Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)

[*JG* 2]

sus; I have a better name dan baby mother...but they may ban me from the board if I type it

I know some women are just jealous; again, it depends on the circumstances I mean...if I find out dat my man lef mi fi a next ooman mi naw go freely mek my pickeny go weh wid im n im ooman (u mad)...is dat selfish (maybe)...but a fi mi decision...some of these ladies turn their feelings into straight hate and war but try to look at it on the other side. Forget about the foolishness for a second and say this woman is leveled -- it's still going to be hard (worse) if dem have hate fi the father and the new ooman... I have a hard time letting my son go on the weekend and we in the same state...(yes, call mi madooman) cause a me dat...

I understand that, Tre. But, there comes a point when you look at what she is doing to those kids and using those kids and you say what is exactly the reason behind this. I mean, seriously, being upset or hurt is one thing; but when it's over, it's over. He's moved on. It's not right to use the kids as pawns just so you can inflict as much pain and suffering on the father as possible. Or mother, if the case may be. There comes a time when you really do have to look at the kids and say I can't do this anymore cause I am causing permanent damage to them that maybe even therapy won't fix.

I don't agree with the woman using the kids as pawns....if there was no possible way on God's earth for me to do better for me and my children then I would let them go, but mek stone kill mi fus...mi ago try...I would NEVER keep them from their father out of jealousy or hate that would only hurt them...

you can't reason with a person when they hurt and have hate in their heart...that's my experience

I spelled MATHS on purpose...lawd unu slow tideh!

I know that all too well. And, yes, I agree with you on all accounts except the slow part......

Glad, girl. I know what you've been through and are still working through. Been there done that. It DOES get better. Just hang in there and keep chipping away.

You have a solution?? Maybe I should PM you for this advice....

You can try. I've been through it.....tried a lot of stuff.....learned a lot the hard way. Had someone else on here guide me a bit. I still owe her gratitude for that.

[thisislove 0]

hi u guys.. im just so far behind now..

we are all good.. had a great time this weekend.. hope all is well w/ the yardies dem..

love ya'll

[Tosh Love 77]

Good nite all! Hubby finally got his driver's license today and I am going to celebrate. No more grocery store runs for me. Woo hoo!

I can't wait to experience that feeling too

Good night ladies,

To comment on the medical insurance question

When I was alone on my plan it was 60 for medical and 9 for dental

Since I added him it is now 168 medical and 26 for dental.

My kids have medical through there father's insurance

long story don't ask lol

I was able to get CHIP for my daughter so I took her off last year, she gets free everything... I did it so I could get more in my pay and now that Steve is coming... I just can't go back to that, gonna search for other insurance for him.

I felt bad yesterday about how excited I was. He does not get what the big deal is. I hate grocery shopping with a passion I would rather dig a trench with my bare hands than go grocery shopping.

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

JQ all dem crazy #### baby mama is a mess...It must be a Jamaican thing if they were in america they would see seh if yuh nah wuk yuh cant survive. My fiance baby mother dont work either so I have heard this song before. We put his son on the K-1 so everything will be done at once. She called yesterday saying she dont have no $$$ to take the passport pics for the Medical and he must send it. He told her to work it out and dont stress him. She find the $$$ today she took him to get the pics. Sometimes the daddy's just have to stand up to dem...

I hope everything work out well for you...

Is that so??

Must let all the MILLIONS of HARD WORKING Jamaican women know and all the LAZY American/English/European women know that this is now a 'Jamaican thing'.

Thanks for the info!

[Tosh Love 77]

Good nite all! Hubby finally got his driver's license today and I am going to celebrate. No more grocery store runs for me. Woo hoo!

I hope you didn't celebrate by sending him to the store...

