Possible to divorce your husband?

[Mem n Chris 0]

My friend was asking if possible to divorce her husband because of his ex wife (USC) until now the ex wife has nothing to do but to give bS to my friend and to her husband. Because the ex wife wants her to live miserable here in US like calling her a ####### etc..Asking her husband lot of stuff to do and the ex wife never stop messaging her husband almost everyday eventhough not related with the kids.

How does the divorce works? I mean do you have to have to text your ex knowing he is already married to another one??

obviously the ex wife wants to ruin their marriage by giving them a difficult situation end up arguing and fighting. my friend is trying to understand every circumstances but she's fed up!

she has 2 year GC.

any replies much appreciated.

CHeers!

[Dakine 26]

My friend was asking if possible to divorce her husband because of his ex wife (USC) until now the ex wife has nothing to do but to give bS to my friend and to her husband. Because the ex wife wants her to live miserable here in US like calling her a ####### etc..Asking her husband lot of stuff to do and the ex wife never stop messaging her husband almost everyday eventhough not related with the kids.

How does the divorce works? I mean do you have to have to text your ex knowing he is already married to another one??

obviously the ex wife wants to ruin their marriage by giving them a difficult situation end up arguing and fighting. my friend is trying to understand every circumstances but she's fed up!

she has 2 year GC.

any replies much appreciated.

CHeers!

What kind of visa did she come on?

[walls1010 3]

My friend was asking if possible to divorce her husband because of his ex wife (USC) until now the ex wife has nothing to do but to give bS to my friend and to her husband. Because the ex wife wants her to live miserable here in US like calling her a ####### etc..Asking her husband lot of stuff to do and the ex wife never stop messaging her husband almost everyday eventhough not related with the kids.

How does the divorce works? I mean do you have to have to text your ex knowing he is already married to another one??

obviously the ex wife wants to ruin their marriage by giving them a difficult situation end up arguing and fighting. my friend is trying to understand every circumstances but she's fed up!

she has 2 year GC.

any replies much appreciated.

CHeers!

why divorce her husband if his ex was the one causing all the problems? tell your friend to record and keep all the text messages from the ex and sue her. if your friend really love her husband then she should stand with him and resolve together the problem.

[DARUMA07 25]

Your friend needs to toughen up. She needs to stand up to the ex-wife. Divorce is a cop out in this situation.

[Eric-Pris 1,606]

Why doesn't your friend's husband tell his ex-wife to stop interefering in their lives? Maybe cause he's still messing around with her? Or maybe he likes 2 women fighting over him.

Tell your "friend" to tell the ex-wife to fluck off. If your friend is a Filipina she probably weighs like 95lbs soaking wet, and the ex-wife probably outweighs her by 40-50 lbs but tell her not to be afraid.

Edited October 9, 2009 by Eric-Pris

[Kardi_Shian 0]

your friend needs to talk to her husband and her husband has to have the balls to tell his witch wife to fudge off and leave him alone. Ex's tend to ruin relationships. Mine got ruined because sadly, my husband chose not to end all ties with his ex-gf even if they have no reason to be communicating with each other anymore.

If she will divorce him, she can do that but she has to have a job and enough savings to self petition herself.

[*JG* 2]

My friend was asking if possible to divorce her husband because of his ex wife (USC) until now the ex wife has nothing to do but to give bS to my friend and to her husband. Because the ex wife wants her to live miserable here in US like calling her a ####### etc..Asking her husband lot of stuff to do and the ex wife never stop messaging her husband almost everyday eventhough not related with the kids.

How does the divorce works? I mean do you have to have to text your ex knowing he is already married to another one??

obviously the ex wife wants to ruin their marriage by giving them a difficult situation end up arguing and fighting. my friend is trying to understand every circumstances but she's fed up!

she has 2 year GC.

any replies much appreciated.

CHeers!

I'm in this situation myself right now. You can just give up and divorce him if you want. But, why? If it's just the ex-wife, you need to find a way to deal with it. Tell your husband it is bothering you and see what you guys can work out. I've learned though, HE has to be the one to put his foot down and say stop this. And, sometimes they are loathe to do that because of the kids and her using them to get back at him for something or other. Or sometimes they are just plain chicken shyt and she's a big bully.

As far as saying stuff directly to her....in my experience, the ex will just say it behind the back. Never brave enough to say anything to your face. You just tough it out. Hold your head high. I don't even respond cause I know it's not true and I know he knows it's not true and I know everyone she is talking to that matters to me knows it's not true. I refuse to stoop down to her level.

If you want to talk some in private, PM me and I'll share. It's not easy; but if he is worth it, you will figure out a way to work it out.

