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LOL it might be funny...... but yeah this is how I feel! Good and bad.

You read about the good feelings on the other thread..... but this one is about the bad ones. I want him to be a part of my pregnancy and if I'm pregnant right now that is not gonna happen..... It sucks!

I had plans.... we had plans... we talked about what it was gonna be like when we decided to have kids and it was perfect! We were so careful about everything.....

I want to have a baby. I want it very much! But I want it to be right..... when we're together and at least a few months after I move to the US... I want us to be a normal couple for awhile.

Oh man...... what the h*ll..... *&¨&*¨%$$

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10/26/2006- Consulate receives case (seriously, one month to receive the case?? BS!), and packet 3 that I sent even before they had received the case.

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01/23/2007- Second Interview. VISA granted!!!

01/29/2007- VISA arrived.... no envelope though. I'm gonna contact them and see what happened this time!

01/31/2007- I'll have to send them one last financial support evidence.

02/01/2007- Evidence sent

02/02/2007- Evidence received by Consulate

02/06/2007- Consulate sends envelope!

02/07/2007- Envelope received!!!

02/10/2007- Flew to the USA!!!!!!

04/17/2007- Wedding day!!!

--- Wish us luck!!! ---

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LOL it might be funny...... but yeah this is how I feel! Good and bad.

You read about the good feelings on the other thread..... but this one is about the bad ones. I want him to be a part of my pregnancy and if I'm pregnant right now that is not gonna happen..... It sucks!

I had plans.... we had plans... we talked about what it was gonna be like when we decided to have kids and it was perfect! We were so careful about everything.....

I want to have a baby. I want it very much! But I want it to be right..... when we're together and at least a few months after I move to the US... I want us to be a normal couple for awhile.

Oh man...... what the h*ll..... *&¨&*¨%$$

mrs knight, from the title there may be some doubt or am i wrong?

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Ok, first of all, breathe :)

Second of all, I was feeling just like you were last week :/ so I know how you feel....I'm sure lots of us do.

The thing right now is to go get a preggers test....you have to face the music one way or another...so get it done because you may be worrying over nothing! :)

Best of luck to you both....I'm sorry you're in this predicament, but either way, you both will be fine....just keep your eyes on the big picture! (L)

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I think they should have some actress repeat that topic line on a scene in one of those pregnancy test commercials

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I think they should have some actress repeat that topic line on a scene in one of those pregnancy test commercials

LOL

Ok, first of all, breathe :)

Second of all, I was feeling just like you were last week :/ so I know how you feel....I'm sure lots of us do.

The thing right now is to go get a preggers test....you have to face the music one way or another...so get it done because you may be worrying over nothing! :)

Best of luck to you both....I'm sorry you're in this predicament, but either way, you both will be fine....just keep your eyes on the big picture! (L)

I just hope it's normal to feel this way I'm feeling right now.......... and btw, he's feeling just the same!

OUR COMPLETE TIMELINE

Latest steps:

10/26/2006- Consulate receives case (seriously, one month to receive the case?? BS!), and packet 3 that I sent even before they had received the case.

01/02/2007- Interview!!!!!!!!!!!!! Got a 221(g)

01/23/2007- Second Interview. VISA granted!!!

01/29/2007- VISA arrived.... no envelope though. I'm gonna contact them and see what happened this time!

01/31/2007- I'll have to send them one last financial support evidence.

02/01/2007- Evidence sent

02/02/2007- Evidence received by Consulate

02/06/2007- Consulate sends envelope!

02/07/2007- Envelope received!!!

02/10/2007- Flew to the USA!!!!!!

04/17/2007- Wedding day!!!

--- Wish us luck!!! ---

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I think they should have some actress repeat that topic line on a scene in one of those pregnancy test commercials

LOL

Ok, first of all, breathe :)

Second of all, I was feeling just like you were last week :/ so I know how you feel....I'm sure lots of us do.

The thing right now is to go get a preggers test....you have to face the music one way or another...so get it done because you may be worrying over nothing! :)

Best of luck to you both....I'm sorry you're in this predicament, but either way, you both will be fine....just keep your eyes on the big picture! (L)

I just hope it's normal to feel this way I'm feeling right now.......... and btw, he's feeling just the same!

it be okay../just the shock setting in

Peace to All creatures great and small............................................

But when we turn to the Hebrew literature, we do not find such jokes about the donkey. Rather the animal is known for its strength and its loyalty to its master (Genesis 49:14; Numbers 22:30).

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my burro, bosco ..enjoying a beer in almaty

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I think they should have some actress repeat that topic line on a scene in one of those pregnancy test commercials

LOL

Ok, first of all, breathe :)

Second of all, I was feeling just like you were last week :/ so I know how you feel....I'm sure lots of us do.

The thing right now is to go get a preggers test....you have to face the music one way or another...so get it done because you may be worrying over nothing! :)

Best of luck to you both....I'm sorry you're in this predicament, but either way, you both will be fine....just keep your eyes on the big picture! (L)

I just hope it's normal to feel this way I'm feeling right now.......... and btw, he's feeling just the same!

