Where is the depressed forum?

[chinese_mutt 11]

PS: I'm also depressed. ABOUT NOTHING. I can't explain it... maybe it's the hormones. Who knows. It comes and goes. I get upset one moment and be happy the next. It's a roller coaster. But I'll be okay.

Its hormones my dear Ivey, it will pass after a while , the first 3 months is a emontional rollercoaster!!! You will be fine.

yeah, i thought so as much. weird things going on inside me. hehehe. thank you though.

sorry for worrying you guys all the time....

i dont mean to, but i hit the lowest of lows this morning, and it all just came at once, and then after i have had a couple of long chats to hubby, i am once again feeling a bit better, and i am going to give it a go.

i know that when we ARE together, things are good and my life seems better, so i am going to go to the USA and give it a shot.

anyway, thanks for the support... it means a lot.

next week is the second week of Nov which means i should hear about an interview date, so we will see....

time will tell how my story will turn out, but for now, i am taking a chance. in the past few days, hubby has really stepped it up and is showing me he is committed and we will be ok.

xxxxx.

that's the spirit. be strong... you'll be okay too.

[meowmeowmeow 1]

how do you all handle this uncertainty before the interview? i dont know what to feel, sad, happy, nervous, what? i hate not knowing when i'm going to see my husband again

[Lily1 0]

that reminded me that when i was in india last, i took his cologne that he wore everyday. so now i spray my sheets and pillow every time i change the bed.

donna, i love the pics, you keep changing up on us

hahahha i love this idea the only thing is i did not bring the cologne but i should have brought a t-shirt he wore that i liked the colonge that was on it would have gone by now but at least i would have the tshirt with me i might ask him to DHL that as in the ds230 hahhahahaha

[Lily1 0]

how do you all handle this uncertainty before the interview? i dont know what to feel, sad, happy, nervous, what? i hate not knowing when i'm going to see my husband again

okay i can totally relate to this ,, okay we have an interview about in a month , and i am going crazyyy my husband poor him i got him up early in the morning yesterday , and ask him to write a to do for an interview which is a month an half away ,, poor him and he really wrote it it down now i cannot study ( i am in grad school) as i type now i have a test tommorow and i don't want to study for it all i do is come here and read forum , what is wrong with me ,, omg i am not focusing i want the day the time to go by fast and i am about a month and half but i am not acting normal helpppppppppppp what do i need to do ??

[spectheintro 18]

Yeah, I don't think I've been this depressed about anything, ever. I can't believe how long the NVC is taking with my case. I had everything assembled, ready to go, in early September. I was so ready. I missed this one stupid birth certificate, and despite sending it in before they even knew they needed it, it's been 3 weeks now, and I had to kick and scream and send a scanned copy to even get them to acknowledge receipt of the damn thing! Much less complete my case. I really don't know what to do anymore.

No matter what anyone tells you, don't ever try and pre-empt an RFE. I asked the NVC for advice and they told me to do this, and the result has been my case processing has been UNBELIEVABLY delayed. I can honestly say I hate my life right now.

[sachinky 465]

Whose BC did you miss, spec? I'm sorry, don't worry. You'll get a case complete any day now.

Edited November 5, 2009 by sachinky

[mrsemcee 1]

Yeah, I don't think I've been this depressed about anything, ever. I can't believe how long the NVC is taking with my case. I had everything assembled, ready to go, in early September. I was so ready. I missed this one stupid birth certificate, and despite sending it in before they even knew they needed it, it's been 3 weeks now, and I had to kick and scream and send a scanned copy to even get them to acknowledge receipt of the damn thing! Much less complete my case. I really don't know what to do anymore.

No matter what anyone tells you, don't ever try and pre-empt an RFE. I asked the NVC for advice and they told me to do this, and the result has been my case processing has been UNBELIEVABLY delayed. I can honestly say I hate my life right now.

fffaaaarrrkkkk that happened to me too, and i hear you

big cuddles and stuff... we'll get through it.

[sdw 10]

waiting on a case complete after an RFE her too. Sucks and have been feeling like crying for day now. Although sure this won't be the last of them as I will interview in Montreal and well that's not going to happen anytime soon.

[lgg 2]

sdw...

word on that.

I'm so freaking upset these days.

I hate montreal.

Dunno if you read my post in the CR1 Interview Timeline thread? But that's my theory and I'm pretty sure i'm right.

Sorry about your RFE and stuff. This whole process sucks.

