Where is the depressed forum?

[sdw 10]

OMG Beth I am so sorry. You have been a great help to us all and have helped me many times when I was quite down.

[sachinky 465]

Oh my goodness, that is just awful. Be strong, dear. I can't imagine what you're going through right now.

[Pman's Wife 0]

Its not worth venting anymore over him and what he did to me. All lies and deceit on his part.

But I will stay in touch JJ, Hugs(((((((((((()))))))))))))))

Beth

You deserve the best Beth. Nothing less. Good for you for not accepting bad treatment. Thank you for your kind words of support along the way. I hope to see you checking in from time to time, sharing any good news.

From what I'm reading, this visa process can be a real relationship-buster. A long distance relationship is not easy to maintain. It takes a tremendous amount of maturity, wisdom, and luck to build in certain coping mechanisms for this journey.

I see more than a few relationships imploding under the pressure on this site. The ones that are faring well are up to their eyeballs in activities. The idle minds are falling prey to distractions. I can't help but think the extended separation is a major factor in most of the manifesting problems (major flaws in character not withstanding).

I had no idea it could be this hard.

[brooklyn 0]

why is your interview date not assign,,,,,, your case was completed in aug

Because she is from Canada, and we're currently back logged by 5 to 6 months.

It's ''FUN'' stuff.

Okay where is the forum for me???, Im no longer a CR1 filer, no longer waiting for interview, no longer in AP/AR

Not waiting on visa to be issued, Im withdrawing it, and filing for divorce. Treat me like ####### and I take it, shame on me,

cheat on me and I find out, well have no fury like a scorn woman!!!!!!!!!!!

Where is the scorn woman forum??????????????????

WHAT ON EARTH? Beth, I'm so sorry.

And karma, what goes around, comes around.

And dear Beth, you are beautiful.

Oh yeah, I found out lots I did not know. So okay, I pick myself up, dust myself off, and breath. Easier said then done, but I will do it. Found out other true facts, but I wont post. WOW, what a morning!!

You'll be able to do it Beth, you're a strong woman. And a inspiration to me if I might add. And forgive me for saying this but I'm glad the visa was not approved if he really did so much hurtful things behind your back. Karma will snip him. You'll be okay and we are all here for you if you need us! And yes, don't forget to breath deep.

As of this am, visa was still being processed, until now, Im withdrawing it, I contacted my senator, Paris and one going to USCIS and the Dept of State. YOU dont do this to a person you claimed of loved with your whole heart.

I think in my heart I knew , but denied it all cause I love him, but light shined through to protect me.

Im not a ugly hearted person, cranky at times, but a good girl who believes in marriage vows, and self respect for herself.

I wonder why God lead me on this journey to feel such hurt and pain in my head and heart in the very end. But one day I will know.

Wow I am so sorry

Brooklyn

[Beth/ Paris Heart 2]

why is your interview date not assign,,,,,, your case was completed in aug

Because she is from Canada, and we're currently back logged by 5 to 6 months.

It's ''FUN'' stuff.

Okay where is the forum for me???, Im no longer a CR1 filer, no longer waiting for interview, no longer in AP/AR

Not waiting on visa to be issued, Im withdrawing it, and filing for divorce. Treat me like ####### and I take it, shame on me,

cheat on me and I find out, well have no fury like a scorn woman!!!!!!!!!!!

Where is the scorn woman forum??????????????????

WHAT ON EARTH? Beth, I'm so sorry.

And karma, what goes around, comes around.

And dear Beth, you are beautiful.

Oh yeah, I found out lots I did not know. So okay, I pick myself up, dust myself off, and breath. Easier said then done, but I will do it. Found out other true facts, but I wont post. WOW, what a morning!!

You'll be able to do it Beth, you're a strong woman. And a inspiration to me if I might add. And forgive me for saying this but I'm glad the visa was not approved if he really did so much hurtful things behind your back. Karma will snip him. You'll be okay and we are all here for you if you need us! And yes, don't forget to breath deep.

As of this am, visa was still being processed, until now, Im withdrawing it, I contacted my senator, Paris and one going to USCIS and the Dept of State. YOU dont do this to a person you claimed of loved with your whole heart.

