Leaving VJ

[MouadsWife 161]

For those of you who I have made friends with I will continue to keep in touch. I came to the realization today that vj just isnt where I need to be. I dont need it. Life is stressful enough going through this journey, and some people on vj isnt making this journey any easier. When you cant post a question without being attacked for it, when people make snide remarks behind your posts, its really not worth it. Vj just isnt what it should be, and I dont want to be a part of it anymore. I can make this journey on my own well enough. Good luck to everyone in theyre journey. And for those who answered my questions and helped me along the way, thank you. And for those who made it difficult along with way, thank you too... because you helped me realise I never needed vj, or you.

[AbbynSheryl 0]

i am so sorry to hear that but dont let those people bother u, it is free website and u can speak without any problem, go ahead and post what ever question u like and please dont let people comments bother u, abby n sheryl

[sandinista! 1,816]

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[Ban Hammer 13,530]

well blah. another one leaves due to some member's behavior.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

well blah. another one leaves due to some member's behavior.

Bullsh1t. People leave because... well....

[meowmeowmeow 1]

yeah, there are some grade-A dumbasses on here...

good luck and hope things go well with your interview, hubby, life etc

[Dr. A ♥ O 203]

Take it easy and remember you can always come back. It's difficult to do this process alone but I understand the need for peace of mind.

[Nothing1234 2]

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Those guys were just too pretty!

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Dont leave just take a break, there is good information on here and you WILL need it. Use the information and dont short yourself this opportunity being this close to the end. On here everyone has a opinion, most times not everyone agrees but you can take the personal experiences of those that have gone thru the steps at your location so that you can get a better idea and learn what to expect

[Nagishkaw 510]

What Brni said.

[brnidokiegurl 0]

Nagi your such a cheat, use your own words

[JeanneVictoria 55]

Usually helps if you take a small break. There is valuable information as you

are just beginning your journey. Hope to see you back soon!

[Y's_habibitk 2]

put people on "ignore" (a function available here on VJ) and dont post for a while.... thats my advise.

VJ is a very valuable tool, no use in dismissing it over that.

Good luck on your journey and take care.

[allousa 1]

This is the last time that I'm going to take time out of my day to respond to you because you have really PISSED me off.

That was a tad smartelicy to me, and you chalk it up to good advice. All I did was ask a simple question. And some ppl get pissed off because I did not google it on my own. They acuse me of "demanding" people to find it for me and do the work. I do applogize if I work alot, and have not replied with my gratitude... but just bc someone has not been able to reply with gratitude doesn not mean the assiatance was not appreciated. You have know idea whats going on in my life as to why I have not been able to reply back. And if you thought the bullying response was directed towards you then you should look to yourself bc evidently I hit a nerve and you somehow read that and applied it to yourself. I have never demandad anything from anyone.

You know what, you DID hit a nerve! First of all, I haven't said any of that ####### to you! Don't believe so. I have posted in a couple of your numerous "help" threads trying to give you information. If you go back and read the comments in your last thread, did I not point out that SOME people can be nasty, but that SOME people DO offer good advice...and I get the above ####### back from you.

Secondly, you don't know jack ####### about ANYONE on this board, especially me. I've been dealing with immigration a WHOLE LOT longer than you sweets. We started our immigration process in the States in 2001 and were married here. Try being separated from your husband for four years having to file a waiver which is a whole different nightmare. Try giving birth to your child BY YOURSELF! Try losing your father while your husband is overseas. During all this time, these people on VJ provided a lifeline of support for me. They were beyond helpful. Likewise, I have watched many of them go through similar struggles. So you can back the h*ll off with your comments about other people's lives!

I would not be at all surprised if you got similar responses on another site if you continue in the same manner. Then I would suggest you take a look at YOURSELF.

[R and F 34]

Posts of same member have been seen on other websites, I speak no further. Ok I will speak once again, VJ is a great tool to use throughout all the visa journey, I have grown to love it and know many of use here do the same. Yes we each have a different story to tell yet we are all waiting, hoping, wishing, whining, loving, hating and above all wondering if some day maybe it will all be just perfect for us yet we know otherwise. Maybe some day we can all meet in person and have a vj reunion, wohooooo.