Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)

[JAPrincess 27]

Philly, sorry bout your friend

Be there for her as best you can so far away (((hugs)))

To all the people curling up with your men tonight... GIVE THANKS!!!

I'm still hugging my cell phone

[DaDa 1]

DADA: I heard you were the go-to lady for the updates...SOOOO....

Nope....(as I cross my arms) I'm mad at you....

*sings* YOU MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A NATURALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL WOMANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

Ooohhhhh....YOU SO NASTY! HAHAHAHAHA! But I don't blame you! Doesn't it feel SOOOO good!

yesssssssssssssssssssssss LAWD .... I feel like this: hahahahahaha

MsTee, you know some of us have to live through you!!!

I wanna sexy party soon

Typically I love these kinds of topics but today I’m like new topic please!!!! A girl can only cross her legs for so long and especially with these big thighs of mine I’m really tired of crossing my legs.

[JAPrincess 27]

Long story short, there have been a couple of bumps...but he hasn't blown up any appliances, there's been no blood shed, and there are enuff sexy parties a gwaan to make everyting irie!

Tamisha

God Bless Mrs.P

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

DADA: I heard you were the go-to lady for the updates...SOOOO....

Nope....(as I cross my arms) I'm mad at you....

YOU LOVE ME DADA!!! :lol: Thank you for the update! It was GGGRREEEAAATTT! ((hugs))

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

DADA I would say you got it all. Man you good!!!!

Mrs. Palme--I don't blame you one bit. Cause when Eric get here, I am going to try and break him down!!!!

Like my favorite saying "Breaking it down like a shot gun!" It is from a movie but Ican't remember which one. as of yet.

DENS--They might just be giving you a round about date for the interview. With all the holidays coming up and all. But your man soon come then you can break him down too. It is almost 4:30. Only and hour to go.

MsTee-- Philly is doing the damn thing with the artists. I love Chrisette as well. As for this K-jon guy. Never heard of him, but I will be listening out for his song on the radio.

I been sick these past few days. Now that I am feeling better I will have to pour me a drink. Maybe I will make it a hot tody, to add in my getting better. Close enough to five for me. Let twist the caps!!!

[DaDa 1]

finesse I seeeeeeee you

where the hell have you been? how di belly? how tings? yuh back from ja?

I been hiding

Di belly big like wha

Tings no easy mi gyal... there was a delay in our case (nothing I wanna put out here) but we are working on it :pray:

Yes mi back from JA an not happy bout dat at all... but I give thanks all went well being 8 mos preggers there.

The time was very much needed, just makes being apart that much harder tho

Hey you can’t give us any details??

Well is it something that can be smoothed out or it might put a permanent dent in tings?

U know you shouldn't have hid from us we're your biggest support group.

Edited December 4, 2009 by DaDa

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

DADA I would say you got it all. Man you good!!!!

Mrs. Palme--I don't blame you one bit. Cause when Eric get here, I am going to try and break him down!!!!

Like my favorite saying "Breaking it down like a shot gun!" It is from a movie but Ican't remember which one. as of yet.

DENS--They might just be giving you a round about date for the interview. With all the holidays coming up and all. But your man soon come then you can break him down too. It is almost 4:30. Only and hour to go.

MsTee-- Philly is doing the damn thing with the artists. I love Chrisette as well. As for this K-jon guy. Never heard of him, but I will be listening out for his song on the radio.

I been sick these past few days. Now that I am feeling better I will have to pour me a drink. Maybe I will make it a hot tody, to add in my getting better. Close enough to five for me. Let twist the caps!!!

