Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)

[JQ Smiley BOOM 3]

Hi yardies

Hey Bunz,

Tell me what happened when you changed your name

I want to be Jamaican Smiley Queen

and Hush @ Dada

Edited November 3, 2009 by Jamerican Queen

[DedicatedWife 4]

JQ all dem crazy #### baby mama is a mess...It must be a Jamaican thing if they were in america they would see seh if yuh nah wuk yuh cant survive. My fiance baby mother dont work either so I have heard this song before. We put his son on the K-1 so everything will be done at once. She called yesterday saying she dont have no $$$ to take the passport pics for the Medical and he must send it. He told her to work it out and dont stress him. She find the $$$ today she took him to get the pics. Sometimes the daddy's just have to stand up to dem...

I hope everything work out well for you...

noon ladies;

not a Jamaican thing at all it happens here as well...another reason if you get involved with a man and he has kids these things have be discussed before you decide to file -- I just feel sorry for the kids and the man need to step up and hold their ground...there is no way I would let my infant child come to the states at such a young age (it hard) to be separated from your child and I can't even imagine dat-- but den again a me dat...the circumstances will have to be really, really bad for me to let my child go and even then...if the child is older I would have to get to know the stepmother...but then again it depends on the circumstances -- regardless of what the child's mother is going on with -- she's always going to want a connection to her child's father...if she pass her place then the man needs to step up and handle it... and I soooooooo DISLIKE the term

"BABY MOTHER"

Little one won't be following his daddy over here. Our situation is definitely unique than probably others but Den has stepped up and been a wonderful father. I'm going to respect her because she is his son's mother but she needs to also respect me as I am about to be his wife. They will always be connected and I told Den as long as I have breath in me, his son will be like my own son.

Edited November 3, 2009 by Dens Wifey

[wakeywakeup 1]

Hey everyone!

You know when I fell in love with this site over a year ago. I promised myself I wouldn't disappear once I was a married ooman.

Honestly, being married didn't cause my absence but financial issues. Many of you know I was in some serious debt prior to getting married and had to do something and quick. I've since found the business that is helping me out of the hole and building my team keeps me pretty busy (I’m not mad though because I get paid for helping others ) All of that to say, it’s not you it’s me and I hope to be back on here soon.

I wanted to say hey and love all of ya’ll for being there for me past, present, and future .

Congrats on all approvals etc.

Wakey

anyone going to see that movie Precious? it looks really good...but sad

anybody watch for the love of ray j last night?

I can't wait to see Precious...I have kleenex at the ready oh and my hotsauce for my popcorn.

[sus 70]

Hey Wakey, good to hear from you! Hope all is well, I miss you!!

[Kuntriooman 0]

sus; I have a better name dan baby mother...but they may ban me from the board if I type it

I know some women are just jealous; again, it depends on the circumstances I mean...if I find out dat my man lef mi fi a next ooman mi naw go freely mek my pickeny go weh wid im n im ooman (u mad)...is dat selfish (maybe)...but a fi mi decision...some of these ladies turn their feelings into straight hate and war but try to look at it on the other side. Forget about the foolishness for a second and say this woman is leveled -- it's still going to be hard (worse) if dem have hate fi the father and the new ooman... I have a hard time letting my son go on the weekend and we in the same state...(yes, call mi madooman) cause a me dat...

[DaDa 1]

[noon ladies;

not a Jamaican thing at all it happens here as well...another reason if you get involved with a man and he has kids these things have be discussed before you decide to file -- I just feel sorry for the kids and the man need to step up and hold their ground...there is no way I would let my infant child come to the states at such a young age (it hard) to be separated from your child and I can't even imagine dat-- but den again a me dat...the circumstances will have to be really, really bad for me to let my child go and even then...if the child is older I would have to get to know the stepmother...but then again it depends on the circumstances -- regardless of what the child's mother is going on with -- she's always going to want a connection to her child's father...if she pass her place then the man needs to step up and handle it... and I soooooooo DISLIKE the term

"BABY MOTHER"

I agree I couldn’t possibly see sending my child to another country to live. Hell my son’s family wants him to come to Florida for the summer and I’m like Hell No ( In my Sophia voice from the Color Purple) I don’t know you all. They have been blowing up my phone and I haven’t answered. I just ignore them I said NO!! Maybe when he’s 16 but not at 13….

