Just venting

[friendlygal25 0]

I joined VisaJourney about a year ago and I am very thankful to VJ because it helped us very much with my visa journey.

The reason I am posting this, it is because I just want to express how I feel about those VJers that all they’ve been doing are making fun, posting replies that irrelevant to the original posts, or giving insensitive comments to the OP or those who replied. I can say that Philippine forum in particular is not as good as before. I am very disappointed because it has been going on like this almost everyday already. I myself, is very discouraged to posts my queries anymore because I know someone will make fun out of it too regardless of the topic. I just wish that this will be stopped. I wish that if someone posts something that will be useful to those who are new in this journey , no one will ruin the discussion.

To those who understand me, thank you but to those who will not agree…well, good luck and God bless. Peace again.

[Ndrangeta_one 0]

I joined VisaJourney about a year ago and I am very thankful to VJ because it helped us very much with my visa journey.

The reason I am posting this, it is because I just want to express how I feel about those VJers that all they’ve been doing are making fun, posting replies that irrelevant to the original posts, or giving insensitive comments to the OP or those who replied. I can say that Philippine forum in particular is not as good as before. I am very disappointed because it has been going on like this almost everyday already. I myself, is very discouraged to posts my queries anymore because I know someone will make fun out of it too regardless of the topic. I just wish that this will be stopped. I wish that if someone posts something that will be useful to those who are new in this journey , no one will ruin the discussion.

To those who understand me, thank you but to those who will not agree…well, good luck and God bless. Peace again.

Well said.... :thumbs:

You can always PM (private message) anyone here if you do not feel like posting certain queries.

the replies may not be as fast...but I am sure everyone is willing to help if they can.

[JORDANTONI09 10]

I joined VisaJourney about a year ago and I am very thankful to VJ because it helped us very much with my visa journey.

The reason I am posting this, it is because I just want to express how I feel about those VJers that all they’ve been doing are making fun, posting replies that irrelevant to the original posts, or giving insensitive comments to the OP or those who replied. I can say that Philippine forum in particular is not as good as before. I am very disappointed because it has been going on like this almost everyday already. I myself, is very discouraged to posts my queries anymore because I know someone will make fun out of it too regardless of the topic. I just wish that this will be stopped. I wish that if someone posts something that will be useful to those who are new in this journey , no one will ruin the discussion.

To those who understand me, thank you but to those who will not agree…well, good luck and God bless. Peace again.

I really feel you on this one, I've been going through the same things. It's why I PM certain members, especially the really nice and pleasent members who have gone through the journey already. I'm sure that you will find good people on here too, Good Luck and God bless.

[marriedtomrg 141]

I know what you mean.

You'd be surprised at the number of highly insensitive posts on the other boards. Poor guys and gals are pouring their heart out over a number of personal circumstances (such as administrative processing, major changes in their family, etc.) and yet they get bashed and judged.

It is disappointing, to say the least.

[bowgirl 8]

I joined VisaJourney about a year ago and I am very thankful to VJ because it helped us very much with my visa journey.

The reason I am posting this, it is because I just want to express how I feel about those VJers that all they’ve been doing are making fun, posting replies that irrelevant to the original posts, or giving insensitive comments to the OP or those who replied. I can say that Philippine forum in particular is not as good as before. I am very disappointed because it has been going on like this almost everyday already. I myself, is very discouraged to posts my queries anymore because I know someone will make fun out of it too regardless of the topic. I just wish that this will be stopped. I wish that if someone posts something that will be useful to those who are new in this journey , no one will ruin the discussion.

To those who understand me, thank you but to those who will not agree…well, good luck and God bless. Peace again.

I know exactly what you mean..

I just send private message to reliable people i know when i have questions regarding the process because i've seen many threads (asking something about the visa process) being hijacked and sometimes the real topic is lost.

[Loolie 56]

I joined VisaJourney about a year ago and I am very thankful to VJ because it helped us very much with my visa journey.

The reason I am posting this, it is because I just want to express how I feel about those VJers that all they’ve been doing are making fun, posting replies that irrelevant to the original posts, or giving insensitive comments to the OP or those who replied. I can say that Philippine forum in particular is not as good as before. I am very disappointed because it has been going on like this almost everyday already. I myself, is very discouraged to posts my queries anymore because I know someone will make fun out of it too regardless of the topic. I just wish that this will be stopped. I wish that if someone posts something that will be useful to those who are new in this journey , no one will ruin the discussion.

To those who understand me, thank you but to those who will not agree…well, good luck and God bless. Peace again.

just dont vent coz you cant really pleased everybody...theres always people who will ruin some post and theres nothing you can do to stop it. just dont take things seriously coz this is just a forum though it is helpful but why waste time of getting disappointed to people that you dont know.