I think in my heart I knew , but denied it all cause I love him, but light shined through to protect me.

Im not a ugly hearted person, cranky at times, but a good girl who believes in marriage vows, and self respect for herself.

I wonder why God lead me on this journey to feel such hurt and pain in my head and heart in the very end. But one day I will know.

Wow I am so sorry

Brooklyn

Thank you all, I will be okay, would of been worse for me later if he came here. And I realize that now.

[lonie 0]

I am really sorry that you are going through this, Beth. You have helped alot of people with your knowledge and inspired more with your determination. Remember always that you are worth everything and more. You have alot of friends here and I am sure in your own life. Take comfort from them now.

[Mohan bahadur 3]

Dear Beth, I hope you are doing well. As much as I got to know you I know you can handle yourslef just like you said, Get up, dust off and move on.

I remember one particular question you asked me back in May, or it must have been june, on phone and that question is somewhat stuck in my mind since then about you two. I know we were talking about relationships and then suddenly your brought up the age difference between you two. Then you asked if he was "merely trying to get his green card."

Not knowing your relationship with him well enough, I didnt have a direct answer but I beat the bush. However, I did warn you then to be careful and look out for yourself before looking out for others.

Anyways, that was then and this is now.

I feel Glad, Sad, Mad And Bad , all at the same time as I read your recent posts here at VJ.

As alwyas Wish you All the best . thinkink of calling you soon. take care

Edited November 16, 2009 by Mohan bahadur

[carolynhotstuff 252]

Tonight I am unable to sleep and feeling depressed. Like so many others we are still waiting on our NOA2. It's been 3 months worth of waiting. I am prepared for this long process but I don't think my husband is.

My husband is really starting to worry and feel stressed. I try to tell him the normal wait time is 5 months but he looks so sad when I tell him that. I tell him we just have to be strong. He was also depressed because Pakistan changed their rules and made it harder for Americans to get a Visa to visit there. He is worried I won't be able to get a Visa to come to his interview and I really need to be there when the time comes.

I am so lucky to have him in my life. I miss him so much. I don't have the money to fly there until time for the interview so I have to be content to just hear his voice and see his face on the computer. I don't know how many more months I will have to go without holding his hands or feeling his lips on mine. I feel like a lost puppy dog without my husband being here.

I am so happy to have VJ to come to to read, gain knowledge and vent.

[yohino 22]

I'm checking myself in to the depressed forum now...

Almost 3 months since our NOA1 and not a single touch since.

I was able to be happy the last week since my husband came here to visit me but after dropping him off at the airport earlier today I can just feel all the energy leave my body.

Being away from the person you love is hard enough but it's even harder when you have no idea when you get to see eachother the next time.

I know there are people out there who aren't as fortunate as we are,since we just got to see eachother but I can't help this crappy feeling inside. Atleast tomorrow it will be one day closer til I get to see him again!

Take care guys!

Edited January 8, 2010 by yohino

[Bob g 11]

Hello depression forum. My K1 was denied last week, so you can imagine the way I feel. It is too cold to travel, 9 degree this morning, to get Married and start a new Visa Process. I am glad to see there are other people out here making good progress on their journey. Good Luck everyone. Bob.....

[carolynhotstuff 252]

Bob I am so sorry you didn't get your Visa. Good luck with your future plans to get married.

[Bob g 11]

Bob I am so sorry you didn't get your Visa. Good luck with your future plans to get married.

thanks for the good luck wish. I understand what you are going through with waiting on the NOA2, that is the longest wait. we are very fortunate to have computers to chat very often, and get to see each other often also. Hope the weather will change for the better so I can fly and see my SO. Good Luck everyone.......bob......

[sachinky 465]

In a cruel twist of fate, I no longer look forward to weekends.

For the love of God, CSC, come on.

[carolynhotstuff 252]

They may work over-time at CSC. I hope they do work on weekends but if not all we can do is wait. I feel like I've aged 5 years sense I started this process. My hubby looks so tired from all the stress.

[Bob g 11]

I know what you mean, " I feel like I have aged 5 years". I started in 08, waited through all of 09, and starting all over in 2010, and more waiting, and waiting, and waiting.