She Reject my Visa

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Check the local talent in Kiev

Gary, I know this may come as a shock, so brace yourself...

Some guys are just not attracted to Ukrainian women.

As Alla would say..............VOOOOOOWHAT???????????????? (raise the tone a couple octaves at the end for the full affect)

[SuperDuper! 230]

Well I am sorry to hear about your troubles, but if you wanna be vindictive. Do NOT cancel the petition let it die its own natural death and NOBODY can file for here for a long period of time

I like your thinking!!!!

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Sorry, but this thinking is an irrational position and not based in fact. You can't "cancel" a petition once it has been approved by the USCIS. You can withdraw your affidavit of support and give the USCIS info on any misleading or deceit on behalf of your beneficiary. That way, she will have questions to answer at her next embassy interview.

This being the Phillipines consulate and her still having an open petition with a USC will raise a Big Ole' Red Flag and deservedly so...there has been no affidavit of support filed yet so there is not one to withdraw. Are you making this up?

It is important for the petitioner to notify in writing the USCIS, NVC, USEM of exactly what happened so the man's slate is cleared in case he wants to file another petition. You don't just do nothing and end up screwing yourself.

Where did you read this info and can you give me a link that says this is the procedure, how will you screw yourself? No real reason to notify USCIS at all, there is no slate to clean he will still have to file a waiver if he files again in the next 2 years...so there is NO NEED at all to clear his name now.

LOL

It is always better to notify and put into the official record what happened to a "failed" petition. This way you "Close the loop."

This is sound advice. If you let apathy and laziness to set in and just do nothing, it can come back to bite you. As the petitioner, why would you not document and notify the USCIS/NVC/USEM? Most men will petition another foreign woman if the last petition failed. It looks really nice in the next petition to have this failed case documented. Ultimately, it will be revisited at the Embassy interview, and there is a question on the I-134 Affidavit of support if the petitioner has ever made a petition or Affidavit of support previously. BOTTOM LINE: It's always better to document what happened. It makes your life easier in the future. Cheers and good luck.

[thepizzadude 26]

Well I am sorry to hear about your troubles, but if you wanna be vindictive. Do NOT cancel the petition let it die its own natural death and NOBODY can file for here for a long period of time

I like your thinking!!!!

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Sorry, but this thinking is an irrational position and not based in fact. You can't "cancel" a petition once it has been approved by the USCIS. You can withdraw your affidavit of support and give the USCIS info on any misleading or deceit on behalf of your beneficiary. That way, she will have questions to answer at her next embassy interview.

This being the Phillipines consulate and her still having an open petition with a USC will raise a Big Ole' Red Flag and deservedly so...there has been no affidavit of support filed yet so there is not one to withdraw. Are you making this up?

It is important for the petitioner to notify in writing the USCIS, NVC, USEM of exactly what happened so the man's slate is cleared in case he wants to file another petition. You don't just do nothing and end up screwing yourself.

Where did you read this info and can you give me a link that says this is the procedure, how will you screw yourself? No real reason to notify USCIS at all, there is no slate to clean he will still have to file a waiver if he files again in the next 2 years...so there is NO NEED at all to clear his name now.

LOL

It is always better to notify and put into the official record what happened to a "failed" petition. This way you "Close the loop."

This is sound advice. If you let apathy and laziness to set in and just do nothing, it can come back to bite you. As the petitioner, why would you not document and notify the USCIS/NVC/USEM? Most men will petition another foreign woman if the last petition failed. It looks really nice in the next petition to have this failed case documented. Ultimately, it will be revisited at the Embassy interview, and there is a question on the I-134 Affidavit of support if the petitioner has ever made a petition or Affidavit of support previously. BOTTOM LINE: It's always better to document what happened. It makes your life easier in the future. Cheers and good luck.

All subjective conjecture....I will wait for your link to REAL documented information as to your thinking, and i'm thinking I will be waiting for a long time.

[Confusedgal 0]

Hello every one, This would be Tom without Judy on this post. I have sad news,

Judy has decided not to go to the interview. This comes as a shock to me, but to some of you saw this coming.

Her reason is simple, One of her past boyfriends came back. And to keep it short. Money was involved.

She still wants to be friends. I still do talk to her.

But she is telling me now that I have to wait 2 years before I can file another Petition for someone else.

And for her it's 6 months for someone to file a petition on her behalf......IS THIS TRUE?

My orignal posts were under the name of Hoping2..

Tom

So Sad... Next time be careful of choosing a girl.