.

Can you please give me suggestions on how we can prevent her from coming back to the US and victimizing us or other people? I wanted her tourist visa to be revoked so she can no longer be a threat.

Thank you.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Im not sure you can "revoke her visa". My suggestion would be to not have any contact with her. Cut her out of your life...end of story.

If she chooses to come back to the US, that is not your concern. That is probably the most healthly approach for you and your family.

Im sorry that she is obviously ill and has caused you and your wife much pain.

[aaron2020 11,651]

Hello Everyone,

This topic has been bothering me and my family for quite a while now. We helped my mother in law obtain a tourist visa by paying a tourist agency help her obtain it. She got approved with a 10 year multiple entry visa last year. We were so excited because she said that she will help us by babysitting our toddler daughter. She stayed with us for almost six months. During her stay she acted strange by saying that she is always dizzy and have diabetes and pains in her body and always just stared straight blank at us. But, when we say to go to the doctor, she would refuse and she actually did not get sick the whole time she was with us and ate a lot of sweets (even thought she claimed she has diabetes, but we never saw her take the blood test that we bought for her). She also broke our desktop twice, so we told her to just use tha laptop. We knew that she liked to chat with friends and she said that she is happy with just doing that. Her husband died 5 years ago and liked to meet people. She said that they are just friendly chats.

Around a month before she needs to leave the US, we noticed that our things started to diasapper. We also noticed that when we ask her if she saw any of the items, she would say I have never seen them. After 1-2 days, the items that we asked starts to reappear in the most obvious places that we already looked before. Even my daughter and sisters coins also disappered. She sent 2 boxes to her homecountry 1 week before she left and she was so concious for us not to look inside them.

We were already trying to be obvious with her that we know that she was stealing from us, but she still continued with what she was doing until her flight. I also noticed that she is not comfortable when I use my laptop (which she uses for chats) and would always be sitting beside me when I use it. When she left, we started using the laptop regularly and when we turn it on, we saw all her chat archives in there. We read very graphic XXX sexually explicit things. She was having cybersex with several men online and was sending our pictures (including my daughter) to those maniacs. She also mentioned that she wanted to hurt my daughter when we were not there. She also was masterbating with the men showing their private parts while my daughter was watching TV beside her. We got really MAD!!!! She was also gossiping about our whole family to strangers online and telling our complete names to them. She also dated a guy which we found out that she was having sex with when they go out. She also mentions his name and all the things that they did in bed to her online chatmates.

We were releaved that she is out of the country, but she is trying to get back here and is planning to be back next year. She plans to work illegally for the duration of her tourist stay as a caregiver to old people. I am afraid that she will bother us again and also steal and hurt the people that she will stay with or work for especially the helpless old people. She is psycho and pretends to be a kind, sickly and helpless old woman (57 yrs old) as her front. She is very good at it that is why she fooled all of us, including his son for all these years.

Can you please give me suggestions on how we can prevent her from coming back to the US and victimizing us or other people? I wanted her tourist visa to be revoked so she can no longer be a threat.

Thank you.

How about having your spouse tell his/her mother what was found on your laptop and that she is no longer welcome in your home.

There is absolutely nothing you can do to revoke her visitor visa. You could turn her in to ICE if she comes back and work illegally.

[Malrothien 6]

I know this is going to sound extreme and ridiculous, but given what she has done, consider change your locks.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

I know this is going to sound extreme and ridiculous, but given what she has done, consider change your locks.

I dont think it sounds ridiculous at all, I think it sounds like an awesome suggestion

[Minya's wife 25]

Holy momma! Change your locks, have no contact with her, do not allow her back in your house/life...and if she pushes it...you can always have her arrested for child endangerment. What a cook!

[truthrevealed 0]

She is really one of a kind. She fooled a lot of people. She is already an expert in deceiving people and will do whatever she can to get what she wants. I am afraid of what she will do to the people she will work for.

Is writing to the Embassy who issued her the visa work? Do I need to report to the police before I write to the Embassy?

[Minya's wife 25]

She is really one of a kind. She fooled a lot of people. She is already an expert in deceiving people and will do whatever she can to get what she wants. I am afraid of what she will do to the people she will work for.

Is writing to the Embassy who issued her the visa work? Do I need to report to the police before I write to the Embassy?

I don't think you're understanding. There is nothing you can do to get your MIL's visa revoked. On a personal note, you can do everything to protect you and your family, but her permission to come and go from the US is hers. If you have solid proof that she is on a tourist visa and is working for salary, you may inform ICE of this, but pigs will rain/cows will fly before anything concrete is done about it.

Chief is for you to protect yourself and your family. Also, I'm not sure how your wife is taking all this, as this is her mother we're talking about, right,...is she in accordance with you to shut her mother out of your lives?