Hahaha, yeah it took me a second when I saw the other thread...but as I said, I was there last week....

When it was finally discovered that I was not, in fact, pregnant...I felt like Rizzo from Grease when she was on the ferris wheel :lol:

Either way you two will be fine...and I'll pass on what my friends said to me....'there's never a perfect time'....now I don't know if I fully believe that 100% (I'm not insured for pregnancy :wacko: so my case was different)...but at the end of the day, regardless of the probbos that we would face...it would be a blessing...hrmmmm....maybe they are right after all :lol:

Just take one step at a time, and you will be fine! (L)

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I just hope it's normal to feel this way I'm feeling right now.......... and btw, he's feeling just the same!

maybe you're both pregnant? :unsure:

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When it was finally discovered that I was not, in fact, pregnant...I felt like Rizzo from Grease when she was on the ferris wheel :lol:

:lol::lol: I think of that scene everytime I find out I'm not

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Uhm....did I miss something here? You started a thread just minutes before this one saying YAY I might be pregnant.

"We met last month as you all know...... I'm late, feeling hungry, lost some weight, eating like a mad person, crying a lot, people are saying a look a lot prettier and my eyes are so bright!

I want to have his baby more than anything in this whole world. And if this is it, we're ready! Come you baby..... mommy and daddy are waiting for you

He's gonna be such a great dad.... he's a wonderful man and I have no doubt he'll make our baby very happy! We talk about family a lot and we know that having a baby is gonna be very special. We lived together for 2 years and everytime we saw a happy family somewhere we'd come home. lay in bed and talk about how much we wanted to have that. He tells me he still feels that way everytime he sees a dad playing with his son.

Anyway..... it doesn't matter when the baby comes.... he/she will have a mom and a dad will love him/her more than anything in this whole world! And two families that are really hoping this pregnancy is real. lol

I'll have the result on Thursday!"

Just wondering....

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Uhm....did I miss something here? You started a thread just minutes before this one saying YAY I might be pregnant.

Just wondering....

You didnt miss anything..... :no: I started both of them because I feel both ways :) If you read the two threads you'll understand this was just a way of letting you know exactly how I feel and of getting it out of my sistem. :blush:

Talked to a friend that just had a baby last month and she said it's normal to have mixed feelings when you think you might be pregnant. I just feel happy and a little sad at the same time..... each thread explains each feeling, that's all. :star:

OUR COMPLETE TIMELINE

Latest steps:

10/26/2006- Consulate receives case (seriously, one month to receive the case?? BS!), and packet 3 that I sent even before they had received the case.

01/02/2007- Interview!!!!!!!!!!!!! Got a 221(g)

01/23/2007- Second Interview. VISA granted!!!

01/29/2007- VISA arrived.... no envelope though. I'm gonna contact them and see what happened this time!

01/31/2007- I'll have to send them one last financial support evidence.

02/01/2007- Evidence sent

02/02/2007- Evidence received by Consulate

02/06/2007- Consulate sends envelope!

02/07/2007- Envelope received!!!

02/10/2007- Flew to the USA!!!!!!

04/17/2007- Wedding day!!!

--- Wish us luck!!! ---

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A couple months back, I was in your shoes. We thought I was pregnant, for about 3 months, no way of testing without everyone knowing. I was the same way, he was hysterical. We want kids, no doubt, but not right now. After getting back to the states, I found out that I was NOT pregnant. It was a scary thought, that for at least 2/3's of the pregnancy he wouldn't be here. That's all we thought about for the longest time.

On the plus side, if you are, you created something great. All you can do is hope you will be together SOON. Good luck! :thumbs: Smile, it will be ok! :)

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Well I've BEEN pregnant - so I KNOW that feeling both ways is PERFECTLY normal.

Assuming you are prggero and its not a false alarm I mean.

But when you *are* (either now or later) your mind starts helpfully going all every possible disaster scenario you can think of (and some I think it makes up on the spot to scare you witless) - along witht he joy part.

You start imagining you will have a baby with birth defects, you're going to miscarry, yadda yadda and so on - you will go thru PANIC, and FEAR - its all normal - cos a stage of life is ending and a new one is beginning.

Don't stress on the stressing (if that makes sense) just let your mind take you thru it but know that most of these 'disasters' are unlikely. I was convinced for a while I was carrying a dead baby cos she hadn't kicked for a while - it started as a little nagging doubt and became full blown panic in about a day - when she DID kick again (and she probably had been before but I just hadn't felt it) the relief was almost enough to make me feel faint.

You will go thru highs and lows to an extremeness (is that a word? lol) you have never felt before.

its normal.

And congrats if you are 'in the family way' as my nan used to say (F) and don't worry about the being together part - the first 3 -5 months are fairly boring anyways and I'm sure he won't miss your mood swings ;)

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