Mamjew: You had me cracking up with that "hot toddy"..my mama used to make those for me and my sister as we got older and we weren't feeling well (I'm sure there's a law against that! ). She would heat up some honey and lemon on the stove, and mix it with some brandy. Wrap us up in blankets, and everything from the rooter to the tooter was coming out of us!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Well, while I'm waiting for DADA to get to business ( ) I'll give you a brief update on how hubby and I are adjusting. First let me say that I truly am thanking God that I finally have my husband here. I know he is my blessing, my king, and I look forward to doing so much with him as time goes on. With that being said, it's beginning to get a little more tense around the house. My husband has been here since 11/1, and unfortunately we still haven't received his greencard in the mail yet, so he still hasn't been able to go out and look for work. We know for a fact that there are a few places hiring within walking distance (I live a mile and half from a major shopping center in the area), but it feels like we're stuck in regards to applying since there's no telling when the card will come in. Unfortunately because he's stuck at the house most of the day, he's become incredibly antsy. And before you guys say anything, I'm trying to put myself in his shoes. This is a man that is used to working and taking care of his entire family, and now, he is able to contribute very little financially to the household, and this is definitely taking its toll on him. He does help out in alot of other ways (cooking, cleaning, taking care of Kingston, laundry, etc) but he told me that he gets tired of seeing me walk out of the door every morning to go to work, and he isn't able to do so I do my best to convince him that hopefully it won't be much longer, and it breaks my heart to come home and see him just looking at me with sad eyes because he feels like he's not doing enough. So, that's the major stuff we're trying to work through. That, and me having to get used to the fact that there's no more real "me" time when I get home from work anymore. Before, I could come home and unwind a little bit, let my mind rest and get myself back together before I moved on to the next task, but no more. Now, because my husband is there by himself all day, he demands all of my attention when I get home. And while most days I don't mind, on a couple of occasions lately I told him that I needed some time to relax first, and I think it hurt his feelings. I just keep trying to remember to be patient, and to remember that this won't last forever. Aside from that, he really seems to like the NC area. He went bowling for the first time last night, and ended up having a good time (will post some pics on FB). Of course we've gone out to shopping centers, gone to movies, out to the bars, enjoyed friends, and have gone out to listen to some good live reggae music. We hope to be able to do much more when he starts working. He hasn't complained of missing home much, and has been able to talk to his mother and brothers on a fairly consistent basis. I also make sure that he calls his family in NY at least once or twice a week, and right now we're hoping to plan a trip there in the spring Long story short, there have been a couple of bumps...but he hasn't blown up any appliances, there's been no blood shed, and there are enuff sexy parties a gwaan to make everyting irie! We're anxiously looking forward to the arrival of the GC though so we can keep moving forward with school and work. Good luck to everyone whose hubbys/so's are coming soon or just got here.

Tamisha

Hey sis; mi shoudah tump u dung fi bline mi yey fi deh try readh all a dis mi afi change di colour...cho oomman...

sis; my GA -- everything takes time...so much focus is on the spouse adjusting that we forget to take time to adjust as well. There is nothing wrong with wanting to spend time on your own. Another thing I suggest is to try and have somethings in place before your spouse gets here; with my hubby I had him join the gym 1st month he was here and he was in school a the following month...I prepared him as much as I could and told him it would be a good while before he would start working and he understood that, but I could see it in his face that he wasn't comfortable with that, but we made it work. Trust me Mrs. P; when I tell you making "me" time is very important in a relationship find what works for you --

[dillon 6]

Great recap Dada!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

Thanks dillon!

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

DADA I would say you got it all. Man you good!!!!

Mrs. Palme--I don't blame you one bit. Cause when Eric get here, I am going to try and break him down!!!!

Like my favorite saying "Breaking it down like a shot gun!" It is from a movie but Ican't remember which one. as of yet.

DENS--They might just be giving you a round about date for the interview. With all the holidays coming up and all. But your man soon come then you can break him down too. It is almost 4:30. Only and hour to go.

MsTee-- Philly is doing the damn thing with the artists. I love Chrisette as well. As for this K-jon guy. Never heard of him, but I will be listening out for his song on the radio.

I been sick these past few days. Now that I am feeling better I will have to pour me a drink. Maybe I will make it a hot tody, to add in my getting better. Close enough to five for me. Let twist the caps!!!

Mamjew: You had me cracking up with that "hot toddy"..my mama used to make those for me and my sister as we got older and we weren't feeling well (I'm sure there's a law against that! ). She would heat up some honey and lemon on the stove, and mix it with some brandy. Wrap us up in blankets, and everything from the rooter to the tooter was coming out of us!

Girl!!!! Where do you think I got that from. My mom did the same ting with my brother and I. Just like you said, once you bundle up, feels like you wet yourself in the morning. But you felt a hell of a lot better as well.