[MRStee 19]

Just dropped in to say hi, I have about 15 minutes before my class starts. Steve got to the airport okay. His flight was delayed 45 minutes. He sounded SO happy and excited. I want to sound that way too only Ive been up since 3 am trying to do school stuff so Im beat. In a way Im glad for the slight delay so I won't have to kill myself leaving school and driving to the airport. I will definitely check in later and keep you posted!!!!!

[*JG* 2]

Just dropped in to say hi, I have about 15 minutes before my class starts. Steve got to the airport okay. His flight was delayed 45 minutes. He sounded SO happy and excited. I want to sound that way too only Ive been up since 3 am trying to do school stuff so Im beat. In a way Im glad for the slight delay so I won't have to kill myself leaving school and driving to the airport. I will definitely check in later and keep you posted!!!!!

Enjoy!

[MRStee 19]

By the way the Kindergartner's BEAT MY AZZ today, they were so unruly while I was reading them a book uggggh lol

[LadyC 1]

Just dropped in to say hi, I have about 15 minutes before my class starts. Steve got to the airport okay. His flight was delayed 45 minutes. He sounded SO happy and excited. I want to sound that way too only Ive been up since 3 am trying to do school stuff so Im beat. In a way Im glad for the slight delay so I won't have to kill myself leaving school and driving to the airport. I will definitely check in later and keep you posted!!!!!

Yay MsTee..Tonite you will be able to relax in your honey's arms....Enjoy

[Tosh Love 77]

I went back to the Humane Society to look at some of the other dogs I looked at Saturday. Walked in and Maddie was still there. I started to cry. Worker guy told me that there are shelters that take dogs like her and they are working on getting her into one. That helped a bit.

I ended up falling in love with Tiger. He's a 8 month old pitt with the sweetest disposition. I took him to the firehouse last night. He played in the yard with the neighbor dogs running up and down the fence with him. I gave him a bath. He slept through the night in his crate with the door open. He's been a dream. Only issues are the cat hates him and he ate all the cat's food. Both of those I expect will change.

I feel like a new mom. I don't want to be here at all today!

OMG JG I don't like pitbulls but he is absolutely adorable. Look at those muscles he is going to be a strong boy. Let me know if you know anyone looking for a dog. My friend wants it to go to a home they do not want it to go to a shelter and are still debating getting rid of him. To each his own--for me if the doctor says my baby is allergic, that pretty much decides everything for me. Rant over!

[MRStee 19]

Just dropped in to say hi, I have about 15 minutes before my class starts. Steve got to the airport okay. His flight was delayed 45 minutes. He sounded SO happy and excited. I want to sound that way too only Ive been up since 3 am trying to do school stuff so Im beat. In a way Im glad for the slight delay so I won't have to kill myself leaving school and driving to the airport. I will definitely check in later and keep you posted!!!!!

Yay MsTee..Tonite you will be able to relax in your honey's arms....Enjoy

I sure am gonna try....

[dillon 6]

Hi SG...glad to hear hubby has his license! Must be a great feeling. I hate always having to go to the store too.

[*JG* 2]

Hi SG...glad to hear hubby has his license! Must be a great feeling. I hate always having to go to the store too.

Wait till you get to take a teenage girl blue jean shopping. I swear at the end, I was yelling just buy a damn pair of jeans already.

SG....I will ask around. If you had caught me before I went and fell in love with tiger, I certainly would've considered the puppy.

[dillon 6]

Hi SG...glad to hear hubby has his license! Must be a great feeling. I hate always having to go to the store too.

Wait till you get to take a teenage girl blue jean shopping. I swear at the end, I was yelling just buy a damn pair of jeans already.

SG....I will ask around. If you had caught me before I went and fell in love with tiger, I certainly would've considered the puppy.

I'm already having those issues. She will try them on, like them at the store and then when we get home and I tell her to wear them she doesn't like them anymore. She has done that to me twice now.

[dillon 6]

Oh SG and I especially HATE having to go to that stinky smelly fish store that we saw you and your hubby at. Unfortunately he LOVES that store. ICK!