How can a person jump from one person to another???

[SSB 0]

How can people jump from one person start the immigration process then find out they are being cheated on and then jump to another person and try to start the immigration process again???

It's unfair to the ones who have a real relationship with our sig other....

[mawilson 2,133]

[raymaga 25]

I made that exact point in another topic today. I don't understand how some people treat finding a spouse like going "shopping".

After a relationship fails, there should be a grieving period and time to get to know yourself and try to figure out what went wrong and how to keep it from happening again. Then, once the healing has happened, you can consider the option of a new relationship.

It's not like when a fridge breaks down, you head out to the store to find a "replacement".

Edited October 2, 2009 by raymaga

[natty bumppo 297]

I made that exact point in another topic today. I don't understand how some people treat finding a spouse like going "shopping".

After a relationship fails, there should be a grieving period and time to get to know yourself and try to figure out what went wrong and how to keep it from happening again. Then, once the healing has happened, you can consider the option of a new relationship.

It's not like when a fridge breaks down, you head out to the store to find a "replacement".

maybe these people treat the situation like getting a new pet ... by visiting the local shelter

[mawilson 2,133]

There's no grieving period for a broken fridge?

[Malrothien 6]

There's no grieving period for a broken fridge?

Only if it's a fridge-keg!

[scandal 951]

How can people jump from one person start the immigration process then find out they are being cheated on and then jump to another person and try to start the immigration process again???

It's unfair to the ones who have a real relationship with our sig other....

In what way is it unfair to you?

I mean, you may not approve of what other people do in their personal lives but how can this possibly affect you? Live your own life, and give others the space to do their own thing.

[Chica Yeyé 41]

How can people jump from one person start the immigration process then find out they are being cheated on and then jump to another person and try to start the immigration process again???

It's unfair to the ones who have a real relationship with our sig other....

They do. And as eeewwwy, stupid, etc that it might be it is none of my business, really.

As far as it being unfair, I fail to see why.

[NArocks 13]

The make the choice to jump from one to the other. it is their CHOICE ( notice the word their ) How can you say this affects you? Why are you letting something rent this space in your head? They are the ones who have to start the process over not you..............

Choices are ours to make whether someone else likes them or not.........

[lgg 2]

Uh... it's called leapfrog, jack*sses...

God. Do I have to explain everything to you guys????

Geez...

[NArocks 13]

I wanna play ( no wait not sure hubby would like that )

[lgg 2]

He'd like it if we were all naked!!!

I wanna play ( no wait not sure hubby would like that )

[NArocks 13]

That he would sister LGG, but he is a little timid

Edited October 2, 2009 by NArocks

[Peikko 1,575]

Oh dear.

I still can't see how it would affect your process no matter what. If they were in front of you in the processing queue, they are now behind you. In fact, it could be said they have sped up your process by jumping out the queue

[lgg 2]

AWww, that's sweet, he's shy...

Now get in line and start leapfrogging!!!!

That he would sister LGG, but he is a little timid