[Brother Hesekiel 2,236]

You have no legal issue. You have no visa issue. You have a family issue.

All it takes is to tell your mother-in-law that you and her daughter mutually decided that you would not want her to visit you again. No need for her to buy another ticket again. End of story.

You don't need USCIS, FBI, CIA, or DEA for that. You need a telephone or a laptop computer and a set of balls. Looks like you have either of the first two; now get the other ones out of the jar and be a man.

No person of mental sanity would want somebody in their house to masturbate or have cybersex while their child is around. Nothing tricky about that; it's as clear cut as it gets.

[truthrevealed 0]

I know this is going to sound extreme and ridiculous, but given what she has done, consider change your locks.

We actually change our locks in the master bedroom because we found out that she took our key to our bedroom and exchanged it with a different key so that even if we lock it, she can open it when we ar not around. She hid our keys.

[truthrevealed 0]

You have no legal issue. You have no visa issue. You have a family issue.

All it takes is to tell your mother-in-law that you and her daughter mutually decided that you would not want her to visit you again. No need for her to buy another ticket again. End of story.

You don't need USCIS, FBI, CIA, or DEA for that. You need a telephone or a laptop computer and a set of balls. Looks like you have either of the first two; now get the other ones out of the jar and be a man.

No person of mental sanity would want somebody in their house to masturbate or have cybersex while their child is around. Nothing tricky about that; it's as clear cut as it gets.

We already decided about her not welcome in our house again. We got several offline messages from her saying she was sorry for "whatever, if any she had done." We never replied and blocked her from our list and I think now she got the message that she is not welcome in our place anymore. Our relatives inform us that she is planning to come back and stay in different houses (relatives and boyfriend) for the duration of her next visit and find a job.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

You have no legal issue. You have no visa issue. You have a family issue.

All it takes is to tell your mother-in-law that you and her daughter mutually decided that you would not want her to visit you again. No need for her to buy another ticket again. End of story.

You don't need USCIS, FBI, CIA, or DEA for that. You need a telephone or a laptop computer and a set of balls. Looks like you have either of the first two; now get the other ones out of the jar and be a man.

No person of mental sanity would want somebody in their house to masturbate or have cybersex while their child is around. Nothing tricky about that; it's as clear cut as it gets.

We already decided about her not welcome in our house again. We got several offline messages from her saying she was sorry for "whatever, if any she had done." We never replied and blocked her from our list and I think now she got the message that she is not welcome in our place anymore. Our relatives inform us that she is planning to come back and stay in different houses (relatives and boyfriend) for the duration of her next visit and find a job.

Then just leave it alone. She soudns like she def has some personality disorder and people like her will NEVER not be manipulitive or deceiving. She will continue with whatever she pleases no matter what you do(calling ICE for her working on a tourist visa).

Let her pay the consequences for her own actions eventually, let it die and be there to console your wife who has just been through a tramatic experience with the realization that her very own mother put her needs before your childs.

I truly am sorry for your wife. She must be torn to pieces over this.

[truthrevealed 0]

You have no legal issue. You have no visa issue. You have a family issue.

All it takes is to tell your mother-in-law that you and her daughter mutually decided that you would not want her to visit you again. No need for her to buy another ticket again. End of story.

You don't need USCIS, FBI, CIA, or DEA for that. You need a telephone or a laptop computer and a set of balls. Looks like you have either of the first two; now get the other ones out of the jar and be a man.

No person of mental sanity would want somebody in their house to masturbate or have cybersex while their child is around. Nothing tricky about that; it's as clear cut as it gets.

We already decided about her not welcome in our house again. We got several offline messages from her saying she was sorry for "whatever, if any she had done." We never replied and blocked her from our list and I think now she got the message that she is not welcome in our place anymore. Our relatives inform us that she is planning to come back and stay in different houses (relatives and boyfriend) for the duration of her next visit and find a job.

Then just leave it alone. She soudns like she def has some personality disorder and people like her will NEVER not be manipulitive or deceiving. She will continue with whatever she pleases no matter what you do(calling ICE for her working on a tourist visa).

Let her pay the consequences for her own actions eventually, let it die and be there to console your wife who has just been through a tramatic experience with the realization that her very own mother put her needs before your childs.

I truly am sorry for your wife. She must be torn to pieces over this.

Thank you for all your comments and suggestions. It clarifies a lot of things. Do you think I should inform the police about this so she has a record with them just in case she bothers us again?

[Darnell 8,478]

What country is she from ? I travel a lot - if she's in my flight plan, I'm happy to visit with her, have a nice talk on your behalf?

[truthrevealed 0]

What country is she from ? I travel a lot - if she's in my flight plan, I'm happy to visit with her, have a nice talk on your behalf?

Thank you for the offer. But, I would not want to put you in that position. She is the master of deceit. She might put something in you food, which she did in our case.