Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)

[JaHoney 3]

mrs P, i looked on google and that is how i found the pic.

thanks sus, that is the general idea but they are smaller than what they lady in the pic has, her hair looks like what is called Kinky twist, cause the type of hair used to braid them.

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Sus--whe yuh deh? What part of NC are u going to be in?

[MRStee 19]

Morning Yardies!

[YAY MSTEE!! I was about to advise you to call DHL yourself because I just knew it had to be ready & I finally see this! Ya man soon come!

You know I would have lol Thanks Ells I can't wait.. we not even gonna be home the first night

[sus 70]

Sus--whe yuh deh? What part of NC are u going to be in?

I'll be in Charlotte Sat - Sun, Raleigh Mon - Tues

[JaHoney 3]

alright yall NAP soon come if i dont get up and move around

chat with yall later

BYE

[finesse 3]

alright yall NAP soon come if i dont get up and move around

chat with yall later

BYE

i took a walk on my lunch break and it did NO good whatsoever....mi tiyad!!!

[*JG* 2]

The Trelawny police are probing a case where three women allegedly tricked an elderly businessman into thinking they were going to have sex with him, tied him to a bed and instead stole $85,000

THE STAR has learnt that two weeks ago, three women were invited to the home of a 56-year-old man who resides in a community in the parish known as Texas.

According to Corporal William Maitland of the Area One police, they were alerted after a relative of the man paid a visit to the house and found him tied up.

exotic hook up

The police say they were told that about three days prior to the incident, the man met the women at an exotic club in the parish and invited them to his house.

According to reports, the women went to the house around midday on the day in question. While there, they were invited inside the man's bedroom.

It is then said that the women pretended that they were going to have sex with the man and tied him to the bed.

The man reportedly agreed but once tied up, the women began searching the room where they reportedly found the sum of money in his closet.

A cellphone, said to be valued at over $30,000 was also found.

The women then made off with the loot, leaving their victim tied up.

Further reports are that the man was left for some five hours before his relative found him. The police were then contacted.

Meanwhile, the police say information they have so far received suggests that the alleged robbers are not from the parish and have since fled.

"We are working towards finding the women, but it may take sometime because apparently they are not from Trelawny ...," the corporal said.

Ha ha....that's what the perv gets!

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

Good Morning Everyone,

It's been a while but I couldn't connect to the internet from the house. Hope everyone is doing ok. The 2 girls came up in August, we get along good. few glitches along the way the main one being the grandmother not sending the youngest to school, she should have been going into the 4th grade but didn't pass the entrance exam so she was put back into the third grade. Third week of school we get a call from her teachers. She has a first grade reading level. Not for nothing but I'm not to impressed with the Jamaican school system right now.

It wasn't their fault she didn't go to school but even though her grades were horrible they were going to put her in the fourth grade in J.A. The oldest one isn't too bad but her grammer when she writes is horrible. I spend a lot if time correcting her work.

My son and the baby and mr jengs are fine.

heyyy jengy..glad to see things are inproving

Stepmoms HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!

my stepdaughter wrote in her notebook that she does not like me because I disciplined her. Now her dad gave me the permission if she is out of line I can. She was doing good up until a couple of months ago. I saw this and I flipped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I punished her by writing 200 lines and no tv for 1 week. I did not tell her dad cuz she is scared of what HE will do!!!!!!!! What should I do???? Was I wrong??????????

i think u overreacted a bit..she's a child and that is normal..my daughter tells me i made her man..or whatever...u can;'t scold her for expressing herself...ur gonna make her hate u..and think she's THE STEPKID....u should have brought it to her and asked what was on her mind..and 200 lines and no TV for a week?? excessive..it looked like she cussed u out...what is she 7?

[Chiney*Eyes 0]

She is 7. I am okay now and we another heart to heart talk!