[rheanick 42]

I joined VisaJourney about a year ago and I am very thankful to VJ because it helped us very much with my visa journey.

The reason I am posting this, it is because I just want to express how I feel about those VJers that all they’ve been doing are making fun, posting replies that irrelevant to the original posts, or giving insensitive comments to the OP or those who replied. I can say that Philippine forum in particular is not as good as before. I am very disappointed because it has been going on like this almost everyday already. I myself, is very discouraged to posts my queries anymore because I know someone will make fun out of it too regardless of the topic. I just wish that this will be stopped. I wish that if someone posts something that will be useful to those who are new in this journey , no one will ruin the discussion.

To those who understand me, thank you but to those who will not agree…well, good luck and God bless. Peace again.

Just report those offensive posts directly to the moderator. Just press on the REPORT BUTTON located on the bottom left.

BTW, i agree on your post.

[Iris&Norman 0]

Maybe make it a point to hit the !REPORT button when a post is inappropriate?

Maybe the mods or Capt will do something about the individual(s)?

Maybe this isn't a "family based immigration" regional sub-forum; maybe its a pimp-n-ho, lie, insult, be rude forum?

Maybe there are things I think but do not say because it is not helpful or maybe it is really because Iris forbids me!

Edited October 13, 2009 by Iris&Norman

[SuperDuper! 230]

Maybe make it a point to hit the !REPORT button when a post that is inappropriate?

Maybe the mods or Capt will do something about the individual(s)?

Maybe this isn't a "family based immigration" regional sub-forum; maybe its a pimp-n-ho, lie, insult, be rude forum?

Maybe there are things I think but do not say because it is not helpful or maybe it is really because Iris forbids me!

[k1/k2 1]

I joined VisaJourney about a year ago and I am very thankful to VJ because it helped us very much with my visa journey.

The reason I am posting this, it is because I just want to express how I feel about those VJers that all they’ve been doing are making fun, posting replies that irrelevant to the original posts, or giving insensitive comments to the OP or those who replied. I can say that Philippine forum in particular is not as good as before. I am very disappointed because it has been going on like this almost everyday already. I myself, is very discouraged to posts my queries anymore because I know someone will make fun out of it too regardless of the topic. I just wish that this will be stopped. I wish that if someone posts something that will be useful to those who are new in this journey , no one will ruin the discussion.

To those who understand me, thank you but to those who will not agree…well, good luck and God bless. Peace again.

Well said.... :thumbs:

You can always PM (private message) anyone here if you do not feel like posting certain queries.

the replies may not be as fast...but I am sure everyone is willing to help if they can.

yes i agree!!.. very well said.... :thumbs:

[k1/k2 1]

I joined VisaJourney about a year ago and I am very thankful to VJ because it helped us very much with my visa journey.

The reason I am posting this, it is because I just want to express how I feel about those VJers that all they’ve been doing are making fun, posting replies that irrelevant to the original posts, or giving insensitive comments to the OP or those who replied. I can say that Philippine forum in particular is not as good as before. I am very disappointed because it has been going on like this almost everyday already. I myself, is very discouraged to posts my queries anymore because I know someone will make fun out of it too regardless of the topic. I just wish that this will be stopped. I wish that if someone posts something that will be useful to those who are new in this journey , no one will ruin the discussion.

To those who understand me, thank you but to those who will not agree…well, good luck and God bless. Peace again.

just dont vent coz you cant really pleased everybody...theres always people who will ruin some post and theres nothing you can do to stop it. just dont take things seriously coz this is just a forum though it is helpful but why waste time of getting disappointed to people that you dont know.

yeah correct too....

[Lancelotte25 1]

That was a great inputs friendlygal25, I agree with you. I remember this post about meeting their fiances on the web most replies are coming from our ladies here and some of them are actually fighting over that forum.

[AbbynSheryl 0]

nicely put in words

i had horrible experience here with my posts but i read in some where that

" GREAT PEOPLE TALK ABOUT IDEAS

AVERAGE PEOPLE TALK ABOUT THINGS

CHEAP PEOPLE TALK ABOUT PEOPLE,"

it did not bother me a little bcz i know only cheap people talked about me bcz of jealously. if u have any bad experience just ignore them.

abby n sheryl

[Lancelotte25 1]

nicely put in words

i had horrible experience here with my posts but i read in some where that

" GREAT PEOPLE TALK ABOUT IDEAS

AVERAGE PEOPLE TALK ABOUT THINGS

CHEAP PEOPLE TALK ABOUT PEOPLE,"

it did not bother me a little bcz i know only cheap people talked about me bcz of jealously. if u have any bad experience just ignore them.

abby n sheryl

Yeah, I remember that post Abby, it's about your crib for Sheryl.

[tallcoolone 102]

Yes I Agree

Many times I have cried cuz of the mean post of some people on here