[Mem n Chris 0]

your friend needs to talk to her husband and her husband has to have the balls to tell his witch wife to fudge off and leave him alone. Ex's tend to ruin relationships. Mine got ruined because sadly, my husband chose not to end all ties with his ex-gf even if they have no reason to be communicating with each other anymore.

If she will divorce him, she can do that but she has to have a job and enough savings to self petition herself.

What the ex wife does? she always use their kids and my friend doesnt want to compete with kids.

so what she can do now? its not good to be quite at all times!

thanks

[Mem n Chris 0]

My friend was asking if possible to divorce her husband because of his ex wife (USC) until now the ex wife has nothing to do but to give bS to my friend and to her husband. Because the ex wife wants her to live miserable here in US like calling her a ####### etc..Asking her husband lot of stuff to do and the ex wife never stop messaging her husband almost everyday eventhough not related with the kids.

How does the divorce works? I mean do you have to have to text your ex knowing he is already married to another one??

obviously the ex wife wants to ruin their marriage by giving them a difficult situation end up arguing and fighting. my friend is trying to understand every circumstances but she's fed up!

she has 2 year GC.

any replies much appreciated.

CHeers!

I'm in this situation myself right now. You can just give up and divorce him if you want. But, why? If it's just the ex-wife, you need to find a way to deal with it. Tell your husband it is bothering you and see what you guys can work out. I've learned though, HE has to be the one to put his foot down and say stop this. And, sometimes they are loathe to do that because of the kids and her using them to get back at him for something or other. Or sometimes they are just plain chicken shyt and she's a big bully.

As far as saying stuff directly to her....in my experience, the ex will just say it behind the back. Never brave enough to say anything to your face. You just tough it out. Hold your head high. I don't even respond cause I know it's not true and I know he knows it's not true and I know everyone she is talking to that matters to me knows it's not true. I refuse to stoop down to her level.

If you want to talk some in private, PM me and I'll share. It's not easy; but if he is worth it, you will figure out a way to work it out.

My friend can read all her messages to her hubby. ex wife still messaging her hubby hoping and expecting they will be together soon by using their kids whewww!!!

[R and F 34]

Why doesn't your friend's husband tell his ex-wife to stop interefering in their lives? Maybe cause he's still messing around with her? Or maybe he likes 2 women fighting over him.

Tell your "friend" to tell the ex-wife to fluck off. If your friend is a Filipina she probably weighs like 95lbs soaking wet, and the ex-wife probably outweighs her by 40-50 lbs but tell her not to be afraid.

Is that a fat joke?

[Mem n Chris 0]

My friend was asking if possible to divorce her husband because of his ex wife (USC) until now the ex wife has nothing to do but to give bS to my friend and to her husband. Because the ex wife wants her to live miserable here in US like calling her a ####### etc..Asking her husband lot of stuff to do and the ex wife never stop messaging her husband almost everyday eventhough not related with the kids.

How does the divorce works? I mean do you have to have to text your ex knowing he is already married to another one??

obviously the ex wife wants to ruin their marriage by giving them a difficult situation end up arguing and fighting. my friend is trying to understand every circumstances but she's fed up!

she has 2 year GC.

any replies much appreciated.

CHeers!

why divorce her husband if his ex was the one causing all the problems? tell your friend to record and keep all the text messages from the ex and sue her. if your friend really love her husband then she should stand with him and resolve together the problem.

do you think my friend can sue ex wife? what grounds? ruining marriage? can file for restraining order?

confused! huhuwawa

[km24 0]

My friend was asking if possible to divorce her husband because of his ex wife (USC) until now the ex wife has nothing to do but to give bS to my friend and to her husband. Because the ex wife wants her to live miserable here in US like calling her a ####### etc..Asking her husband lot of stuff to do and the ex wife never stop messaging her husband almost everyday eventhough not related with the kids.

How does the divorce works? I mean do you have to have to text your ex knowing he is already married to another one??

obviously the ex wife wants to ruin their marriage by giving them a difficult situation end up arguing and fighting. my friend is trying to understand every circumstances but she's fed up!

she has 2 year GC.

any replies much appreciated.

CHeers!

why divorce her husband if his ex was the one causing all the problems? tell your friend to record and keep all the text messages from the ex and sue her. if your friend really love her husband then she should stand with him and resolve together the problem.

I AGREE.. Divorce is not the solution.. Just because of the ex wife, she's giving up her marriage?

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

moved from Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from Family Based Visas to changes forum.

[Sprailenes 47]

Tell your friend to get a backbone and tell her husband to get one too.

[Old Dominion 26]

Step One is for hubby to get a new cell number. Then go from there. Or, file a complaint with the phone company about harrassment. Or, block her number. Probably he doesn't want to do anything at all...