1luv..I am glad that you guys talked it out. Although I believe that there are times when the child is not going to like you, like what you say, like what you do. It is your job to mold them and discipline them. I know it is hard to hear or see when they say they hate you...I remember saying it under my breath to my mother many times. I feel you are doing your job if they have those feelings. I always tell my daughter that she doesn't have to like me and if she doesn't like the job I am doing with her she can take it up with my boss...GOD.

luv..i think ur harboring too much against this kid..i'm sorry but this is what i feel...u have to gain her trust before u can throw all ur punishments on her..i feel bad for her

[MRStee 19]

Hey Honey! I'm in the bed sick...they sent me home from work!

I hope you feel better. I just got over the flu so I know how it feels! ugh

[MRStee 19]

Stepmoms HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!

my stepdaughter wrote in her notebook that she does not like me because I disciplined her. Now her dad gave me the permission if she is out of line I can. She was doing good up until a couple of months ago. I saw this and I flipped!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I punished her by writing 200 lines and no tv for 1 week. I did not tell her dad cuz she is scared of what HE will do!!!!!!!! What should I do???? Was I wrong??????????

Ok 1luv...I'm gonna play the devil's advocate/therapist role for just a minute. I don't understand why you punished her so severely for her actions? The problem that I have with this situation is that your stepdaughter has a right to her feelings, and you essentially punished her for having feelings. We are all entitled to feel different ways about things and/or people. To punish her for not liking you, I think, is a little much. You said that she wrote this in her notebook. She wasn't yellilng it at you or anything, she simply wrote down how she felt. Instead of punishing her, I think it would have been more therapeutic for you to have the conversation w/ her about why she feels like she doesn't like you. You could even have it with her father present. And start out the conversation with an understanding that no one is going to be disrespectful during the conversation, and everyone will at least be heard. She might also come around if she sees (and hears) that you all having a good relationship is very important to you, which is why you were so upset. Your feelings were hurt. I saw in a later post that you all talked. Which is good. Just remember that a huge part of relationship building is being able to trust. And she's going to have to trust that she is allowed to have her feelings (even if it's not what we would hope), as long as she is not disrespectful and expresses them in an appropriate manner. Once she begins to feel like she can trust that you will accept all the parts of her, then I can guarantee you that things will begin to get better. It's a work in progress, and there a probably a thousand other things that she's going to do to piss you off at some point. Just make sure that the punishment fits the crime. And do everything u can to keep the lines of communication open between all of you. Even though teenagers act like they don't care about stuff like that, they really do! Good luck to you all.

1Luv..just realized your stepdaughter is 7! I still pretty much feel the same in my comments...when you think about it, teenagers and 7 year olds basically act the same!

I liked what you said... very thoughtful and sincere...

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Hey Honey! I'm in the bed sick...they sent me home from work!

I hope you feel better. I just got over the flu so I know how it feels! ugh

Thanks MsTee! Does he have the visa in his hands yet?

[MRStee 19]

question for yall?

Anyone had rope twist braids? the little ones they do in JA? i am thinking about getting it done there when i reach, but am wondering one how long it takes and two is it a pain to take down or does it cause any damage to the hair?

My auntie has them and swears by them. Im not sure how long they take but I believe they don't cause damage to the hair

[Ellsinlove 2]

Morning Yardies!

[YAY MSTEE!! I was about to advise you to call DHL yourself because I just knew it had to be ready & I finally see this! Ya man soon come!

You know I would have lol Thanks Ells I can't wait.. we not even gonna be home the first night

Where ya gonna be??

i took a walk on my lunch break and it did NO good whatsoever....mi tiyad!!!

Dem babies already wearin ya dung!

[finesse 3]

She is 7. I am okay now and we another heart to heart talk!

1luv..I am glad that you guys talked it out. Although I believe that there are times when the child is not going to like you, like what you say, like what you do. It is your job to mold them and discipline them. I know it is hard to hear or see when they say they hate you...I remember saying it under my breath to my mother many times. I feel you are doing your job if they have those feelings. I always tell my daughter that she doesn't have to like me and if she doesn't like the job I am doing with her she can take it up with my boss...GOD.

luv..i think ur harboring too much against this kid..i'm sorry but this is what i feel...u have to gain her trust before u can throw all ur punishments on her..i feel bad for her

mi neva knoa you was one big softie....