LGG

waiting on a case complete after an RFE her too. Sucks and have been feeling like crying for day now. Although sure this won't be the last of them as I will interview in Montreal and well that's not going to happen anytime soon.

[Bern. 3]

sdw...

word on that.

I'm so freaking upset these days.

I hate montreal.

Dunno if you read my post in the CR1 Interview Timeline thread? But that's my theory and I'm pretty sure i'm right.

Sorry about your RFE and stuff. This whole process sucks.

LGG

waiting on a case complete after an RFE her too. Sucks and have been feeling like crying for day now. Although sure this won't be the last of them as I will interview in Montreal and well that's not going to happen anytime soon.

Hey noww LGG! Montreal is a beautiful city with outstanding architecture! But the US Consulate...now that's another story. But at this rate, I don't think I'll be able to have my March interview. ._. Unless we expedite. Who knows at this point. But NVC has all of our documents. Now we're waiting on a Case Complete. @_@

[lgg 2]

OH my gosh, BErn... Iknow, I love Montreal -- I lived there for 12 years, its' my fave city in Canada but you're right it's the CONSULATE within Montreal that I am hating at the mo...

Thanks for slapping me into shape..

Expedite, honey! If you can, you should do it, okay?

Good luck...

sdw...

word on that.

I'm so freaking upset these days.

I hate montreal.

Dunno if you read my post in the CR1 Interview Timeline thread? But that's my theory and I'm pretty sure i'm right.

Sorry about your RFE and stuff. This whole process sucks.

LGG

waiting on a case complete after an RFE her too. Sucks and have been feeling like crying for day now. Although sure this won't be the last of them as I will interview in Montreal and well that's not going to happen anytime soon.

Hey noww LGG! Montreal is a beautiful city with outstanding architecture! But the US Consulate...now that's another story. But at this rate, I don't think I'll be able to have my March interview. ._. Unless we expedite. Who knows at this point. But NVC has all of our documents. Now we're waiting on a Case Complete. @_@

[Bern. 3]

Your welcome! Never diss Montreal!! Mind you, I nearly got hit by several cars when I was there...but that's another story. I don't want to expedite until I'm 20 years old mainly because...I'm scared 5h*tless. I've known my husband since I was 14, we've been dating since I was 17, married at 19...we have such a history, and evidence and what not. But I've yet to hear any success stories from people around my age. I've only heard success stories from people my age that adjusted status. I'm sure they'll ask me why we got married so early too...I have all the answers, but it's still scary.

I'll stop rantingg!! Thanks for listening!

OH my gosh, BErn... Iknow, I love Montreal -- I lived there for 12 years, its' my fave city in Canada but you're right it's the CONSULATE within Montreal that I am hating at the mo...

Thanks for slapping me into shape..

Expedite, honey! If you can, you should do it, okay?

Good luck...

[Pman's Wife 0]

...I don't want to expedite until I'm 20 years old

Bern, you are wise beyond your years.

[lgg 2]

Hey there... thats' why we're here -- no one else is going to understand our rantings about this process...

Chin up, Bern...

Rant away, I sure have been!

LGG

Your welcome! Never diss Montreal!! Mind you, I nearly got hit by several cars when I was there...but that's another story. I don't want to expedite until I'm 20 years old mainly because...I'm scared 5h*tless. I've known my husband since I was 14, we've been dating since I was 17, married at 19...we have such a history, and evidence and what not. But I've yet to hear any success stories from people around my age. I've only heard success stories from people my age that adjusted status. I'm sure they'll ask me why we got married so early too...I have all the answers, but it's still scary.

I'll stop rantingg!! Thanks for listening!

OH my gosh, BErn... Iknow, I love Montreal -- I lived there for 12 years, its' my fave city in Canada but you're right it's the CONSULATE within Montreal that I am hating at the mo...

Thanks for slapping me into shape..

Expedite, honey! If you can, you should do it, okay?

Good luck...

[Pman's Wife 0]

...all i do is come here and read forum , what is wrong with me ,, omg i am not focusing i want the day the time to go by fast...

I can REALLY relate to this post, Lily! Everything seems to take soooo long! It feels like I've been in NVC forever! Hurry up and get the forms in then wait, wait, wait. Oops, I need one more form. Wait, wait, wait.

VJ is the only outlet I know of that can handle as much visa discussion as I need. I can hardly think about anything else. I feel like I'm coming apart at the seams. I had no idea we'd be apart this long