holy effin drama

[Lona.C. 16]

wow now this is some sick chicky ,

what i would do is still attend all family gatherings and be civil to everyone including the psychoward case

( I know easier said then done but ) if your civil to her and she starts her ####### at a family gathering at least the whole family will see her true color comming out maybe they realize shes a skizo ( or how you spell that thingy )

and feel the need to call the lil yellow bus to pick her up

also save every message they leave on your answering machine you can use it when if you have to file a restaining order ,

show it to the cops say see the aliens already invated the US ( lol of corse am just kidding about aliens , but that will be great effidance of harassment )

hope things work out for you

[Missa 0]

Wow... What a crazy psycho. And your fiances brother must be living in his own world not to see she's unstable and clearly not over his brother. How can you marry someone that's still hung up on their ex? How is that a good idea?

And a very interesting question may be...is your fiances brother going to invite his own brother to the wedding, or is she controlling too?

the problem is that the brother has been single for over 15 years now since his first marriage ( he's um, quite a bit older than my fiance and the ex) she has him so wrapped around her little finger. we will most certainly be inviting both of them to the wedding because after all, its still his brother but will they come? thats another thing, my guess is probably not. i know for sure that my fiance and i will not get an invite to their wedding.

[Ellie-and-David 38]

Oh dear. She is a sick lady isn't she.

Hmmmm, I'd see how it goes and if she starts the abuse again, I would start documenting it and then get a restraining order out against her. She sounds certifiable.

[Peachey 10]

Oh Missa, that's horrible

Come by my office if you're at school and I'll give you a hug! I'm F 425 and it says "Ron Kivikink" on my door.

We should really meet up sometime tho, since we do live in the same city and come to the same place everyday

[thetreble 19]

What a terrible situation to be involved in.

Some times people can't see the reality of things or people or situations. I've learned that really well this year in my life.

Lona is right, though. Be civil to her and you will come out looking like the good person. I sure did

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

Wow... What a crazy psycho. And your fiances brother must be living in his own world not to see she's unstable and clearly not over his brother. How can you marry someone that's still hung up on their ex? How is that a good idea?

And a very interesting question may be...is your fiances brother going to invite his own brother to the wedding, or is she controlling too?

the problem is that the brother has been single for over 15 years now since his first marriage ( he's um, quite a bit older than my fiance and the ex) she has him so wrapped around her little finger. we will most certainly be inviting both of them to the wedding because after all, its still his brother but will they come? thats another thing, my guess is probably not. i know for sure that my fiance and i will not get an invite to their wedding.

This gets more bizarre by the moment. I'm with Lona and everyone else here, stick to the high road and you'll come out smelling like a rose and your future SIL will come out smelling like something you spread on roses.

[Missa 0]

thanks guys.

i keep trying to stay positive, thinking maaaybe when we actually meet face to face we'll laugh about it or actually become friends. but who really knows. my future MIL already warned her not to start ####### when i move there and she's a scary woman (when she's angry)

[thetreble 19]

thanks guys.

i keep trying to stay positive, thinking maaaybe when we actually meet face to face we'll laugh about it or actually become friends. but who really knows. my future MIL already warned her not to start ####### when i move there and she's a scary woman (when she's angry)

Be positive for sure. But it's almost impossible to become friends with someone like that. She won't change. If she has a history like the one you spelled out for us, she's a nut case. I had a nutter like that in my life this year and she just got progressively worse.

[Missa 0]

well, i just hope she genuinely does love the older brother because i would hate for him to have to suffer another divorce because of her immaturity. the whole family can see how she's changed him, she's made him into a door mat.

oh well, atleast family events will have enough food to distract anyone from any drama lol

cheers i'm off to work

oh and peachy , i definitely will stop by one of these day. i seem to spend most of my time in thornloe this semester but i'll make a trip ^.~

[Peachey 10]

For sure, we can go to lunch at the Crapeteria and share our soon to be in law drama stories! And laugh hehe

[CDAgirlMI 51]

Thats nuts.

Btw....Where in Michigan do you visit?

[Missa 0]

Thats nuts.

Btw....Where in Michigan do you visit?

my fiance is from the Grand traverse area so just outside traverse city

[M613 6]

Chin up. Live and *enjoy* your life with your husband!! Cut off any and all information re: this person... Make sure you and your husband both politely request from his brother, family, whoever the hell all else that, due to incredibly unwarranted and immature behaviour on this person's part, you have no want or need to have to deal with her at all. No visits. No calls. No anecdotes about her from anyone.

Give her the shade, lady--she'll freeze out in time and KNOW that that sort of behaviour will not be acknowledged whatsoever!!

[thetreble 19]

Chin up. Live and *enjoy* your life with your husband!! Cut off any and all information re: this person... Make sure you and your husband both politely request from his brother, family, whoever the hell all else that, due to incredibly unwarranted and immature behaviour on this person's part, you have no want or need to have to deal with her at all. No visits. No calls. No anecdotes about her from anyone.

Give her the shade, lady--she'll freeze out in time and KNOW that that sort of behaviour will not be acknowledged whatsoever!!

Word.

[warlord 73]

Have you tried to contact The CW? This might make a good story line in the new Melrose Place show...