[Mrs. Palmer 5]

Well, while I'm waiting for DADA to get to business ( ) I'll give you a brief update on how hubby and I are adjusting. First let me say that I truly am thanking God that I finally have my husband here. I know he is my blessing, my king, and I look forward to doing so much with him as time goes on. With that being said, it's beginning to get a little more tense around the house. My husband has been here since 11/1, and unfortunately we still haven't received his greencard in the mail yet, so he still hasn't been able to go out and look for work. We know for a fact that there are a few places hiring within walking distance (I live a mile and half from a major shopping center in the area), but it feels like we're stuck in regards to applying since there's no telling when the card will come in. Unfortunately because he's stuck at the house most of the day, he's become incredibly antsy. And before you guys say anything, I'm trying to put myself in his shoes. This is a man that is used to working and taking care of his entire family, and now, he is able to contribute very little financially to the household, and this is definitely taking its toll on him. He does help out in alot of other ways (cooking, cleaning, taking care of Kingston, laundry, etc) but he told me that he gets tired of seeing me walk out of the door every morning to go to work, and he isn't able to do so I do my best to convince him that hopefully it won't be much longer, and it breaks my heart to come home and see him just looking at me with sad eyes because he feels like he's not doing enough. So, that's the major stuff we're trying to work through. That, and me having to get used to the fact that there's no more real "me" time when I get home from work anymore. Before, I could come home and unwind a little bit, let my mind rest and get myself back together before I moved on to the next task, but no more. Now, because my husband is there by himself all day, he demands all of my attention when I get home. And while most days I don't mind, on a couple of occasions lately I told him that I needed some time to relax first, and I think it hurt his feelings. I just keep trying to remember to be patient, and to remember that this won't last forever. Aside from that, he really seems to like the NC area. He went bowling for the first time last night, and ended up having a good time (will post some pics on FB). Of course we've gone out to shopping centers, gone to movies, out to the bars, enjoyed friends, and have gone out to listen to some good live reggae music. We hope to be able to do much more when he starts working. He hasn't complained of missing home much, and has been able to talk to his mother and brothers on a fairly consistent basis. I also make sure that he calls his family in NY at least once or twice a week, and right now we're hoping to plan a trip there in the spring Long story short, there have been a couple of bumps...but he hasn't blown up any appliances, there's been no blood shed, and there are enuff sexy parties a gwaan to make everyting irie! We're anxiously looking forward to the arrival of the GC though so we can keep moving forward with school and work. Good luck to everyone whose hubbys/so's are coming soon or just got here.

Tamisha

Hey sis; mi shoudah tump u dung fi bline mi yey fi deh try readh all a dis mi afi change di colour...cho oomman...

sis; my GA -- everything takes time...so much focus is on the spouse adjusting that we forget to take time to adjust as well. There is nothing wrong with wanting to spend time on your own. Another thing I suggest is to try and have somethings in place before your spouse gets here; with my hubby I had him join the gym 1st month he was here and he was in school a the following month...I prepared him as much as I could and told him it would be a good while before he would start working and he understood that, but I could see it in his face that he wasn't comfortable with that, but we made it work. Trust me Mrs. P; when I tell you making "me" time is very important in a relationship find what works for you --

Mad ooman---mi neva mean fi bline yuh ...mi love fi write inna color! You're right in your statement though when you say that we spend so much time helping them to adjust, that we sometimes forget ourselves in the process. But like I said, we're both still learning. And working on it. Together. So it's all good. I'm just glad that he wants to do so much, and I'm glad that he feels like he's "at home"..cuz I was worried. (that was a whole separate convo)...

[phillyfashionista 8]

I just recvd a terrible call my best girlfriend in JA's Grandfather died suddenly of a stroke and her cousin's girlfriend was shot 3 times. Oh this is so sad I feel so sorry I can't be there for her now, he says she is a wreck and is calling for me........ I wish I could drop everything and go to be there for her now.

I'm truly sorry to hear that. That is really bad news. How is your cousin's girlfriend doing???

Girl she died instantly so sad.......