[*JG* 2]

anyone going to see that movie Precious? it looks really good...but sad

Not me! I heard about the book and that it's pretty hard to read due to what's happening.

Pursuit of Happyness was a rough book, too, but the movie cleaned up a TON of what happened in the book. It doesn't look like the movie Precious did the same with its book.

Never even heard of it. But, any movie with Lenny Kravitz in it is a MUST in my book. That man is fine!!!!!

Lenny Kravitz is in what Precious??

That's what it said when I used looked up the synopsis of the movie.

[BunzTheMagicSnail 2]

Hi yardies

Hey Bunz,

Tell me what happened when you changed your name

I want to be Jamaican Smiley Queen

and Hush @ Dada

go to "My Controls" and select "Change Display Name"

be warned you only get two name changes every 360 days

i learned the hard way

[DaDa 1]

Hi yardies

Hey Bunz,

Tell me what happened when you changed your name

I want to be Jamaican Smiley Queen

and Hush @ Dada

Mi naa say a ting...

[*JG* 2]

Hey everyone!

You know when I fell in love with this site over a year ago. I promised myself I wouldn't disappear once I was a married ooman.

Honestly, being married didn't cause my absence but financial issues. Many of you know I was in some serious debt prior to getting married and had to do something and quick. I've since found the business that is helping me out of the hole and building my team keeps me pretty busy (I'm not mad though because I get paid for helping others ) All of that to say, it's not you it's me and I hope to be back on here soon.

I wanted to say hey and love all of ya'll for being there for me past, present, and future .

Congrats on all approvals etc.

Wakey

anyone going to see that movie Precious? it looks really good...but sad

anybody watch for the love of ray j last night?

I can't wait to see Precious...I have kleenex at the ready oh and my hotsauce for my popcorn.

Don't know if I told you; but I had my own serious financial issues. If you want to talk, PM me sometime.

[Kuntriooman 0]

Hi yardies

Hey Bunz,

Tell me what happened when you changed your name

I want to be Jamaican Smiley Queen

and Hush @ Dada

go to "My Controls" and select "Change Display Name"

be warned you only get two name changes every 360 days

i learned the hard way

sarry Bunz

opps I mean snail...no wait deh Bunz

[DaDa 1]

JQ all dem crazy #### baby mama is a mess...It must be a Jamaican thing if they were in america they would see seh if yuh nah wuk yuh cant survive. My fiance baby mother dont work either so I have heard this song before. We put his son on the K-1 so everything will be done at once. She called yesterday saying she dont have no $$$ to take the passport pics for the Medical and he must send it. He told her to work it out and dont stress him. She find the $$$ today she took him to get the pics. Sometimes the daddy's just have to stand up to dem...

I hope everything work out well for you...

noon ladies;

not a Jamaican thing at all it happens here as well...another reason if you get involved with a man and he has kids these things have be discussed before you decide to file -- I just feel sorry for the kids and the man need to step up and hold their ground...there is no way I would let my infant child come to the states at such a young age (it hard) to be separated from your child and I can't even imagine dat-- but den again a me dat...the circumstances will have to be really, really bad for me to let my child go and even then...if the child is older I would have to get to know the stepmother...but then again it depends on the circumstances -- regardless of what the child's mother is going on with -- she's always going to want a connection to her child's father...if she pass her place then the man needs to step up and handle it... and I soooooooo DISLIKE the term

"BABY MOTHER"

Little one won't be following his daddy over here. Our situation is definitely unique than probably others but Den has stepped up and been a wonderful father. I'm going to respect her because she is his son's mother but she needs to also respect me as I am about to be his wife. They will always be connected and I told Den as long as I have breath in me, his son will be like my own son.

Umm any reason why you want us to use a magnifying glass to read your response??

[Kuntriooman 0]

Sunny u baxide...i've been calling you --- wanted to find out if my lil bro know smadi from Ochi

[wakeywakeup 1]

Hey Wakey, good to hear from you! Hope all is well, I miss you!!

Missed you too!

[sus 70]

Sunny u baxide...i've been calling you --- wanted to find out if my lil bro know smadi from Ochi

She ignore yuh on purpose