Oh nooooooo! That is very sad. I'm sorry to hear both of those incidents are bad news. My Grandmother has this saying "When it rains it pours!" Lord have mercy!

Girl tell me about it!

Dada did you get the R Kelly CD I posted earlier this week? Yeah its ok not the same RKelly 12 play sexiness!

ok I am back to working on my responses so I don't catch a 2 piece and a biscuit from you LOL

No I'm not able to download it. Once I get my new computer I'll be back in business so I had to go buy it for 9.99

Oh Man really dang! nuh worry yuhself I got them fi yuh!

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

So, Mrs. P; what are you going to do for some "me" time.....?

[Eric_Jew Nug 2]

Well, while I'm waiting for DADA to get to business ( ) I'll give you a brief update on how hubby and I are adjusting. First let me say that I truly am thanking God that I finally have my husband here. I know he is my blessing, my king, and I look forward to doing so much with him as time goes on. With that being said, it's beginning to get a little more tense around the house. My husband has been here since 11/1, and unfortunately we still haven't received his greencard in the mail yet, so he still hasn't been able to go out and look for work. We know for a fact that there are a few places hiring within walking distance (I live a mile and half from a major shopping center in the area), but it feels like we're stuck in regards to applying since there's no telling when the card will come in. Unfortunately because he's stuck at the house most of the day, he's become incredibly antsy. And before you guys say anything, I'm trying to put myself in his shoes. This is a man that is used to working and taking care of his entire family, and now, he is able to contribute very little financially to the household, and this is definitely taking its toll on him. He does help out in alot of other ways (cooking, cleaning, taking care of Kingston, laundry, etc) but he told me that he gets tired of seeing me walk out of the door every morning to go to work, and he isn't able to do so I do my best to convince him that hopefully it won't be much longer, and it breaks my heart to come home and see him just looking at me with sad eyes because he feels like he's not doing enough. So, that's the major stuff we're trying to work through. That, and me having to get used to the fact that there's no more real "me" time when I get home from work anymore. Before, I could come home and unwind a little bit, let my mind rest and get myself back together before I moved on to the next task, but no more. Now, because my husband is there by himself all day, he demands all of my attention when I get home. And while most days I don't mind, on a couple of occasions lately I told him that I needed some time to relax first, and I think it hurt his feelings. I just keep trying to remember to be patient, and to remember that this won't last forever. Aside from that, he really seems to like the NC area. He went bowling for the first time last night, and ended up having a good time (will post some pics on FB). Of course we've gone out to shopping centers, gone to movies, out to the bars, enjoyed friends, and have gone out to listen to some good live reggae music. We hope to be able to do much more when he starts working. He hasn't complained of missing home much, and has been able to talk to his mother and brothers on a fairly consistent basis. I also make sure that he calls his family in NY at least once or twice a week, and right now we're hoping to plan a trip there in the spring Long story short, there have been a couple of bumps...but he hasn't blown up any appliances, there's been no blood shed, and there are enuff sexy parties a gwaan to make everyting irie! We're anxiously looking forward to the arrival of the GC though so we can keep moving forward with school and work. Good luck to everyone whose hubbys/so's are coming soon or just got here.

Tamisha

Hey sis; mi shoudah tump u dung fi bline mi yey fi deh try readh all a dis mi afi change di colour...cho oomman...

sis; my GA -- everything takes time...so much focus is on the spouse adjusting that we forget to take time to adjust as well. There is nothing wrong with wanting to spend time on your own. Another thing I suggest is to try and have somethings in place before your spouse gets here; with my hubby I had him join the gym 1st month he was here and he was in school a the following month...I prepared him as much as I could and told him it would be a good while before he would start working and he understood that, but I could see it in his face that he wasn't comfortable with that, but we made it work. Trust me Mrs. P; when I tell you making "me" time is very important in a relationship find what works for you --

Tre--that is some good stuff. Eric is a fire fighter in JA, so I have been checking some of the local fire houses to see if he can volunteer. I also went and got the DMV book so he can study up on that while he has free time. Once he has his license, we will go to a votech or community college and sign him up for classes. He is going to love that. Cause he is just like me, likes to stay busy. And of course I got something planned for that too